Abazali abaninzi bajonge phambili ekunikezeleni abantwana babo ibhayisekile yokuqala. Kodwa ukubetha isitshixo kunye nokuthenga imodeli efanelekileyo akusoloko kulula. Nazi iimpazamo kunye nempumelelo xa ukhetha iibhayisekile zabantwana Ewe, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo inani elifanelekileyo lezinto ukuze ukhethe imodeli echanekileyo, ucinga ngeminyaka yomntwana kunye nobungakanani bayo, ukuphakama nokwakha.
Ayisiyoyokukhetha eyona modeli intle kunye neyona ivusa umdla wakho, kodwa ikwayeyona ilungelelanisa iimfuno zabantwana bakho ukuze bakwazi ukulawula ibhayisekile ngendlela elula.
Ukukhetha ibhayisikile yabantwana: ubudala, ubude kunye nobukhulu
Ukuba sithetha malunga iimpazamo kunye nempumelelo xa ukhetha iibhayisekile zabantwana Kuqhelekile ukuba ukuphakama komntwana yingxaki engenakuphepheka: sikhetha ukuthatha ingqalelo ukuphakama komntwana ukuze ifike kwiziseko zemoto ngendlela yendalo kwaye ngaphandle kokunyanzela umzimba. Oku kuchanekile kwaye yiyo loo nto kukho ifayile ye- itheyibhile yokulinganisa ebonisa ubungakanani obucetyiswayo ngokudibanisa ububanzi beevili kunye nobudala nokuphakama komntwana.
Nangona yiparameter elungileyo ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo, ngokuchaneka ngakumbi kunokwenzeka ukulinganisa umpu njengomntwana kuba uya kuba nethuba elikhulu lokungenzi mpazamo. Kukho itheyibhile yesibini ejonga ubukhulu bevili kodwa ngokunxulumene nobudala kunye nevili, elinganiswa ngeesentimitha. Ke kubalulekile ukuba uqwalasele ubume bomntwana ngamnye ngakumbi njengoko itafile inokuba sisikhokelo nangona ingasoloko ilinganisa izinto ezithile zomntwana ngamnye.
Ukubaleka iimpazamo ukuya thenga ibhayisekile yabantwanaNgalo lonke ixesha khumbula ubunzima bebhayisikile kuba namhlanje kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane iibhayisekile zabantwana ezilula kakhulu ngenxa yezixhobo ezitsha ezenziwe ngazo. Ngale ndlela, abancinci baya kuba nakho ukuqhuba kakuhle isithuthi ngaphandle komzamo omncinci.
Amavili kunye nobudala
Ukuba kunjalo khetha ibhayisekile yokuqala abantwana, ubungakanani buyahluka phakathi kweevili ezili-12 ", 14" kunye ne-16 ". Ngokubanzi, ziibhayisekile ezinesantya esinye kwaye ezinye ziza nokumiswa, nangona oku kungacetyiswanga kakhulu kuba, kuba Ibhayisekile yokuqala yabantwanaIzixhobo zalo zikumgangatho ophantsi, ngenxa yoko aziphumeleli kwiziphumo zesicelo sazo, siyanda, ngokuchaseneyo, nobunzima bebhayisekile.
Iibhayisikile ezinamavili ezingama-20 ziyacetyiswa kubantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka emi-6 neli-9 ubudala kwaye apha sele sithetha ngezithuthi ezingcono ezibavumela ukuba babe nolawulo lokwenyani lwento ekuyiyo ukukhwela ibhayisekile. Kukho iibhayisekile ezingama-24 ezinamavili ezibonisa ukukhula kwabantwana, ziyilelwe abantwana ukusukela kwiminyaka eli-9 ukuya kweli-14 ubudala, yiyo loo nto sele benazo ezinye iindlela, ezinje ngesantya esingaphezulu okanye amatyathanga amathathu. Ziyacetyiswa kuphela ukuba umntwana wakho ungumthandi webhayisekile kuba uninzi lwazo luyilelwe ngezinto ezifana nezo zeebhayisikile zabantu abadala kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu zibiza kakhulu, iindleko ezingenakho ukuthetheleleka kuzo zonke iimeko.
Rhoqo iimpazamo xa uthenga ibhayisekile yabantwana
Ezinye ze iimpazamo xa ukhetha iibhayisikile zabantwana ziyaphindwa. Enye yezona zinto zixhaphakileyo kukuthenga ibhayisikile enkulu kakhulu ukuba ingahlala iminyaka emininzi. Oku kukhokelela kwimpazamo enkulu kuba umntwana akazokwazi ukulawula isithuthi, ke ukukhwela ibhayisekile kuba yingozi. Ibhayisekile enkulu kakhulu kunzima ukuyilawula kwaye ayonwabanga kuba umntwana akanamandla okuyilawula, cinezela iziqhoboshi, njl.
Enye impazamo eqhelekileyo kukukhetha eyona ndlela ibiza kancinane. Kukho iibhayisekile ezibetha ibhalansi phakathi kwexabiso kunye nomgangatho, jonga ezo modeli zinikwa yimarike. Ibhayisekile enexabiso eliphantsi kakhulu inokuba yimpazamo kuba iya kuyilwa ngezinto ezingalunganga ezinganiki ntuthuzelo ifunwa ngumntwana.
Ukuba unako, thintela bathengele ibhayisekile abantwana kwiivenkile ezinjengeevenkile ezikhethekileyo zinabasebenzi abakulungeleyo ukucebisa ngobungcali. Thintela iimpazamo kwaye ubalekele i impumelelo xa ukhetha iibhayisikile zabantwana Ukufumana ulwazi kwabo bazi kakhulu.