Nokuba ujonge esona sipho sigqibeleleyo sokuzalwa komntwana wakho okanye isipho esikhulu sokunika abantwana bakho ngeKrisimesi, amathuba okuba ucinga kwaye uzibuze kaninzi ukuba yeyiphi eyona nto intle ukuyithenga. Usenokungafuni ukuchitha imali eninzi, kodwa ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba ufumana isipho amakhwenkwe namantombazana aya kusonwabela kwaye asisebenzise kakuhle.
Kuyinyani ukuba abantwana namhlanje banamathoyizi amaninzi kunangaphambili, kodwa ngabantu abadala kuphela abanetyala kuba sithi abababonelela ngezo zinto zokudlala. Ngaba kunyanzelekile ukuba unikezele kwiminqweno yabantwana ukuze babe nezinto zamva nje? Inyaniso, hayi. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ucamngce ngezona zipho zibalaseleyo zamakhwenkwe namantombazana zokufumana le Krisimesi.
Ungaphoswa ziingcebiso ezithile ukuze wenze izipho ezixabiseke ngokwenene ebantwaneni kwaye ukongeza ekubeni zizipho ezigqibeleleyo zinokuphumelela, kunye nezipho ezifanelekileyo!
Izipho eziluncedo
Izipho zabantwana zihlala zimnandi kwaye zinomtsalane, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ayinakwenzeka ngexesha elinye. Umzekelo, isiqu esihle segumbi lakho lokulala ngokuqinisekileyo uya kusisebenzisa, ngakumbi ukugcina iithoyi kunye negumbi lokulala elihle.
Izipho ezisebenzayo ezinjengempahla yangaphantsi okanye impahla ziya kwamkelwa kuphela ukuba zineempawu zabalinganiswa babo abazithandayo, ke eso sipho asizukukruqula kwaphela kwaye siyakuba yingubo yabo abayithandayo kumakhwenkwe namantombazana. Ukuba ufuna ukuthenga umntwana ongumntwana womnye umntu, thetha nabazali bakhe ukuze ufumane ukuba yintoni abayifunayo kwaye bathande ntoni ukuze bafumane isipho.
Iithoyi zokufundisa
Iithoyi zemfundo zizipho ezifanelekileyo zamakhwenkwe namantombazana ukuba nje into yokudlala okanye umdlalo ulungele ubudala bomntwana. Abantwana bayakuthanda ukonwaba, phantse ngokungathi ungathanda ukubabona bonwabile. Umdlalo omnandi ungafundisa, ke yinto enokwenzeka ukuthenga imidlalo yezemfundo kunye neethoyi zeKrisimesi. Abantwana baya kuba nexesha elimnandi kwaye baya kufunda ngelixa bonwabile.
Izipho ezihlala unyaka wonke
Isipho esihlala unyaka wonke kuthetha ukuba sinokusetyenziswa yonke imihla. Unokuba ngumzekelo wokurhuma kwilayibrari yokudlala, iphephancwadi elinomdla onokuthanda ukulifunda qho ngenyanga, ivawutsha yedama okanye indawo yeziko lomsebenzi, ubhaka wesikolo, njl. Ezi zimvo zizipho ezilungileyo kwaye azizukuthatha ndawo yokugcina ekhaya ... Kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba zizipho ezithandwa ngabantwana kwaye bazokonwabela.
Izipho ezingabizi kakhulu
Izipho zeKrisimesi ziyonwabisa, kodwa ukuya kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali akuninzi. Kuyasicinezela ukubona umthwalo kwikhadi letyala ekupheleni kwenyanga, emva kokuba uthenge izipho ezininzi zeKrisimesi. Zininzi izipho onokuzithenga ezingabizi mali ininzi, kodwa zininzi nezinye izinto onokuzenza kwaye ziya kuba nexabiso elongeziweyo: ixabiso lemvakalelo.
Okwesibini ukhetho lwesandla
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuthenga into yokudlala okanye enye into kodwa ucinga ukuba amaxabiso akhoyo ngoku ayabiza kakhulu, ungalungisa ngaphandle kokufumana ubunzima emalini. Oku kuthetha ukuba unokukhetha iivenkile ezisetyenzisiweyo, ukuba into yokudlala isetyenzisiwe ayithethi ukuba umgangatho wayo uyehla, kwaye kuncinci ukuba ubukhathalelwe kakuhle.
Ukuthenga izinto zokudlala ezinesandla kukugcina imali eninzi. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukujonga kwiivenkile zokudlala ezithengiweyo okanye izinto ezikwi-Intanethi. Ewe, ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuthenga izinto zokudlala ezingamasekeni, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo kukuqinisekisa ukuba imali oyihlawulayo ihambelana nomgangatho wemveliso oyithengileyo. Sukuyinika imali de uqiniseke ukuba imveliso ikufanele ngokwenene ukuyithenga.
Izipho zesiko
Izipho ezenziwe ngabantu zihlala zikhetha kakuhle, kwaye abantwana bayabathanda. Umzekelo, ibali elinomntwana ofanayo nomlinganiswa ophambili oza kufumana ibali ngokuqinisekileyo ngumbono omkhulu. Abantwana bathanda izipho ezizezabo kwaye kananjalo Uya kunika umnwe okhethekileyo kwisipho inkwenkwe okanye intombazana abangasoze basilibale… kuba baya kuziva bethandwa kakhulu. Ezinye izimvo zesipho esenzelwe wena:
- Iikomityi zesiko
- Imisetyenzana yesiqhelo
- Ialbham yeefoto ezenzelwe wena
- Ibali elenzelwe wena
- Iphazili yesiko
- njalo
Fundisa abantwana imilinganiselo elungileyo
Kodwa ukongeza kwinto yokuba abantwana bayathanda ukufumana iithoyi ezintle nezintle, inyani yeyokuba kubalulekile ukuba ngeli xesha nangamanye amaxesha onyaka, bafundiswe abancinci Ixabiso lokupha nokubulela. Abantwana kufuneka baqonde ukuba nabo banako ukupha, ke banokunikela ngeethoyi zabo kubantwana abasweleyo. Ukupha nokwabelana kunceda abantwana bakhulise uvelwano kunye nezakhono zentlalo ukuze bakwazi ukuhlala kwindawo elungileyo.
Unokukhetha ii-NGOs ukuba umntwana wakho athathe inxaxheba ngokuqokelela ukutya okanye iithoyi. Bonisa imifanekiso yabantwana abasweleyo okanye ufunde ulwazi olubhaliweyo malunga nabo kunye nabo. Olunye uluvo kukukhetha isenzo sothando ngeKrisimesi, uthathe ixesha lokuthetha nabantwana malunga nesisa. Bafuna ukuqonda ukufana nokwahluka phakathi kwemeko yabo kunye nemeko yabantwana encediswa ngamalizo.
Esi sisisipho esihle ebantwaneni, kuba baya kufumana ixabiso elikhulu ebomini babo, baya kuba nakho ukubona izinto ngolunye uhlobo kwaye baya kuba nakho ukukhula kakhulu ngaphakathi. Kucacile ukuba esi sipho sinokuqondwa kuphela ngabafana kunye namantombazana anomthamo owaneleyo wokwenza oko, njengolutsha.
Ngaba sele uyazi ukuba uza kubenza njani abantwana bakho babe nesipho esigqibeleleyo?