Ngokuqinisekileyo ukhe wabona kumabonwakude enye yeenkqubo ezininzi zeetalente ezisasazwa namhlanje. Ngokukodwa iinkqubo ezinenkwenkwezi yabantwana. Abantwana abancinci kunye nabantwana abakwaziyo ukushukumisa nabani na.
Ehlabathini kukho izigidi zamakhwenkwe namantombazana anezakhono zobugcisa ezingachazekiyo. Abancinci abadlala isixhobo somculo ngaphandle komzamo omncinci, xa nabani na kunokuthetha iminyaka yokusebenza kunye nokufunda.
Aba bantwana nabo kufuneka badlule kwelo xesha lokufunda, elinokuhlala ubomi bonke. Kodwa Baphethe italente yabo kunye novakalelo olungenakufundwa kwizifundo ezizigidi.
Mhlawumbi, ubukele abo bantwana kumabonwakude, ukhe wacinga ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo oko kuyenzeka kusapho. Ngokuqinisekileyo obo bugcisa buhlala ekhayeni lakho. Kwaye phakathi kookhokho babo kuya kubakho umgca omde wamagcisa, ngubani mhlawumbi ndinelifa lobugcisa.
Ngaba likho ilifa lobugcisa?
Ixesha elinjalo alikho ngokwenene, akukho luvo luchaziweyo kwilifa lobugcisa kwisichazi magama. Endaweni yoko, yindlela yabantu yokubona nokuqonda ubugcisa kubantwana abancinci.
Kuyaqondakala ukuba ukuba kukho imvumi ekhaya kwaye umntwana uphila umculo kwasekuzalweni, ukhulisa incasa ekhethekileyo yeli hlabathi. Okanye yintoni Ukuba kukho abadlali kusapho, olo thando kubugcisa besixhenxe luyahanjiswa kwaye omnye umntwana unomdla okhethekileyo kwelo hlabathi.
Kodwa oku akusoloko kunjalo, kukho abantwana abanesakhono sokuzalwa sobugcisa. Ubugcisa yindlela yokuqonda inyani.
Kwimeko apho, abo bantwana kufuneka bakhulise italente yabo yobugcisa Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, bahlala benobuntununtunu obukhethekileyo, nditsho nokufunda okanye isihobe, kuyamangalisa kwiminyaka emincinci.
Kungenzeka ukuba ukhe weva okanye ubhengeze loo nto, kukuba ubugcisa busemithanjeni yakhe. Kodwa ngokwenene ubugcisa abukho phakathi kofuzo lomntu.
Okokuba abadlali abambalwa banomntwana oko akuthethi ukuba bahambisa obu bugcisa kwinzala yabo ngokusebenzisa ikhowudi yemfuza. Ukuba oko baya kugqithisa uthando lwabo ngomsebenzi wabo. Aba bantwana banamava obugcisa bokwenza besemncinci kakhulu kwaye lihlabathi elinomtsalane kubo.
Makhe sicinge ngehlabathi lomculo. Ngokwenene akukho migca mikhulu yeemvumi. Iintsapho ezinkulu zamagcisa aziwa, apho bonke banetalente efanayo.
Ilifa okanye isidima?
Lo nto kufuneka sahlule ilifa kwindalo. Italente yobugcisa ayifumaneki kwimfuza, egazini lomntu, ngokuchaseneyo, isidima sikhona.
Abantwana abanesidima abaziva benomdla kubugcisa obuthile kwaye bayiphuhlise. Kodwa ukuba uvakalelo lube bubugcisa, kuthatha umsebenzi omninzi kunye nomzamo omkhulu. Iiyure zokufunda kunye nokugqibelela, ngamafutshane, idini elikhulu.
Ke ngoko, ukuba unonyana okanye intombi ekubonakala ukuba inomgangatho wobugcisa, kuya kufuneka ulazi idini elinokuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuluhlakulela. Y uxinzelelo onokuziva, ukuba akakwazi ukuyenza indlela yakhe yokuphila.
Iyaqondakala loo nto ufuna umntwana wakho aphumelele ebomini. Kodwa kulula ukuba uthando lwakho ngomama okanye utata wakho akhokele umntwana wakho ukuba angabunandiphi ubuntwana bakhe.
Yinto enye kunyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ukufuna izifundo zokucula kuwe kuba bayathanda ukucula kwaye Njengomsebenzi wecandelo langaphandle ukhetha ukufunda obu buchule, endaweni ye-ballet, umzekelo. Kwimeko apho kukuzonwabisa, kumnandi.
Kwahluke kakhulu xa ukwimeko efanayo, endaweni yokwenza ixesha lokuzonwabisa ngaphandle kwezibophelelo zesikolo. U-Lokanye siyiguqula ibe ngumsebenzi owongezelelweyo. Kwaye ulumke, kule meko abazali bayenza ngothando lonke.
Kungenxa yokuba sithembele kubuchule babantwana bethu kangangokuba sifuna ukuba babe ngabona bagqwesileyo. Kodwa Masingakulibali ukuba ngabantwana, sinako kwaye kufuneka sikhuthaze ubuchule babo, ngaphandle kokwenza isinyanzelo.