Uninzi lwabantwana banengxaki yokuqhinwa, yinto eqhelekileyo kubo bonke abantwana. Xa isenzeka ngamanye amaxesha, kufuneka sinike ingqalelo yokubeka izilungiso eziyimfuneko. Ngaphandle koko, Ukuqhinwa kunokuba yinto engapheliyo kwaye kubangele iingxaki ezinzulu ekuhambeni kwamathumbu omntwana.
Xa abantwana beqhina, baziva begula esiswini. Ukongeza, baphulukana nomnqweno wokutya kwaye banokufumana ubunzima kwiintlungu zegesi kunye nemvakalelo yobunzima. Nangona zikhona Izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuba kutheni umntwana enokuhlupheka ngenxa yokuqhinwaNgokubanzi inento yokwenza nesitayile sokutya.
Oonobangela bokuqhinwa kwabantwana
- Ifayibha esezantsi kunye nolwelo ekudleni, ukutya inyama kakhulu, ukutya okunamafutha neswekile eninzi, kunye neemveliso ezininzi zobisi.
- Utshintsho kwinkqubo yesiqhelo yomntwana, abantu abaninzi bakufumanisa kunzima ukuzikhulula ngaphandle kwekhaya. Kwenzeka into efanayo ebantwaneni, abanye abantwana bayayiqhela imeko yabo apho baziva bekhululeke khona, ukuphuma kwinkqubo yabo kunokubangela ukuqhina ngamanye amaxesha.
- Ukoyika iintlungu, ukuqhina ngokwako kunokubangela umntwana ukuba aphephe ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Xa ukunyakaza kwabo kubangela iintlungu, banokufihla umnqweno wokwenza oko ukuphepha loo mzuzu.
- Ilifa lemveliUkuqhinwa kukwafunyanwa njengelifa. Ukuba abazali baneengxaki zokuhamba emathunjini, kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana naye aphathwe yiyo.
Kubantwana, kuthathwa njengokuqunjelwa xa befaka ngaphantsi kwe kabini ngeveki. Jonga ilindle lomntwana wakho ukuze ubone ukuba kunokubakho le ngxaki, zihlala zincinci, ziqinile kwaye zomile. Ukuba ukhalaza ngentlungu esiswini sakho, okanye isisu sakho sidumbile kunye ne-gassy, unokuqunjelwa.
Unyango lokuqhinwa kwabantwana
Ungazisebenzisa ezi zinto zilandelayo iingcebiso zokuthintela ukuqhina ukuba kungaveli. Ukubazisa kwinkqubo yesiqhelo yemihla ngemihla kuya kuthintela ukuba le ngxaki ivele rhoqo.
- Yandisa ukutya okuphezulu kwefayibha. Ifayibha yeyona ally inkulu yale ngxaki, zama ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana uthatha ukutya okunepesenti ephezulu yefayibha yokutya yonke imihla. Imifuno kunye neziqhamo kukutya okunomxholo ophezulu wefayibha, phakathi kwabo ngu-el kiwi, iplamu, iiorenji, iistrawberry okanye ipayina, Ukongeza ukhozo olupheleleyo kunye nemidumba.
- Ulwelo oluninzi. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho usela ulwelo olwaneleyo imini yonke, ukongeza emanzini, yazisa umhluzi okanye incindi yeziqhamo zendalo. Amanzi kunye nolwelo, nceda ithumbu lizicoce ngokulula ngakumbi, isitulo sihamba ngcono kwaye sinceda ukugxothwa kwaso.
- Ukunciphisa ukusetyenziswa kweelekese kunye nokutya okunamafutha. Njengoko besesitshilo, ezi mveliso zikhuthaza ukuqhina. Ukunciphisa ukusetyenziswa kolu hlobo lokutya ngezihlandlo ezikhethekileyo.
- Misela amaxesha okutya. Kubalulekile ukumisela ixesha lokutya, ngale ndlela amathumbu aya kuthi qhela kuloo nkqubo kwaye asebenze ngcono. Umbono olungileyo kukuseta iwotshi yealam xa kusesekuseni. Ngale ndlela umntwana uya kuba nexesha lokutya isidlo sakusasa kwaye ukuba uyayifuna, yiya kwindlu yangasese ngaphambi kokuya esikolweni. Ukuzibamba esikolweni nako kunokubangela ukuqhina, uninzi lwabantwana lubambe iintloni. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho unexesha lokuyenza ekhaya ngaphambi kokuba aphume.
- Umsebenzi womzimba. Imidlalo iyimfuneko emathunjini ukuze yenze intshukumo yayo, kunye nomsebenzi womzimba onceda le nkqubo ukuba yenzeke. Kunqande ukuhlala phantsi kwaye ikhuthaza imidlalo kunye nemidlalo equka intshukumo. Ukongeza ekuncedeni ukuqhina, uyakube usenza imikhwa elungileyo yokulwa ukutyeba kwabantwana.
Zonke ezi ngcebiso ziluncedo ekulweni ukuqhina, ukuba uzibandakanya rhoqo kusapho, unokukuphepha ukuqhina. Hayi kubantwana kuphela, lonke usapho kufuneka lusebenzise ezi ngcebiso ukunqanda ezi ntlobo zeengxaki. Ke, ungathandabuzi kwaye yenza iindlela zokuphila ezisempilweni kusapho lonke. Ke nonke niya kuzuza kubo.