Njengoko uyazi, namhlanje (kwaye kwisithuba seeyure ezininzi) uJuana Rivas uzinikele kwezomthetho, kwaye unikwe inkululeko yokubambisa; ndiyenzile eyokugqibela endenze ndancwina. Kodwa andizukungena kuyo kuba le nto sithetha ngayo kule post malunga nezo ntombi noonyana, amaxhoba angabonakaliyo ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini, ethi ngamanye amaxesha ithathelwe ingqalelo njengolwandiso loonina, kunye Ubundlobongela benziwa kubo ngenjongo yokuphatha kunye nokubandezeleka. yoku.
Ukusukela ngoJuni ophelileyo Abantwana abayi-6 babulawa ngabazali babo, njengomphetho wothotho lweziganeko zokuphathwa gadalala kunye nobundlobongela; Ngamanye amaxesha, umxhaphazi usebenzisa iimvume azinikiweyo kulawulo lokundwendwela (okanye asebenzise ilungelo lokugcina kunye) ukuphelisa ubomi babantwana bakhe. Kuqikelelwa ukuba minyaka le zingama-840000 iintombi noonyana babafazi abaphethwe gadalala abaziziphumo zobundlobongela obusekelwe kwisini (540000 ngqo). Ngapha koko Isivumelwano sikaRhulumente ngokuchasene nobundlobongela obuphathelele kwisini esayinwe ngenyanga kaJulayi, sele zibandakanyiwe njengemilinganiselo yokupheliswa kokugcinwa kwabamanyeneyo kwabo baxhatshaziweyo, ulawulo lokundwendwela, kunye nokutyelela entolongweni ukuze abantwana babone umzali.
Kukwacetyiswa ukuba kupheliswe izivakalisi ezinciphisayo zokuphathwa gadalala (ukubuyisela umonakalo okanye ukuvuma ityala). Siye satsho ngamanye amaxesha oko Ubundlobongela besini (ubundlobongela, ukuba uyafuna) ikhona, kwaye yinto eyothusayo ebonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Okona kugqithisileyo kukubulawa kwabantu basetyhini, kwaye sihlaziye idatha namhlanje. Ayikuko ukujonga ngenye indlela, okanye ukunyamezela iziqhulo, iziqhulo ezingathandekiyo, okanye iimemes ukubuza ubunyani bezinyani.
Uninzi lwamaxhoba amabhinqa awaxeli ziganeko (malunga neepesenti ezingama-80) ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ngokuchanekileyo enye yamanyathelo eSivumelwano seLizwe esikhankanywe ngasentla kukuba "imeko yexhoba iya kwandiswa nakwabasetyhini abangekasifaki isikhalazo solwaphulo-mthetho. "Ngale ndlela, ukufikelela kwabo kwimithombo yokhuselo kunye nokunakekelwa okubanzi kuya kubakho.
Ubundlobongela: xa umxhaphazi esenzakalisa abantwana njengamaxhoba esibini.
Abantwana babesabelana ngokufanayo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abaza nabo umfazi kumaqabane angaphambili, 'bayasetyenziswa' njengezixhobo zokuphatha kakubi umama; kwezi meko banesimo esidabukisayo: Amaxhoba obundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini kunye namaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana. Ngumba ofanele ukuba ube kufanelekile, hayi kuphela ngokwembono yomthetho (ugxile "kwezona mfuno zilungileyo zabantwana", njengoko besifunda malunga nabantwana ababini bakaJuana Rivas), kodwa nangenxa yokuba ezi zidalwa ziya kusokola ukulandelelana kunye namanqaku obomi, Kwaye baya kufuna ukhathalelo lwasentlalweni kunye / okanye lwengqondo, ukulungiselela ukulungisa kunye nokuthintela ukuphazamiseka okungafaniyo. Kwakhona, ukukhula kwexesha elizayo kwesiVumelwano esichasene nobuNdlobongela obuJoliswe kwabaseTyhini kuya kuqinisekisa ukuthintela njengesixhobo esisebenzayo sokufumanisa
UPatricia hernandez Kunyaka odlulileyo wafika ebudaleni, kwaye wakhokela umbutho "Ngaphambili ngaphandle koloyiko", uyibonile indlela umama wakhe aphathwa kakubi ngayo ngutata wakhe, kwaye waziva esoyika amaxesha amaninzi. Uyazi ukuba amantombazana namakhwenkwe akacacanga kwezi meko: abanamntu wokucela uncedo, kwaye abanikwa ngqwalaselo okanye nkxaso yaneleyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto ecebise ukuba lilizwi lamanye amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe, yiyo loo nto esilwa ukuze inkqubo yezomthetho isebenzele la maxhoba. Ngamazwi akhe: "Umxhaphazi akasoze abe ngutata olungileyo."
Ubuxoki be-SAP.
I-Syndrome yokuHlaliswa kwaBazali yenziwe, okanye mandithi: ayikho kwaye ayamkelekanga kudidi lwehlabathi lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo; ikhuselwe zezinye izazinzulu namagqwetha, kwaye yaqondwa njengengcamango yokuba omnye umzali (ubukhulu becala ngumama) ubeka abantwana ngokuchasene nomnye (ubukhulu becala ngutata). Namhlanje yamkelwa ezinkundleni njengecandelo lokuchonga, ngokutsho kugqirha wezomthetho uMiguel Llorente, kodwa akufuneki kube njalo, ukuba ayamkelwa luluntu lwenzululwazi. I-SAP isetyenziselwe ukufumana amalungelo, ukugcinwa okanye ukutyelelwa ngabazali. Kwaye ngasendleleni, ngokubonakalayo eCatalonia iya kupheliswa, eziziindaba ezimnandi.
Siphila kuluntu olunezinto zenkcubeko eziqhubela phambili ubukho babantu, kwaye ezinokuthi zibe nefuthe kwinkqubo yezomthetho: yintoni amaxhoba obundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini afuna ulwazi olukhulu ngokwasentlalweni kunye nobungqongqo kwindlela ekusetyenzwa ngayo kwityala ngalinye, amatyala, kunye nokukhusela ngokufanelekileyo amaxhoba.
Okona kulungiselela umntwana.
Esona sizathu siphambili sokuba abantwana bakhathalelwe kukuba Bangabantu kuphuhliso, abasesichengeni kakhulu kwaye kwimeko yokuba sesichengeni; bona kwaye bangamaxhoba ngqo (ubundlongondlongo ngokuthe ngqo) nangokungangqalanga (ukunceda kwimpatho gadalala ephethwe ngumama). Kubonakala kucacile ukuba iya kubachaphazela kakubi: ukusuka kubundlobongela kunye nokungalingani ubudlelwane, ukuya kulibaziseko kwizifundo, ngeengxaki zentlalontle kunye neemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo, ukulala nokutya.