Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka sifumane iindlela zokonwabisa abantwana bethu, kuba imozulu ngaphandle imbi kwaye kuba kufuneka uchithe ixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nabo. Xa sisenza izinto abazithanda ngokukodwa, sikhulisa ukudibana komzali nomntwana.
Zininzi iindlela zokuchitha ixesha nabantwana, kwaye enye yazo ukwenza imisebenzi yezandla. Xa sivumela abantwana ukuba baphuhlise ubuchule babo, siyabavumela ukuba bavakalise umhlaba njengoko belibona. Ukuba bayayenza ngokuxakaniseka kwabazali babo, kubo kubaluleke ngakumbi.
Kwelinye icala, kuyimfuneko khuthaza uthando lokufunda Ebantwaneni. Ngebali sinokuhlala kwii-adventures ezingenakwenzeka, sihlangane nehlabathi lomlingo kunye nezinto ezivela kwamanye amazwe. Kumntwana, ibali elizele ziintambo kunye nemibala iya kuba ngamava obomi.
Ukusuka kwincwadi oyifundayo, ukhulisa ukucinga kwakho kunye nokusebenza kwakho kuyasebenza. Ke ukuba sidibanisa ubumnandi bobugcisa kunye nefantasy yamabali, singafumana Umsebenzi omangalisayo wokwenza njengentsapho.
Indlela yokwenza ibali nabantwana
Ukwenza kulula, ufuna kuphela amaphepha, iipensile ezinemibala, ikhadi lombala oqaqambileyo kunye nesiqwenga somtya.
Eyokuqala yile cinga ngabalinganiswaNguwo wonke lo msebenzi wabantwana, uya kubanceda babeke yonke into ngendlela. Kodwa ngenene ngumsebenzi wabo wokuphuhlisa ukucinga kwabo.
Bhala kwiphepha elinamagama abalinganiswa abathi qatha engqondweni. Umlinganiswa ngamnye, yabela ubudala, umfanekiso kunye nobuntu obuthile. Cela abantwana bakunike imbasa uphawu lomntu ngamnye.
Emva kokuba uludwe olwenziwe, qalisa ukucinga ngebali. Inkwenkwe okanye intombazana, Ukuyila ibali kulula kakhulu. Sukuba nexhala kuba ngokuqinisekileyo banemibono emininzi.
Nje ukuba uqikelele ukuba ufuna ukuba ibali lakho libe ngantoni, Thatha amashiti aliqela kwaye usonge kwisiqingatha. Kwiphepha ngalinye, kuya kubakho isiqwenga sesicatshulwa kunye nomzekeliso ohambelana nenxalenye yebali elibaliswayo.
Ukuba abantwana badala ngokwaneleyo kwaye Bayayazi indlela yokubhala bangazenzela ngokwabo. Ukuba abakayazi, bhala ipensile yakho ngaphandle kokumakisha, ukuze abantwana bayiphonononge ngombala. Ke nabo bazakuziva bebadala kuba bayabhala.
Inxalenye yebali kufuneka ivele kwicala ngalinye kwiphepha, usebenzisa oonobumba osele ubalungisile. Bancede ngomanyano phakathi kwabalinganiswa, ukwenza kube lula kubo ukuba baphazamisane namabali.
Unokuba namaphepha amaninzi njengoko ukucinga kwakho kuvumela. Kodwa engenamagqabi amaninzi ukuze ingahlali ivuleke embindini.
Ukuba ibali lide kakhulu, ungayenza ngezahluko, ke uya kuba nezicwangciso zezinye iintsuku. Thatha ithuba kwaye ubafundise ukuba kuthetha ntoni trilogy okanye saga. Iya kuba yindlela efanelekileyo kubo yokufunda uncwadi.
Nje ukuba unamaphepha aliqela apheleleyo, lixesha lokuba wenze ikhava yebali
Ufuna ikhadi, ubeke kulo iphepha elilinganayo nelo wawusebenzisa ukubhala ibali. Zoba kwikhadibhodi ushiye iisentimitha ezi-2 kuwo onke amacala. Sika ikhadibhodi uze uyisonge kwisiqingatha.
Kubuso obungaphambili kufuneka ubeke isihloko sebali kwaye uzobe umfanekiso ochazayo. Ngaphakathi, bhala igama lababhali kunye nomhla.
Ngoku, thatha amaphepha ebali, alibonise ngaphakathi, walathe amanqaku amabini apho uya kwenza imingxunya emibini. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubalinganise kodwa zama ukubenza balingane ngokulinganayo. Ngesikere okanye ukuba unayo i-awl, phula umngxunya kuwo onke amagqabi.
Umngxunya akufuneki ubemkhulu kakhulu, ngokwaneleyo ukuba intambo inokudlula kuyo. Ukuyijoyina ungasebenzisa isaphetha esinombala, uboya obusikiweyo okanye intambo enemibala, nokuba yeyiphi na oyithandayo.
Faka umsonto ngemingxunya, ukusuka ngaphakathi ukuya ngaphandle, ukuze iziphelo zingaphandle. Bopha ngesaphetha okanye ngeqhina, okanye nantoni na oyithandayo.
Kwaye ulungile, unebali lakho lokuqala lokuqala. Ngokuqinisekileyo abantwana baya kuyifundisa bonke abahlobo babo, kwaye ungathandabuzi ukuba baya kukucela ukuba uphinde, uqhubeke nebali okanye ubhale entsha.