Usuku Nge-10 ka-Okthobha lusuku lweMpilo yeNgqondo lweHlabathi. Esi sihloko bekuyinto ebambekayo kwinkcubeko yethu, ngakumbi kwimeko yabantwana nakwishumi elivisayo, nangona kunjalo izinto ziyatshintsha kwaye kancinci kancinci kuyaqondakala ukuba ngelinye ixesha ebomini bethu, sinokuba nengxaki yokuphazamiseka engqondweni.
Into ehlekisayo yile eSpain akukho nto ikhethekileyo yoNyango lweMpilo yaBantwana, kodwa kukho uMbutho waseSpain woMntwana noLutsha iPsychiatry (i-AEPNYA) kunye noMbutho wooNzululwazi bezeMpilo yaBantwana kunye neMpilo yaBafikisayo yeNgqondo yeAlicia Koplowitz Foundation. Ke ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ayikhuselekanga kwaphela.
Isidingo sokukhethekileyo kwiMpilo yengqondo yaBantwana
Intloko yecandelo loNyango lwaBantwana naBafikisayo kwiSibhedlele saseGregorio Marañon, uDolores Moreno, kudliwanondlebe kwiphephandaba iABC lithetha isidingo sobungcali bonyango lwengqondo lwabantwana ukuba lubekhona eSpain.
Oku kukhethekileyo kukho kwamanye amazwe aphuhlileyo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ibandakanya icandelo labasesichengeni sabemi kunye nokuxhaphaka okuphezulu kokugula kwengqondo. Ukuba bekukho uthintelo olungcono kunye nonyango besebancinci, uninzi lwezifo zengqondo ezichaphazela uluntu lwethu namhlanje, kunye neendleko zonyango oko kuthetha ukuba, zinokuncitshiswa kakhulu. Ngokwedatha phakathi kwama-50 nama-80% ezifo zengqondo ziqala ebuntwaneni.
Kwi-Alicia Koplowitz Foundation, bagxininisa ukubaluleka kwempilo yengqondo ebantwaneni nakwishumi elivisayo kuba thethwano lonyuka ngokukhawuleza emva kweminyaka emihlanu, xa zinxibelelene nemisebenzi yesikolo kunye nophuhliso lwazo lwemfundo. Ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana unobunzima esikolweni, kunxibelelwano lwasentlalweni, okanye uqaphela ukuba ingxaki yomzimba iyanxibelelana nemeko yakhe yeemvakalelo, inokuba iflegi ebomvu.
Indima yosapho kwimpilo yengqondo
Kuyacaca ukuba abantwana abanakunyangwa, kunye nemifanekiso abayibonisayo ngaphandle kokuphatha abazali, ngamanye amaxesha ootatomkhulu noomakhulu kunye nabantakwabo, ngaphandle kokuthetha nootitshala babo, kwaye bade babonisane nogqirha wabantwana okanye ugqirha jikelele. Uninzi lwe abazali abayamkeli le nto. Xa bethatha unyana okanye intombi yabo ukuze babonisane, bafuna kuphela ukuqinisekiswa, ngaphandle kokujongana nengxaki.
Ewe kuluntu lwethu Kukho ukungangqinelani malunga nokunxibelelana kwezifo okanye ukuba kukho izimo zengqondo zabazali ezenza umntwana axhalabe. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana luphawu lwezifo zosapho. Kwaye imeko leyo akhula kuyo umntwana ineziphumo ezichazayo ekukhuleni kwakhe.
Ezona meko zixhaphakileyo zokuchongwa kwengqondo kukuphazamiseka uphuhliso, kubandakanya ukungahambi kakuhle kwengqondo (ADHD), i-autism (ngakumbi kwi Oku kubhaliwe unolwazi ngakumbi ngaye). Ezinye ziingxaki ze uxhalaba, Ukunyanzelwa kokuziva unyanzelekile, uxinzelelo lwasentlalweni, uxinzelelo lwasemva kwengozi kunye nokukhetha ukukhetha; okanye ukuphazamiseka kwendlela yokuziphatha. Sifuna ukujongana ngokusondeleyo nomba wokuphazamiseka kwindlela yokutya kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, ezichaphazela ulutsha kakhulu.
Ukutya kunye nokuphazamiseka kokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi
Uluntu olujolise kakhulu kwimifanekiso lubangela oko ngexesha lokufikisa, kodwa ngokwanda kwexesha ebuntwaneni, iingxaki zokutya ezibandakanya iimvakalelo ezinzulu kunye nesimo sengqondo. Sithetha ngeendlela zokuziphatha ezingaqhelekanga ezinxulumene nobunzima okanye ukutya. Iimpawu zokuqala zokukhathazeka komzimba ukuba inkwenkwe nentombazana baneminyaka yobudala esi-7 okanye esi-8, kwaye baqala ukuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuthile kokutya okungalunganga nokungalawulekiyo phakathi kweminyaka eyi-8 ne-11.
Las iziyobisi kunye notywala ngokwabo zikhuthaza ukuxhomekeka. Abancinci baqala ukuzama ukutshaya nokusela besebancinci. Ukuphefumla kube kanye kuthetha ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuxhomekeka kwengqondo ku-niocotine, kuba ngabantu abangafezekanga. Umntu ofikisayo ongazibandakanyi kwezi zinto, etshaya okanye esela, uchazwa njengengaqhelekanga, kwaye unokuziva ahlukile kwiqela.