Ukukwazi ukufundisa abantwana bakho ngaphandle kokucaphuka kusenokubonakala kungumsebenzi onzima yaye, kwiimeko ezininzi, nokuba yinto engenakwenzeka. Zininzi oonobangela abanokuthi baqalise ukunqongophala kolawulo xa uzama ukulawula imeko enzima nabantwana. Uxinezeleko lomsebenzi, iimbopheleleko ezininzi zemihla ngemihla ekhaya okanye uludwe olungapheliyo lwemisebenzi engekagqitywa zithetha ukuba ngaphezu kwesinye isihlandlo, unxunguphalo olungenanto yakwenza nako lulahlelwa ebantwaneni.
Ungaziva uchongiwe kuko konke oku, iqhelekile kuba yinto eyenzeka kubazali abaninzi. Akufanele uzive umbi, okanye uzohlwaye ngokucaphuka ngamaxesha athile. Kodwa ukuba oku kuba yinto eqhelekileyo, unokufuna uncedo lokukhokela imeko. Abantwana banokukuphambanisa ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ukuba uhlala okanye mihla le uba namaxesha ocaphuka, kusenokufuneka uthathe inyathelo.
Fundisa ngaphandle kokuphulukana ne-nerve yakho: amaqhinga okugcina ulawulo
Abantwana benza ububi, kwanabona bantwana bazolileyo. Yinto ecacileyo kwimeko yabo njengabantwana, kuba Kukwindalo yabo ukuphanda nokufumanisa yonke into ebangqongileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba maxa wambi benza izinto ezinokukukhupha engqondweni yakho, kanye njengokuba kwenzekayo xa uzama ukunikel’ ingqalelo kwinto ebalulekileyo okanye xa befuna ukufumana ingqalelo yakho kwinto ethile, kwanokuba elo ayiloxesha lilungileyo.
Kodwa Oku akunakuguqulelwa kumagama akhwazayo, angalunganga nangaphandle kwethoni. ebangela ukusabela koloyiko emntwaneni. Oko kukuthi, abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuzilawula nokuhlonipha Imithetho Yekhaya, kuba yinto abamele bayithobele kuyo nayiphi na indawo yobomi. Kodwa yinto enye ukuqonda ukuba into ayifanele yenziwe kwaye enye yoyika kwaye ungasazi isizathu. Ngoko kusemandleni akho ukufundisa ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ngumva.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba udla ngokuphelelwa ngumonde kubantwana bakho rhoqo, zama ukusebenzisa elinye lala maqhinga. Ukuhlalisana ngokungenamkhwazo, izohlwayo ezibaxiweyo kunye namagama amabi, inomvuzo kwaye intle ngakumbi kuye wonke umntu. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukuthanda ukufunda ukulawula ukuxhalaba kwakho kwaye uphephe ukungakwazi ukulawula xa abantwana bakho beziphatha ngendlela eqhelekileyo.
Funda ukukhululeka
Xa abantwana bephuma kulawulo okanye benza into engalunganga, kulula kakhulu ukungakwazi ukuzibamba kwaye baphendule ngokukhala okungxamisekileyo. Ngaphambi kokuba oku kwenzeke, funda ukuzibamba ngokuphefumla. Ukuba kuyimfuneko kwaye kunokwenzeka, suka kude nendawo, ujonge ngaphandle kwefestile kwaye uphefumle ngokucokisekileyo ubuncinane amaxesha angama-10. Emva koko, uya kukwazi ukujongana nale meko ngaphandle kokuba novalo.
Kuxabise oko kubaluleke ngokwenene
Ngamanye amaxesha Bacatshukiswa ngabantwana ngenxa yezinto ezingabalulekanga ngokwenene. Kwaye xa uyeka ukucinga malunga nokubanda, uyazisola ngokuzibeka ngoluhlobo kunye nabantwana. Xa kusenzeka into enje, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba abafuni kuchola iithoyi zabo, kuba baphalaza isiselo sabo kwaye badyobha umgangatho okanye ngenxa yokuba bengakuthobeli okokuqala, yeka ukuvavanya eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Izinto ziyacocwa, zitshintshwe, kwaye zilungiswe, kodwa amaxesha alahlekileyo nabantwana awaze enziwe.
Nikela ixesha elisemgangathweni kubantwana bakho
Abantwana bafuna ixesha kunye nabazali babo, ukudlala nokwenza izinto ezizonwabisayo. Kodwa ootata noomama nabo bayawafuna loo mathuba okuphumla entsapho. Ngokuba yonke into ayinakuba sisiqhelo, imisebenzi, okanye izibophelelo ezingonwabisiyo. Nangona ubomi bunzima kwaye bunoxinzelelo, zama chitha ixesha elisemgangathweni nabantwana bakho yonke imihla.
Bayeke abantwana bakho babe ngabantwana
Amaxesha amaninzi abantwana kulindeleke ukuba babe ngabantu abadala ngaphambi kwexesha labo. Kufuneka baziphathe ngendlela engafanelekanga ngokweminyaka yabo. kwaye xa beziphatha ngokufanelekileyo ngokwendlela abayiyo, abantwana, ukuphoxeka kunye namabango kubo ento engahambelaniyo nabo beza. Vumela abantwana bakho babe ngabantwana, eli lixesha lokuphanda, ukuvavanya, ukulinganisa uloyiko lwabo nokubona ukuba banako ukuya phi. Kungekudala baya kuba ngabantu abadala abaneembopheleleko ezininzi, mabonwabele ubuntwana babo nokuba kuya kufuneka wenze umthambo wokunyamezela yonke imihla.