Ukudlala sisiseko sako konke ukufunda kwabantwana, Azikho iindlela ezingenangqondo okanye iindlela ezigqibeleleyo zomntu wonke. Nangona kunjalo, nawuphi na umsebenzi omnandi uya kuba nomtsalane kwabancinci kwaye baya kuyenza ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba ngenene bafunda izifundo kwaye basebenzela kuphuhliso kunye nokukhula kwabo. Ngemisebenzi emincinci ekhaya, unganceda abantwana bakho baphumelele ukuzithemba nokuzimela.
Imidlalo oya kuyifumana ngezantsi yile yenzelwe abantwana ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwemi-3 ubudala. Okwangoku, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bafunde ukwenza imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo, eya kuthi ibancede baphuhlise izakhono ezahlukeneyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo nezimvo zabo.
Ungamcacisela njani umntwana ukuba usebenza njani umdlalo
Abantwana abancinci abanakho ukuqhubekeka nolwazi oluntsonkothileyo, ke ukuba uchaza umdlalo ngezivakalisi ezinde kunye namagama anzima, baya kudikwa ngaphambi kokuqala. Kukhethwa ukuba umntwana akubone uwenza lo msebenzi, ukuze akwazi ukukulinganisa kwaye kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba incinci ifake inkqubo.
Ncedisa ngomphanda izithako ezahlukeneyo
Injongo yalo mdlalo Ukukhuthaza ukugxila kunye nokulungelelanisa yeentshukumo ezahlukeneyo. Njengoko umntwana ezuza ukuzithemba, ungasebenzisa izinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye myeke umntwana akhonze amanzi asetafileni.
Udinga kuphela izimbiza ezi-2 ezifanayo okanye ezifanayo kunye netreyi. Enye yezo jagi kufuneka igcwele irayisi kwaye enye ingenanto. Hlala nomntwana wakho, qiniseka ukuba ungenile itafile kunye nosihlalo ekuvumela ukuba ube kwindawo efanayo. Okokuqala, galela irayisi kwenye ingqayi ngesandla sakho sasekunene kwaye uchaze inkqubo inyathelo ngenyathelo, ngezivakalisi ezifutshane nezilula.
Emva koko, phinda inkqubo ngesandla sakho sasekhohlo, uyenze ithambe, ukuvumela umntwana ukuba afunde kakuhle indlela yokudlala umdlalo. Ngoku omncinci angayenza, kuqala kuya kufuneka agalele irayisi kwenye ingqayi ngesandla esinye emva koko ngesinye. Ukuba irayisi iwela etreyini, ungakhathazeki, vele uyichole uyibuyisele engqayini.
Funda ukunciphisa
Ukufunda ukusebenzisa isikere ngumsebenzi obalaseleyo ebantwaneni kwaye iya kubanceda xa kufikwa kumba wokufunda ukufunda nokubhala.
Uya kudinga isikere ngetiphu erhangqiweyo kunye ekhethekileyo kubantwana abancinci, ke unokuqiniseka ukuba omncinci akakho sengozini. Ngokubhekisele kwizinto zokusika, kuya kufuneka lungisa iziqwenga zamaphepha ezinobungakanani obahlukeneyo, umzekelo:
- Umtya omde wephepha omalunga neminwe emi-3 ubukhulu, embindini zoba umgca ongqindilili obomvu
- Omnye umcu wephepha inde kodwa butyebile ngandlela ithile, malunga neminwe emi-4 okanye emi-5. Kwakhona, zoba umgca obomvu embindini kunye kunye
- Umtya obanzi wephepha ngomgca obomvu utsaliwe
- Omnye umcu omde nomxinwa, kulo mzekelo, zoba umgca ogobileyo ecaleni kwesiqwengana sephepha
Qhobosha amaqhosha
Funda indlela yokubopha amaqhosha kuya kunceda umntwana ukuba akhule imoto entle, kodwa iya kumnika nokuzimela njengoko eya kufunda ukunxiba.
Ukwenza umdlalo ube mnandi ngakumbi kwaye ungaphantsi komsebenzi wemihla ngemihla, unokwenza isiseko ngekhadibhodi okanye ngomthi apho kuya kufuneka unamathele iziqwenga ezibini zelaphu. Ukuba zivela imibala eyahlukeneyo kunye nemibala eqaqambileyo, ngcono kuba le ndlela umntwana uya kuziva ekhuthazeka ngakumbi. Namathisela amanye amaqhosha obukhulu obahlukeneyo kwaye ungalibali ukuba elinye lamalaphu kufuneka libe namaqhosha ukuze umntwana adlale umdlalo.
Unokwenza lo mdlalo nge nasiphi na isinxibo onaso ekhaya ongasasisebenzisi, i-cardigan umzekelo. Ngamaqhosha aqiniweyo, sika icandelo langaphambili kwisikwere esilinganayo. Kuya kufuneka unamathele kwikhadibhodi kwaye ubeke amaqhosha ambalwa obukhulu obahlukeneyo kunye nemibala.
Ungamkhuthaza umntwana ukuba enze ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi nanini na xa umntwana efuna, ngaphandle kokunyanzela okanye wenze uzive ngathi ngumsebenzi. Ukuba udiniwe kukwenza, gcina umdlalo ngaphandle kweengxaki kwaye utshintshele kolunye uhlobo lomsebenzi.