Uyakhumbula xa sincokola malunga nokwabelana ngokugqithisileyo»? Hayi? Ewe, ndiya kukukhumbuza kancinane ... ngaba uyabazi abo mama okanye ootata abahlala bepapasha imifanekiso kunye nolwazi malunga noonyana kunye neentombi zabo kwi-Intanethi? Ewe, bababhengeza kakhulu, kwaye yintoni embi ngakumbi, Babeka esichengeni isidima sakho sedijithali, kwaye ixesha elininzi, ngaphandle kwemvume yakho.
Ukulayisha iifoto zabantwana bakho abancinci kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, ukusuka kwiiprofayili ezivulekileyo okanye ngoseto lwabucala olungathandekiyo, kunomngcipheko wako; yenze ngokuqhubekayo kwaye "ngaphandle komlinganiselo" nayo. Ngokomthetho (LO lokhuseleko lomthetho lwabantwana) kucacile ukuba Abazali kunye nabagcini babantwana kufuneka baqinisekise amalungelo okuba neemfihlo kunye nokuzibonakalisa kwakho.
Kufanelekile ukuba ukhankanye loo nto Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-14, nabani na unokugqiba ukuba idatha yabo yobuqu iya kucutshungulwa njani. (ulwazi kunye nemifanekiso). Ke ngoko, banamandla okunyanzela abazali babo ukuba basuse iifoto okanye iiposti kwiiwebhsayithi zokuncokola (bethetha ngabantwana). Nangona kunjalo, umntu omdala unegama lokugqibela ... de umntwana ayeke ukuba mnye kwaye anqume ukwenza, ngokuqinisekileyo uyakhumbula ukuba intombazana yase-Australia Xa wayeneminyaka eli-18 ubudala, wabagxeka abazali bakhe.. Kwaye ayisiyiyo kuphela imeko…
Senza ntoni engalunganga?
Kuqhelekile ukuva amagqabantshintshi malunga nokuba ngaba abafikisayo abanankathalo na, ukuba bathathe iindlela zokuziphatha ezingafanelekanga kubudlelwane babo bedijithali. Kodwa Ngaba ucinga ukuba oomama nootata benza ngcono kakhulu? Ubamisela umzekelo onjani abantwana bakho?
Okokuqala, kufuneka siyazi indlela yokumisela ubumfihlo kwiiprofayili zenethiwekhi yoluntu ezisetyenziswayo: ukuqala ngoWhatsapp, kunye nazo zonke esizisebenzisayo. Kuhle ukukhumbula ukuba abantwana bethu abaselula basenokufuna uncedo ukuze bakwenze oko, okanye ukukhunjuzwa.
Okwesibini, zimbalwa iintsika ezisisiseko zokuxhasa i-Intanethi ekhuselekileyo nesempilweni, kodwa kuba imbalwa, siyathanda ukuzitsiba. Oko kukuthi: sigcine ubumfihlo bethu kunye nomfanekiso wethu, sihloniphe abanye, kwaye sibe nengqiqo. Abanye banokuvela kwezi ngcebiso zi-3 zibalaseleyo, zinokuqhekeka kakhulu, kodwa ndiza kukushiya oko kuwe.
Imingcipheko esizibeka kuyo ukuba sipapasha kakhulu ngabantwana
Apha behamba, kukho ezimbalwa:
- Amagqabaza akho angashiya uphawu kwaye achaphazele ubomi bexesha elizayo babantwana bakho; Ungalibali ukuba ixesha elininzi abazi nokuba uthumela iifoto zabo okanye uxelela izinto ezinokuthi zijongwe njengobudlelwane obusondeleyo.
- Ukunika ulwazi oluninzi malunga nabantwana: iifoto ezibekwe kwindawo okanye kwiindawo ekulula ukuzichonga.
- Isazisi: nokuba siyafuna okanye asifuni, sakha isazisi sedijithali esilungiselelweyo. Ngokomlinganiselo wethu, hayi abantwana bethu. Ngesenzo sethu ngasinye ngokunika ingxelo kubo okanye ukwabelana ngeefoto, sithatha inkululeko yabo.
- Impembelelo yento elayishwe kwi-intanethi isesidlangalaleni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni uqwalaselo lwakho. Ngoba? Ewe, ayinguye wonke umntu othembekileyo, kwaye wonke umntu akanamaxabiso afanayo okanye izinto eziphambili,…
- Iingxwabangxwaba zeentsapho, ngokomzekelo xa abazali bahlukana okanye ngenxa yokuba oomakhulu nootatomkhulu bepapashe izinto ngaphandle kwemvume.
Iingcebiso ezili-10 eziluncedo
- Ukwabelana ngeefoto, sebenzisa i-imeyile ngcono, kwaye uyenze ngokukhetha kakhulu, ukuqinisekisa ukuba abamkeli baya kukuphepha ukusetyenziswa kakubi.
- Kuphephe ukwabelana ngemiba yobomi babantwana bakho yonke imihla.
- Akukho kunika ulwazi malunga nenkqubo yabantwana abancinci.
- Ukuba uthegi, amagama amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe (anxulunyaniswa nomfanekiso wabo) anokuboniswa kwiinjini zokukhangela.
- Qwalasela ubumfihlo beintanethi zentlalo, khumbula ukuba unokwenza ngokuthe ngqo kwimifanekiso (kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni enye umxholo), ebonisa ukuba ufuna abahlobo kuphela ukubabona, okanye abantu abathile.
- Akufanele ulayishe iifoto zabanye abantwana ngaphandle kwemvume yabazali babo.
- Ukunika iinkcukacha ezininzi akuyomfuneko kwaye kunokuba yingozi.
- Kuya kufuneka uhlale ucinga ngeendlela zokuthatha iifoto ezingabeki esichengeni kubantwana: iinyawo, iinwele, isithunzi...
- Iifoto zamantombazana ahamba ze okanye ahamba ze okanye amakhwenkwe? Akho ndlela yimbi!
- Zibuze: ithini intsingiselo yale nto uza kuyipapasha? iluncedo lwantoni?
Zonke iindlela zethu zokuziphatha kufuneka zilinganiselwe, kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba sikwazi ukuzikhawulela, nangona ndinoloyiko lokuba ngoku sisafuna iingcebiso ezininzi kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ukukhupha ingqiqo.