Ukuncancisa ayisiyonto enye, kodwa ezimbini, umama nonyana okanye intombi. Akukho mzimba okanye usana luthandayo, ubisi luphuma lubulela isenzo sehomoni, i-oxytocin, kwaye umntwana kuya kufuneka afunde iintshukumo zokuncanca ukufumana lonke ubisi aludingayo, hayi olo luvuza nje.
Nangona kunjalo Inenkqubo eninzi yesiko kukho nendawo yokufunda. Okumangalisayo kukuba, ukubona ezinye iintsana zincancisa kwenza kubelula kumama nomntwana ngokwakhe ukuba babe kwindawo efanelekileyo. Malunga noku sifuna ukuthetha nawe malunga nemilo eyahlukeneyo onokuyenza okanye onokuyamkela xa uncancisa.
Ukuncancisa kungokwemvelo okanye kuyafundwa
Izifundo ezahlukeneyo zithetha ukuba ukuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa ngaxeshanye lokuzalwa, ngaphambi kokuhlamba, ubunzima kunye nangaphambi kokusika intambo lubekwa ze emzimbeni womntu oze, kwaye Ushiyeke naye iiyure ezimbini ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa, phantse zonke zirhubuluze ukuya esifubeni. Bayakwazi ukuyifumana ingono kunye nokuncanca ngokukhawuleza kwindawo efanelekileyo. Ukudutyulwa kokuqala kwezi meko kunexesha eliguqukayo malunga nemizuzu engama-20.
Ngendlela efanayo, kuye kwaqwalaselwa ukuba Uninzi lweentsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa azikwazi ukuncancisa ngokufanelekileyo ukuba ziphantsi kwempembelelo yeepidurals Ifakwa kumama ngexesha lokuzala, okanye ukuba yahlulwe kunina phakathi kwemizuzu engama-20 ukuya kwengama-40 emva kokubeleka.
Xa ezi zinto zimbini zingqinelana, phantse akukho lusana lunokuncanca kwindawo efanelekileyo. Kodwa njengoko besesikuxelele ngaphambili, yinto yokufunda ngokufanayo.
Iingcebiso malunga nokuma kunye nezikhundla
Ndizokuxelela ntoni! Uya kuncancisa iiyure ezininzi ngosuku, ke fumana ezona ndawo ukhululeke kuzo ukuze ungabinazintlungu zangasemva kwaye izithonga zibe zezingunaphakade. Yiba nayo yonke into ocinga ukuba uya kuyidinga, izihlunu, umnxeba, incwadi, irimothi, imiqamelo, amanzi, iinyawo ... nayo yonke into evelayo.
Kufunyenwe ukuba Iintsana zifunxa ngcono xa umama engqiyame okanye ezolule. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umama akaguqulanga phezu kosana, kufuneka alibambe kakuhle ibele, ukuze afune kakuhle, umlomo uvuleke kakhulu, imilebe yomile, ulwimi luphantsi kwengono kwaye impumlo nesilevu zichukumisa isifuba. Vumela umntwana wakho anqwale, ufumane kwaye ukhethe ibele kwaye ucofe ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngesilevu sakho de ibe iyazimela yodwa.
Ukuhlala ngokuma kunye nendawo yombhoxo
Kwindawo yokuhlala umntwana wolulwe phambi komama edibana nomzimba wakhe, umunca ibele elinye kwaye iinyawo zakhe ziye kwelinye ibele. Yeyona ixhaphakileyo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyala ukuncanca kwelinye lamabele, ungenza okwahlukileyo kwesi sikhundla ngokubeka umntwana umva. Ngokufanelekileyo wolule wajika wajonga kunina, kodwa iinyawo zibheke ngasemva. Ukuba usana luziva lubekwe ngendlela efanayo, kodwa kumabele ahlukeneyo, angayamkela ingono ebekade eyala. Ikwaziwa njengendawo yombhoxo.
Zombini ezi ndawo zoluliweyo kunye nombhoxo zisebenza ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba Esikhundleni sokuhlala, umama uthatha ukuma okuhleliweyo.
Ukuncancisa kuyolulwa
Esi sikhundla apho Umama kunye nosana zoluliwe kwaye ziyafana, nokuba zibuyela umva okanye hayi Iluncedo kakhulu koomama ukuncancisa ebusuku okanye ukuphumla okwexeshana. Ukuba ubeka umntwana oguqukayo akafane aqheleke, kodwa uninzi lwabasetyhini lukhululekile ngalo. Inokuba luncedo kwimeko yokuthintelwa okanye isifo sokukrala kwebele esikwindawo ephezulu yesifuba.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uyazi loo nto akukho lithuba lichanekileyo lokuma okanye isikhundla kubo bonke abantwana abanomama. Isibini ngasinye kuya kufuneka sifumane indlela yokuma ehambelana ngokufanelekileyo nezinto abazithandayo, iimpawu zomzimba zombini kunye nokuvela kosana.
Okokugqibela sifuna ukukucebisa Oku kubhaliwe malunga nokondla okuchanekileyo ngexesha lokuncancisa.