Omnye wemishini yakho njengomama okanye utata kukufundisa abantwana bakho ukuba bayikhathalele impilo yabo. Bonke abazali bayathanda ukucinga ukuba abantwana babo baya kubafuna ubomi babo bonke, kwaye mhlawumbi kunjalo ngeendlela ezithile. Kodwa yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokukhula nokukhula kwabantwana bakho, funda ukuzimela nokuzimela. Ke, baya kuba nakho ukuziphatha ngokwabo kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo obomi babo ngoxanduva kunye nokukhula.
Oku akuthethi ukuba akusayi kubakho mfuneko kubomi babantwana bakho okanye akusayi kuphinda kufuneke unakekelo lwakho. Ngokuchasene noko, kunjalo ngaphezu kokubakhusela nokubakhathalela ukuze bakhule besempilweni kwaye bomelele, ubafundisa apha endleleni ukuze ngaxa lithile bafunde ukuzenzela. Ukusukela ngexesha bebancinci kwaye bafunda ukungabelani ngebhotile yamanzi, de bafunde ukuyikhathalela impilo yabo yezesondo xa sele begqibile.
Ungabafundisa njani abantwana ukuba bayikhathalele impilo yabo
Ubomi buzele ziingozi kwaye uninzi lwazo alunakuphepheka. Kodwa abanye, yinto nje yokwazi ukuba ungazikhusela njani kubo. Ngoku siphila enzima, engaqhelekanga kwaye igcwele utshintsho ngenxa yeCovid-19, sonke ukufunda ukukhathalela impilo yethu ngendlela ebesikade singayikhathalelanga ngaphambili.
Eli ingalixesha elifanelekileyo lokufundisa abantwana ngelixa ufunda kubadala babo, kuba umzekelo uhlala yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufunda. Kodwa akonelanga ukuba uchazele umntwana wakho ukuba kufuneka ahlambe izandla rhoqo, okanye loo nto akufuneki wabelane ngebhotile yamanzi nabanye abantwana. Kuyimfuneko ukucacisa isizathu kubo, ukuze bazi ukuba le yindlela esisiseko yokukhusela impilo yabo.
Ezi zi ezinye izinto ungazifundisa abantwana ukukhathalela impilo yakho:
- Khathalela ucoceko lwakhoUkucoca yonke imihla kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye yindlela entle yokuphepha ukufumana intsholongwane eninzi, hayi i-coronavirus kuphela. Ukongeza kokufunda ukuhlamba izandla rhoqo, kufanelekile funda ukuhlamba kakuhle kakhulu amanye amalungu omzimba. Umzekelo, iinyawo zingumthombo webhaktheriya kunye nefungi, ezinokuthintelwa ukuba uzihlambe kakuhle kwaye ugcine izihlangu zakho zicocekile.
- Ukuxubha amazinyo: Impilo yamazinyo ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye injalo kubalulekile ukuyikhathalela ukusuka kumncinci kakhulu. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuxubha amazinyo kwaye bakwenze ubuncinci amaxesha ama-2 ngosuku.
- Yenza umdlaloUmsebenzi womzimba ubalulekile ekukhuleni komelele, usempilweni nasempilweni entle. Ngomdlalo izifo zithintelwe ivela kwindlela yokuphila. Ukuziqhelanisa nokwenza imidlalo besebancinci kuya kubanceda benze umkhwa oza kuhamba nabo kubomi babo abadala.
- Yitya kakuhle nayo yonke intoUkutya okusempilweni yenye yezona ngongoma zibalulekileyo, kuba umzimba uzigcina usekwe kukutya owunikayo. Ukuba abantwana batya ukutya kwendalo nokusempilweni, umzimba wakho uya kusebenza ngokufanelekileyo. Le yindlela elula yokunceda abantwana baqonde ukuba kutheni kufuneka batye ukutya okunesondlo.
Khathalela impilo yakho yesondo
Akufanele ulibale ukuxoxa ngempilo yesondo kunye nabantwana bakho xa ixesha lifikile. Nokuba sisihloko esingathandekiyo, Ukujonga kwelinye icala akuyi kuyinqanda ukuba ingenzeki. Ngexesha elithile, abantwana bakho baya kuqala ukulala ngesondo kwaye xa kufika ixesha, kukhethwa ukuba babenolwazi ngayo yonke into ekufuneka beyenzile yinyamekele impilo yakho malunga noku.
Nangona namhlanje abantwana benokufumana ulwazi kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo, akukho namnye oya kuba ethembekileyo kwaye acetyiswe njengalowo ufundiswa ngutata okanye umama. Ke ngoko, bathethe ngezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo kunye neziphumo zazo, malunga nokukhulelwa okungacetywanga nazo zonke iingxaki eziza nako. Kodwa malunga nokuhlonipha abanye abantu, kuba oku kukwangumbandela wezempilo.
Ngokuhlonipha umzimba wakho, njengabanye abantu, amakhwenkwe kufuneka asebenze ekuzithembeni kwabo kubo bonke ubuntwana babo, enkosi ngoncedo lwabazali bakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba abantwana bakho bayayiqonda into yokuba ubudlelwane ngokwasemzimbeni buya kwamkeleka kuphela xa abantu ababini bevumelana. Ukuze ungaze uhanjiswe ngomnye umntu, kwaye akufuneki ucinezele nabani na ukuba aye apho ungafuniyo. Ke, uya kuba ufundisa abantwana bakho ukuba babakhathalele ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwesondo kwaye, kunjalo, impilo yengqondo.