Ukuba nenja njengezilwanyana zasekhaya ekhaya kunika izibonelelo ezininzi zophuhliso lwabantwana. Inja ingaphezulu kwesilwanyana esiliqabane, lelinye ilungu losapho, umhlobo oza kuhamba kunye nosapho lonke ebomini bakhe kwaye oko kuyakunceda ukudala amakhonkco akhethekileyo nahlala ixesha elide ebomini. Uthando lwabantwana ngezinja lukhula ngokwendalo, kodwa ukuze bafunde ukuzikhathalela ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka bafundiswe.
Ukuhoya inja ayisiyokuthatha uhambo amaxesha ama-3 ngosuku. Inja ifuna Olunye ukhathalelo olunokuthi bathathe inxaxheba abantwana yonke imihla. Oku kucinga ukufunda okukhulu, kuba baya kufunda ukukhathalela omnye umntu ophilayo, ukuthatha uxanduva, uxanduva kunye nezifundo zobomi ezingapheliyo. Ke ngoko, sukuzixakekisa ngalo msebenzi kwaye unikezele ngononophelo kubantwana babo.
Kuba asizukuyikhanyela, Kwiimeko ezininzi, oomama okanye ootata ngabo abagcina bethatha uxanduva Yonke into enxulumene nenja yosapho okanye izilwanyana. Ngamaxesha amaninzi kuba akwaziwa ukufundisa abantwana ukuba babakhathalele. Kodwa kaninzi kwenzeka ngenxa yokungabikho komonde, ukungalindi abantwana ukuba benze umsebenzi wabo okanye ukugqiba kwangoko. Ukuba ufuna oku kungenzeki kwaye abantwana bafunda indlela yokunyamekela inja yabo, ungaphoswa ngala macebiso alandelayo.
Imisebenzi yabantwana yokunyamekela izinja zabo
Ukuze abantwana bafunde ukwenza nawuphi na umsebenzi ngokuchanekileyo, kufuneka baqale babone ukuba wenziwa njani. Oko kukuthi, qalisa ngokwakho kwaye ubone Ukucacisa inyathelo ngenyathelo kwinto oyenzayo kunye nendlela ekufuneka bekwenzile ngayo. Nantsi eminye imisebenzi enokwenziwa ngabantwana ukukhathalela izinja zabo.
- Isitya samanzi kunye nokutya kuhlala kuhlambulukile. Ukongeza ekondleni inja kwaye uyigcine isempilweni rhoqo, isitya sayo sigcwele amanzi amatsha, kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina izitya zicocekile. Njengabantu, sihlamba izitya kunye neiglasi emva komsebenzi ngamnye, Izikhongozelo ezityiwa zizinja mazicoceke kakuhle. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukucoca izitya, ngumsebenzi olula abanokuzenzela ngokwabo yonke imihla.
- Hlonipha ukuphumla kwenja. Izilwanyana kufuneka ziphumle imini yonke, luhlobo lwazo. Ke ngoko, abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuwahlonipha amaxesha okuphumla kwenja. Kuya kufuneka bafunde ukuba abanakuphazamisa inja ukuba ivuke, Nokuba bafuna ukudlala naye.
- Ukuhamba esitratweni. Abantwana bakho banokuba babancinci kakhulu ukuba bangahamba bodwa nenja, kodwa banokuyinyamekela nomntu omdala yonke imihla. Luxanduva, ke ngoko, ubuncinci uhambo olunye lwemihla ngemihla kufuneka luthathwe nangabantwana. Ngumsebenzi osisiseko, abaya kuthi bafunde ngawo izinto ezibaluleke njengokuwela isitalato kakuhle okanye ukuhlonipha abanye abantu abahambayo, umzekelo. Ukongeza kufundo lokubamba leash okanye kwiindawo apho banokuyivumela khona inja ukuba ibenexesha lemidlalo ngaphandle.
- Ixesha lokuhlamba. Ukuyilungisa inja kubalulekile kuyo ukonwabela impilo entle. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina iinwele zenja zi brashiwe kakuhle kwaye zixinaniswe, zinike ibhafu elungileyo rhoqo, kwaye zigcine iindlebe zazo zicocekile. Nokuba abantwana bancinci kwaye abanako ukuzenzela ngokwabo, banako ndikuncede ngokuhoya ukulungiselela zonke izinto zokucoca wenja, iitawuli zakhe njl.
Ukukhetha inja efanelekileyo kusapho ngalunye kakuhle
Ukuba nesilwanyana ekhaya kuyanceda kuwo wonke umntu. Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ngaphambi kokwamkela ilungu elitsha losapho, izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zithathelwa ingqalelo. Umzekelo, inja ngumhlobo othembekileyo oya kukunika uthando, ubuhlobo kunye nenkampani iminyaka emininzi, kodwa kananjalo idinga ixesha elininzi, ukuphuma ngaphandle kunye nokuqwalaselwa rhoqo ukonwaba nokukhathalelwa. Vula esi sixhobo uya kufumana iingcebiso zokukhetha esona silwanyana silungileyo kusapho lwakho.