Njengabantu bezentlalo esikuzo kufuneka senze ubudlelwane kunye nabanye. Abahlobo bayimfuneko ukudala ukukhula okuhle ngokwasentlalweni, ngokweemvakalelo nangokwengqondo. Isenza sizive silungile, bahamba nathi ngamaxesha anzima kunye namaxesha amnandi kwaye isebenza njengesiqabu xa sijongana nobunzima. Kufuneka sibe nobuhlobo obuhle, yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukubethelela kwabancinci. Sikubonisa ezinye iingcebiso zokufundisa ngexabiso lobuhlobo ebantwaneni bakho.
Ubuhlobo ebantwaneni
Abantwana bafumana ubuhlobo ngokwahlukileyo kunabantu abadala.. Umntu ongamaziyo ngokupheleleyo angangumhlobo ongenamiqathango kwimizuzu nje embalwa, into abantu abadala abafuna ixesha kunye nokuzithemba ukuze bavelise ubudlelwane obomeleleyo. Abantwana babelana ngemidlalo, amava, ukuthanda izinto, izinto abazithandayo, ukufumanisa kunye neemfihlo. Ukuqonda abadala kunye namabali amangalisayo. Ubuhlobo ebantwaneni busempilweni, ngaphandle komdla kwaye
Enkosi kubuhlobo, abantwana bakhulisa izakhono ezinje ngovelwano, ubuqabane, izakhono zokuthetha, izakhono zokuqonda ezinje ngokuthatha izigqibo nokusombulula iingxaki, intsebenziswano, ukuzithemba, ukuthembana nokwabelana. Abantwana baqala ukuba nobudlelwane kwezentlalo njalo ukusuka kwiminyaka ye-2, kwaye ukusuka apho baya besiba nzima ngakumbi njengoko bekhula. Ngobuhlobo abantwana Bakhulisa ubuqu babo kwaye badala ubudlelwane obusondeleyo noontanga babo.
Kukho abantwana abaneentloni nabanye baphuma ngakumbi. Kuxhomekeke kwindlela yabo yobomi, baya kuba notyekelo lokunxibelelana nabanye abantwana ngendlela elula okanye ngokungathandabuzi ngakumbi. Nokuba unganjani, abantwana kufuneka babe nabahlobo ukuze bakhule kakuhle. Baya kufunda izinto abangazukufunda ngenye indlela. Umntwana ongenabahlobo ngumntwana olusizi.
Ukongeza kwixabiso lobuhlobo, kufuneka sibafundise indlela yokunxibelelana nabahlobo babo ukuze babe nolwalamano olusempilweni nolonwabisayo. Makhe sibone ezinye iingcebiso zokufundisa ngexabiso lobuhlobo ebantwaneni bakho.
Ufundisa njani ixabiso lobuhlobo ebantwaneni bakho
- Sebenzisa ulwimi olunembeko. Soloko uthetha ngentlonipho nothando. Umhlobo akakukhethi, akakwamkeli, okanye akucaphukise.
- Nceda abanye. Sonke siya kuba nengxaki okanye umzuzu obuhlungu ngexa elithile, kwaye kuya kufuneka sibathembe abanye ukuba basincede basithuthuzele. Kuyimfuneko ukunceda njengoko kunjalo nokucela uncedo.
- Vuya ngezinto ezintle ezenzeka kubahlobo bethu. Konke kuyongeza, kwaye ukuba umhlobo wethu wonwabile uyasonwabisa. Ukufunda ukwabelana ngovuyo kubenza bande.
- Nabahlobo owabelana nabo. Amava, iithoyi, ukutya ... ubuhlobo buyabelana.
- Chitha ixesha nabahlobo. Njengalo naluphi na ubudlelwane, ubuhlobo budinga ukuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nonxibelelwano olusondeleyo. Ubuhlobo bukhathalelwa yonke imihla ukuyigcina. Ungamnceda ngokumema abahlobo bakhe.
- Ukukhathazeka ngabahlobo. Xa umntu ekuthanda, ukukhathalele kwaye ukukhathalele. Akafuni kwenzeke into embi kuwe kwaye xa isenzeka uhlala ekhona.
- Ubuhlobo abuzincedi. Akukho mdla uphambili okanye emva koko ayiyi kuba bubuhlobo bokwenyani.
- Bonakalisa uthando lwethu. Imiboniso yothando iyimfuneko ukuze abanye bazi ukuba siyabathanda kwaye siyabaxabisa. Amagama enkxaso, ukwangana nokwanga yindlela yokubonisa uthando esiyixabisayo sonke.
- Iingxaki zilungiswa ngokuthetha. Kuya kuhlala kukho umzuzu wothuko. Kuyimfuneko ukubachazela ukuba asizukuhlala sivumelana nabahlobo bethu, ukuba banezimvo zabo kunye neenkolelo kwaye kufuneka sihloniphane (uvelwano). Xa kudalwa ingxaki, into ekufuneka siyenzile kukuthetha ngqo ukuze singayenzi nzima imeko.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uneentloni kakhulu, ndincoma ukuba ufunde inqaku lethu "Ungamnceda njani umntwana wakho oyise ukuba neentloni." Apho sikunika ingcebiso esebenzayo ukubanceda banxibelelane ngcono.
Kungenxa yokuba khumbula ... ubuhlobo bobunye bobutyebi obugqwesileyo esinokuba nabo. Banokuhlala ubomi bonke ukuba sibanyamekela kakuhle.