Ukuba lusuku lwempilo lwehlabathi, akukho khetho ngaphandle kokuseka ubudlelwane phakathi kolonwabo kunye nempilo. Obu budlelwane buxhaswa zizifundo ezininzi eziqukumbela ukuba impilo, ngakumbi impilo yengqondo, ichaphazeleka kakhulu lulonwabo lomntu okanye ukungabikho kwayo. Kananjalo namhlanje sicacisa ukuba isiseko sobabini ukuba sifezeke ngeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo, yimfundo ngokuchanekileyo.
Siza kukuxelela ukuba kutheni kubaluleke kangaka ukufundisa abantwana bakho kubomi obusempilweni. Kwaye kutheni kufanele ubafundise kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba bazimamele kwaye bahlangane neenjongo zabo zokufumana ulonwabo.
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwempilo kunye nolonwabo lokumisela izinto
Ngokwenkcazo yezempilo ye-WHO, zininzi izinto ezibonisa ulonwabo, kwaye enye yazo yiMpilo. Le nkcazo ichaziwe kwisithuba ekubhekiswa kuso ukulingana phakathi impilo ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasemzimbeni. Icacisa ukubaluleka kokugcina zombini ezi ndawo zempilo yethu. Ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba kufuneka ukhathalele imizimba yethu, ukulingana kwengqondo yethu kubalulekile. Njengoko besichazile kweso sithuba sinye, ukuba ingqondo ayinayo ibhalansi, iya kuchaphazela impilo yomzimba kwaye lo ngumjikelo okhohlakeleyo oya kuthi ubangele ukungonwabi kwethu.
Ukulungelelana ngokweemvakalelo kubalulekile kwimpilo yethu nasebantwaneni bethu.
Izinto ezimisela impilo yethu zezi zilandelayo:
- Ukumisela izinto zempilo-ntle yasemzimbeni. Njengemeko zomzimba zomntu, ukuba baneengxaki okanye izifo.
- Ukuchongwa kwezinto zempilo yengqondo. Ulawulo lweemvakalelo, ukuba unengxaki kulo naluphi na uhlobo lokuphazamiseka okanye uxinzelelo. Konke oku kubalulekile kwisigqibo sempilo.
- Izinto ezichongiweyo kwintlalontle yoluntu. Usapho, indawo yokusebenza kunye nabahlobo banokuthatha isigqibo, kuba ziimeko ezichaphazela imeko yethu yengqondo.
- Indawo yendalo kunye neyendalo. Imeko-bume esingqongileyo nayo iyasichaphazela, imozulu, utshintsho, nokuba imbonakalo yomhlaba intle okanye hayi, inokuthatha isigqibo.
- Izithintelo okanye ukunciphisa impilo, echaphazela ngokuthe ngqo okanye ngokungathanga ngqo ezinye izinto. Nayiphi na imeko ethintela impilo-ntle yethu, echaphazela abakhankanywe ngasentla, inokuthetha ukuyonakalisa impilo yethu.
Ingcaciso ngobomi obuphilileyo
Inkcazo eyinyani yobomi obuphilileyo inento yokwenza nokutya kunye nokusebenza komzimba, kunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, ayinanto yakwenza naloo nto kuphela. Iya kuxhomekeka kakhulu kuzinzo lweemvakalelo lwento nganye, imeko-bume yezentlalo kunye nazo zonke izinto ezichaziweyo kwicandelo elidlulileyo. Ubomi obunempilo yenye apho ezi zinto zikwiiparameter ezifanelekileyo. Oko kukuthi, apho zonke iimeko eziyimfuneko kwimpilo yethu, emzimbeni nasengqondweni, zikwimeko ezilungileyo.
Ukutya okutyebileyo okwahlukileyo ayisiyiyo kuphela into eyimfuneko ukugcina impilo yethu.
Ukugcina ubomi obusempilweni, kufuneka sifunde ukumamela apho umzimba wethu ufuna ukuba ezi paramitha zibekho. Ewe, umntu ngamnye wahlukile kwaye uneemfuno ezahlukileyo kunabanye, impilo yakhe, ke ngoko, iya kusekelwa kwiimfuno zabo kwaye ayisoze yenziwa ngokubanzi.
Fundisa ubomi obusempilweni
Umnqweno omkhulu kubo bonke oomama okanye utata kukuba abantwana babo bakhule besempilweni kwaye bonwabile. Ngokwenyani, zombini ezi zinto ziyahambelana kwaye azikho ngaphandle komnye. Njengoko besesitshilo, impilo yengqondo yinto egqibayo kwimpilo yomntu ngokubanzi. Ukulawula iimvakalelo kubalulekile kwimpilo yabantwana nakubantu abadala abaza kuba njalo.
Inyaniso yokuba kulula ukukhulisa abantwana abasemphefumlweni kunokulungisa abantu abadala abaphukileyo. Masiqwalasele le datha kwaye sifundise abantwana bethu ngemfundo esempilweni yeemvakalelo, ukuze babe nobomi obunempilo. Masingenzi impazamo yokucinga ukuba ngokufundisa ukuba batye ukutya okunesondlo, ukuzilolonga, sele sifezekisa loo msebenzi. Kuya kufuneka uhlakule iibhondi, wenze amaxesha kunye neenkumbulo.
Ukutya nokuzilolonga kuya kubafundisa uqeqesho kunye noxanduva, eziya kuchaphazela inqanaba labo lobuqu kunye neemvakalelo, ukubenza bacetyiswe, babancede bakhule. Kodwa okubaluleke ngakumbi kukuba uhlakulele inyani yokuba ziphulaphuleni, ukuba babodwa banamandla okunyamekela ukuzithemba kwabo, ukuthanda kwabo ukuqinisekiswa.
Asimele silibale ukuba imfundo isisixhobo esisisiseko sokukhula kunye nokufunda. Enye indlela yokubonisa uthando esivakalelwa ngalo kubantwana bethu. Olona lubabalo sinokubenzela lona ukuze bakwazi ukufikelela kwinkululeko yabo, besenza yonke into abayifundileyo ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo. Ngakumbi ngakumbi xa ukufunda kubandakanya ukuzikhathalela, kuzo zonke iinkalo ezikhoyo.