Ukuze kufundiswe abantwana babazali abahlukeneyo, kufuneka ukuba kubekho imvisiswano enkulu phakathi kwabazali, into ethi kwiimeko ezininzi ibonakale njenge chimera. Xa isibini sahlukana, kunzima kakhulu ukufumana indawo yokuqonda, kuba mininzi imiba ekungavumelani ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngumzali kufuneka kube yindawo apho unokufumana into efanayo.
Kuba kunzima kakhulu emntwaneni ukuba acinge ukuba ubomi bosapho bakhe buza kutshintsha kwaye yonke into obusekwe kuyo ubomi bakhe kunye nokuzinza kwakhe kuya kwahluka. Ukuba ngeminyaka yomntwana wakho umfundisa ukuba oko anako kulungile, Khawufane ucinge indlela ekumele ukuba uziva ngayo xa ngequbuliso konke oko kusilela kwaye ujika ujonge ngaphandle. Ke ngoko, ukugcina uzinzo kunye nokuqheleka kangangoko kunokwenzeka sisitshixo ekufundiseni abantwana babazali abahlukeneyo.
Kwindlu nganye imigaqo ethile
Ukwahlukana kuhlala kuza njengesiphumo sokungavumelani kwesi sibini kwiinkalo ezininzi, mhlawumbi enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo yimfundo yabantwana. Akululanga ukwazi ukuba unikezele njani kwaye wamkele ukuba umbono wakho ayisiyiyo kuphela evumelekileyo, ngakumbi xa isibini siqhekeka. Kodwa Ukwahlukana Ayisosisombululo kule ngxaki, kuba ukuba ubeka imithetho kunyana wakho kodwa omnye umzali ugcina eyahlukileyo xa ekuye, umntwana akanako nangayiphi na indlela azi ukuba yeyiphi indlela echanekileyo.
Ngokuchasene noko, emntwaneni eyona nto intle iya kuhlala iyinto elula kuye, ngakumbi ngokuhambelana nendlela acinga ngayo kwaye uya kuziva ekhululekile kuye nabani na ongavumelani nokuncinci. Nangona kwimeko enjalo awuyi kufumana imfundo echanekileyo kwaye iziphumo ezibi kakhulu akunakulindeleka. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba ufumane indlela yokuvumelana ngemigaqo yomntwana ekhaya, ke uhlala unendlela efanayo naphi na apho ukhoyo.
Nangona kunjalo, umntwana kufuneka afunde nokwamkela ukuba imigaqo-nkqubo eyahlukeneyo inokufunyanwa kwindawo nganye. Ewe kunjalo Kancinci kancinci uhlengahlengisa ukuze athathe imigaqo eyahlukeneyo, Uya kuba nakho ukufumana izixhobo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokulawula ezinye iimeko kwikamva lakho. Ngayiphi na imeko, unxibelelwano phakathi kwabazali bobabini kufuneka lube luncinci xa kufikwa kwimfundo yabantwana.
Funda ukwenza izigqibo
Abantwana baqhelene nabanye abantu ukuba bathathele izigqibo kubo kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi baqhuba kakuhle, kuba iyabasindisa ekubeni bakhethe kwaye bathathe izigqibo ngezinto ezibalulekileyo. Kodwa kwimeko efana nokwahlukana kwabazali, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bafunde ukuzenzela izigqibo. Ayisiyiyo indlela yokuphikisa imigaqo ebeka omnye okanye omnye umzali kuye, kodwa njengendlela yokuziqhelanisa nemeko entsonkothileyo.
Ukufunda ukwenza izigqibo ayisiyonto nje ebalulekileyo, umzekelo, abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuthatha isigqibo xa ilixesha lokulala okanye lokuhlamba. Umntwana wakho akazukulinda umntu amxelele ukuba makenze ntoni, kuba naye ngokwakhe uya kuba nakho ukuphuhlisa ukucinga nzulu kwaye akhethe ukuba enze ntoni. Ngale ndlela bafumana inkululeko kunye nokuzimela, into eyimfuneko kwimfundo yabantwana babo, ngakumbi xa umntwana ehlala ezindlwini ezimbini ezahlukeneyo ezinemithetho eyahlukeneyo kuyo nganye.
Ukwahlukana akukaze kumnandi, nokuba zithini na izizathu. Nabani na kuyothusa, kubuhlungu kwaye kunzima ukufana. Ngakumbi nangakumbi xa kukho abantwana ababandakanyekayo, abantwana abazalelwe kuthando lwabantu ababini abathi ngenye imini bathathe isigqibo sokuyeka ukwabelana ngobomi babo. Abantwana bahlala beyilahleko kule meko. Abantu abadala ngabo ekufuneka benze umthambo wokuvuthwa, Ukuqonda nothando, ukuze kuthi apho kunokwenzeka, ubomi bakho butshintshwe ngendlela encinci.