Kuninzi okutshiwo mva nje malunga nendlela yokuphila esempilweni nakwizindlu ezininzi, iinguqu sele zenzekile ukuphucula kwiinkalo ezininzi zemihla ngemihla. Into emnandi, eya kuthi incede abantwana ukuba baziqhelanise nezo zenzo, ezibanceda ukuba bakhathalele impilo yabo ngandlela zonke. Nangona kunjalo, kusekho imikhwa esempilweni encinci eyonakalisa usapho lonke kakubi kakhulu.
Imikhwa emibi
Xa kuziwa kwimikhwa esempilweni, kuhlala kuqondwa njengokutya okunempilo kunye nokuzilolonga rhoqo. Kuthetha ukuthini ukushiya ngasemva iindlela ezibaluleke ngolu hlobo ucoceko, yenza izicwangciso zosapho okanye ukhuthaze inkcubeko, umzekelo. Ezi zinto zingafunekiyo zisenokubonakala zingenabungozi ekuqaleni, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, zinokuba mbi ngokwenene kwimpilo yelungu ngalinye losapho.
Ezi zezinye zeendlela eziqhelekileyo zokuziphatha kakubi, ezo ukubeka impilo-ntle yosapho emngciphekweni.
Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwamayeza
Uninzi lwabantu luthanda ukuzenzela amayeza rhoqo, kwaye kuyenzeka okufanayo ebantwaneni. Bonke abazali bayazi ukuba zeziphi iintlungu ezithomalaliswa ngabantwana, kwaye kuba zigcinwa ekhaya, zisetyenziswa ngalo lonke ixesha umntwana ekhupha ukukhwehlela. Into engalunganga kwaphela kungafuneki ukuba abantwana okanye abantu abadala bathathe naluphi na uhlobo lweziyobisi, nokuba unawo okanye awunawo amayeza, ukuba akukho phantsi kolawulo lukagqirha.
Ukutya ukutya phambi kweTV
Okanye ukungabelani ngesidlo esinye njengentsapho ngosuku, imikhwa nefuthe elibi kubudlelwane phakathi kwamalungu osapho. Nangona uxanduva lwemihla ngemihla lukuthintela ekwabelaneni ngako konke ukutya nabantwana bakho, ubuncinci kuzo kufuneka zenziwe kunye. Kwaye oku kuthetha, wonke umntu ohleli etafileni ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, akukho TV, akukho fowuni eziphathwayo njl.
Ukuthatha iswekile eninzi
Umonakalo weswekile egqithisileyo kwimpilo ngokubanzi uyaziwa, ngakumbi kubantwana kwixesha lokukhula. Kulungile ukulawula ukondliwa kwabantwana kwaye ubukele ukuba batya besempilweni kangangoko. Kodwa ukuba emva Uqhubile iimveliso ezineswekile engaphezulu kwipaniUya kuzisebenzisa ngamanye amaxesha, ukonakalisa impilo yakho.
Khuthaza ukusetyenziswa kweelekese ezenziwe ekhaya, onokuzilungiselela njengentsapho kwaye ke wabelane ngamaxesha akumgangatho kunye. Kanye kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziqhamo, lolona nyango lucebileyo nolunencasa olunokufumaneka. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufuna ukwabelana ngezinye iimbotyi zejeli esempilweni nabantwana bakho, kwikhonkco uya kufumana iresiphi elula.
Ukungaphumli ngokwaneleyo
Abantwana baxelisa isimilo sabantu abadala, ke kubalulekile ukuba ube ngumzekelo wabantwana bakho ngandlela zonke. Ukungabikho kophumla kuyosulela, oko kukuthi, ukuba uya kulala emva kwexesha yonke imihla, abantwana bakho baya kuyidla ilifa loo ndlela yokwandisa usuku ngokungeyomfuneko. Ukulala kubalulekile kwimpilo yengqondo esempilweni, kubantu abadala nakubantwana.
Sebenzisa ukutya okungekho mpilweni njengomvuzo
Ukutya okungenamsoco kuhlala kusetyenziswa njengomvuzo womsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle. Into engathandekiyo ngokupheleleyo, kuba ukutya okukhawulezileyo akunampilo kwaye akukho meko kufuneka isetyenziswe njengebhaso. Kwaye kutheni isenziwa? Kuba ixesha elininzi lisetyenziswa njengesizathu sokuthatha ezi ntlobo zeemveliso kunye nokuphelisa ukuziva unetyala.
Kuba abantu abadala bayabazi ubungozi bokutya kakhulu kwaye abantwana ababazi. Akukho nto yenzekayo ukuba ngamanye amaxesha utya olu hlobo lokutya, kodwa akukho meko kufanele ukuba kubonwe ukuba ngumvuzo. Kuba wena Uya kuba uthumela umyalezo ongalunganga ebantwaneni, Ngubani onokuqonda ukuba ukutya okungenamsoco kuyinto elungileyo kwaye angakuthatha njengomvuzo kwinto nganye elungileyo ayenzileyo.
Ungaphoswa ziingcebiso ngoku indlela yokuphila esempilweni yokwabelana nosapho, ngoba usapho oluzikhathaleleyo, luhlala kunye.