Namhlanje yi Usuku olukhethekileyo, Usuku lukaTata, masingalibali. Kwaye kwanikwa iimeko zokuvalelwa kunye nemo ye-alam, iyakubaluleke ngakumbi. Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni kwabo nyana neentombi kunye nabo bawo abangabikho ekhaya, nokuba kungenxa yokuba imigama yejografi ibiyifuna ngoluhlobo, ngenxa yokwahlukana okanye uqhawulo-mtshato, okanye ngenxa nje yokuba sibe nelishwa lokuphulukana nalo kulo nyaka.
Ukuba asikwazi ukuya kutata wethu, okanye simnike iqhina eligugileyo, singenza konke okusemandleni ukumbulela ngothando lwethu, nangaphandle kokuwola. Kule nqaku uya kuzifumana zonke ezi ngcamango ukuze namhlanje yile nto iyiyo: usuku olukhetheke kakhulu.
Yiba nombulelo sesona sipho sihle ngoSuku lukaTata
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukubulela kwaye makakubone uyayenza. Ukuba eli lixesha lokuqala ukuba unyana wakho angabikho kuyise ngolu suku, menze aqonde ukuba ngewayeluthandile. Mkhumbuze ukuba ibiyiyo lolunye lweentsuku ezizodwa kuyise.
Umbono unokuba njalo mbhalele ileta, nokuba akasekho na, okanye ukuba akakho nje ngenxa yokuba kuvalelwe kuye kumbambe kwenye indawo, okanye kungenxa yokuba utyelelo ekuvunyelwene ngalo alwenziwanga. Kule leta, makabonise zonke iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye abulele utata ngalo lonke ixesha lokuhlala kunye. Chaza ukuba yinto esondeleyo phakathi kwakhe noyise kunye naye. Ukuba awuzukuyifunda. Ngale ndlela, inkwenkwe okanye intombazana, nokuba ikwishumi elivisayo, iya kuba nakho ukuziva isondele ngakumbi naloo tata akekho namhlanje.
Ukuba utata akekho ngenxa yezizathu ezithile Ungayihambisa loo leta ekubuyeni kwakho. Ukuba sele edlulile, yindlela yokuhlawula irhafu kuye ngolu suku lukhethekileyo.
Ukukhumbula ikwayindlela yokusondeza kuwe
Eli isenokungabi sisihlandlo sokuqala ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ijongane nokungabikho kukatata wabo namhlanje. Kwezinye iimeko wenze ngokuqinisekileyo izinto ezizodwa azithandayo, yiya kwindawo yakhe yokutyela ayithandayo, undwendwele emangcwabeni, umamele umculo awuthandayo. Ewe, nangona uvalelwe yi-coronavirus, namhlanje unokumkhumbula.
Sikunye ungenza ukutya ebeya kuthanda, wenze ukhetho lwee-movie zakhe azithandayo zokuchitha loo mva kwemini, ncokola nje malunga notata ngewayenze le meko kunye nezinto ezinje. Ngokwendalo, ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho isencinci kakhulu kwaye ayikhumbuli izinto ngoyise kuya kufuneka ibe nguwe, unina, okanye amanye amalungu osapho anokukubonisa imifanekiso okanye akuxelele ii-anecdotes ngaye.
Utata akekho ekhaya xa evalelwe
Ukuba imeko ikulo tata akekho ekhaya namhlanje, kuba umkile okanye ngenxa yokuba khange ukwazi ukwenza utyelelo lwakho oluhambelanayo njenge umzali ongatshatanga okanye owahlukileyo, Ngaphandle kwento efunwa ngumthetho, musa ukuhlawulisa okanye unike umntwana umbono wobuxoki wokushiya. Chaza ukuba utata wakhe angathanda ukuba sekhaya, kunye naye, kodwa ukuba kukho izizathu eziphezulu.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba utata ubekhona ngolu suku ngeefowuni, izingxoxo, iinkomfa zevidiyo. Kodwa khumbula ukuba umntwana unokufumana isalathiso sikatata kwiqabane lakho elitsha, usapho, abahlobo okanye abamelwane. Ukuba ubona ukuba ufuna ukunika omnye wabo isipho, sukumgxeka. Umntwana uyafuna bonisa iimvakalelo zakho ngeli xesha.
Kukho amawaka amatyala, kodwa khumbula ukuba ngemini ebaluleke njenganamhlanje, Usuku lukaTata, njengomama, musa ukugxeka utata ukuba akakho. Ayisiyo malunga nokuzithethelela, kodwa sukunyanzelisa iimvakalelo zakho ezingathandekiyo kunye nokukhathazeka kubantwana bakho. Kuya kufuneka benze ubudlelwane babo notata wabo oza kukhula kwaye butshintshe kule minyaka idlulileyo.