Uloyiko kukuziva ungaqinisekanga xa ujongene nengozi, ezinokuba zezokwenyani okanye ezentelekelelo. Olu luvo luphambili kunye nokuzikhusela lomntu luyadimaza kwaye luyimfuneko. Ngaphandle kovalo loko kungaziwayo, uloyiko lokuba ndiyasazi isiganeko esichasene noko ukulindeleyo, ubukho buya kuphela. Uloyiko lwenza ukuba ulumke, eyona ndima yalo iphambili kukusinda.
Kodwa lawula uloyiko Ingaba ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu, ngakumbi kubantwana abancinci. Uloyiko lunokukwenza ukhubazeke kwimeko ongayiqhelanga. Kubantwana kunokuba njalo kuphazamiseko olukhulu kuphuhliso lwabo. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba ufundise abantwana bakho ukuba bakwazi ukulawula uloyiko abanalo. Kodwa abanye, ukuba ubabonelele ngezixhobo eziyimfuneko ukuze boyise.
Ukunceda abantwana ukuba balwe uloyiko lwabo
Imisebenzi yootata noomama ebantwaneni ayipheli. Kubo bonke ubomi babo, kuya kufuneka ubancede bakhule, bakhule, bazithembe, bazi indlela yokwenza izigqibo nokunye okuninzi. Kodwa ngekhe ube nempendulo elula kuyo yonke imibuzo. Ngaphezulu, uninzi lwamaxesha awuzukukwazi ukujongana nalo mbandela. Ukwenza oku, unokuhlala uthembele kuncwadi, olwahlukeneyo kwaye lubanzi luhlala lusezandleni zakho ukunika uncedo oluxabisekileyo.
Ngamabali unokufumana impendulo kumathandabuzo akho amaninzi, nokuba, sebenzisa isimilo samabali ukulawula imiba eyahlukeneyo malunga nokukhuliswa kwabantwana bakho. Namhlanje siza nebali labantwana ukuze sifundise abantwana ukuba bakwazi ukulawula uloyiko lwabo.
Ilizwe lokoyika kwakho, nguPaco López Muñoz
Kudala-dala kwakukho intombazana encinci egama linguJulia, le ntombazana yayisoyika zonke izinto. UJulia wayeboyika ubumnyama, esoyika ukuba yedwa, wayekoyika naxa ekunye nabantu abaninzi. Ngaphandle koko, wayesoyika iikati nezinja, iintaka, abantu angabaziyo, amanzi olwandle, ewe, uJulia wayesoyika yonke into.
Kodwa kukho into eyayimoyikisa ngokukhethekileyo uJulia omncinci, kwaye yayizizilo ezazivela emabalini. Kuba ndandisoyika izinto ezininzi kangaka, ndandingafuni ukuya esikolweni, Kwaye wayengafuni nokuya kudlala kwaye wachitha iintsuku zakhe ezivalele endlwini yakhe ejonge ngefestile. Umama wakhe wamxelela yonke imihla ukuba aphume aye kudlala esitratweni, kodwa akazange afune kwaye waziva elusizi kakhulu ngenxa yokoyika.
Xa ubusuku bufika, uJulia wayesoyika ngakumbi kwaye wayehlala esenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukulala ebhedini nabazali bakhe. Ngobunye ubusuku, ibhedi yaqala ukuhamba kakhulu kwaye intombazana encinci yavusa abazali bayo bayoyika. Waphakama phezu kwebhedi waqala ukuxhuma ngelixa azama ukuvusa abazali bakhe. Ngokukhawuleza, kwabonakala umngxuma omkhulu ezinyaweni zakhe wawa ezantsi phantsi isilayidi.
UJulia waqala ukukhala kwaye ebiza abazali bakhe ukuba bamncede aphume apho, kodwa bebengamameli. Waqala ukuhamba efuna indlela yokuphuma, kodwa wathi akungayifumani, wangqiyama ngomthi waqala ukulila. Ngequbuliso, uJulia weva ingxolo eyayimoyikisa kakhulu, wajonga kuyo yonke indawo ukuze abone ukuba yintoni. Intombazana encinci ivale amehlo ayo ngokuqinileyo ukubona ukuba ingavuka njani na, kwaye xa ivula, kwavela inja emnyama phambi kwakhe.
UJulia wabanda kwaye ngesiquphe inja yaqala ukuthetha, undityisile! Zange ndadibana nentombazana eyoyikisayo! Ungukumkanikazi woyika!
Intombazana leyo yayingakwazi ukuvula umlomo, umxube wokumangaliswa kukubona inja ethetha kunye noloyiko oluvakala lulo ezinjeni, azimvumeli ukuba athethe. Inja ke yaqala ukucacisa kuJulia ukuba wayengubani kwaye kwakutheni ukuze abekho. Yayibizwa ngokuba Yinja kwaye wayengumgcini wehlathi lokoyika kwakhe. Wamxelela ukuba lonke uloyiko lwakhe luhlala apho kwaye ngenxa yokuba bebaninzi kakhulu, akanakulawula bonke.
UJulia wachaza ukuba akafuni koyika zonke ezo zinto, kodwa akazi ukuba angaziphepha njani. Emva koko Inja icacisile, uloyiko kufuneka loyike! Uyenza njani lonto? Wabuza uJulia. Woyikisa njani abahlobo bakho? waphendula ke uJulia ekhwaza uBuuuuuuu. Uloyiko luloyike kanjalo, waphendula uNja.
Ezimisele ukoyikisa uloyiko, uJulia wacela Inja ukuba izise kuye, kwaye ngaphandle kwendawo, inja yabeka iqhuma elikhulu kakhulu phambi kwakhe. UJulia waqala ukukhwaza u-boo, ukuze uloyiko lwakhe loyike kwaye luhambe. Kodwa ukumangaliswa kwakhe kwafika xa inja ityhila inyanda enkulu kwaye phambi kwakhe kwabonakala ukubonakala kwakhe esipilini. Emangaliswe kakhulu, wabuza inja ukuba kuthetha ntoni oko.
Inja yachaza ukuba uloyiko alukho, uzenzela uloyiko Julia, utshilo. Intombazana encinci, u-Buuu uqhubeke, kwaye yonke into emngqongileyo yaqala ukushenxa, izinja, iikati, ubumnyama, kwahamba nenja. Ukusukela ngoko, qho xa uJulia esiva uloyiko, wakhumbula ukuba uloyiko kufuneka loyike! Kwaye xa kukho into emoyikisayo wayedla ngokuthi buuuu kwaye ke, wayehlala ekwazi ukugubungela uloyiko.
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