Abantwana bachitha ixesha elininzi lonyaka wesikolo ukubanda, ngokukhohlela kunye ne-snot yakhe engenakuhlukaniswa, izandi eziqhelekileyo, kunjalo? Ukuxinana kwempumlo kuvelisa imvakalelo engathandekiyo, ukungakwazi ukuphefumla ngokwesiqhelo nangaphezulu kubantwana, ukungazi indlela yokuqhushumba i-snot yakho kuyenza nzima imeko nangakumbi. Esi simbo somntu, esihlala kuwo nawuphi na umntu omdala siqhelekile kwaye siphantse senziwe ngoomatshini, sifuna inkqubo yokufunda njengezinye izifundo zobomi.
Ukuqala, kubalulekile ukuyazi loo nto abantwana abawuqondi umxholo "wokuvuthela ngeempumlo", yile nto uyenzayo xa uvuthela i-snot yakho. Kodwa ukongeza ekwenzeni lo mqondiso, kuyafuneka ukuba umntwana abe nolawulo kwiminwe yakhe, ukuze akwazi ukuphatha itshefu ngokuchanekileyo kwaye akwazi ukucoca impumlo ngokuchanekileyo. Nje ukuba oku kucace gca, siza kubona amaqhinga ukuze ufundise umntwana wakho ukuvuthela impumlo.
Okokuqala, zixhobise ngomthamo olungileyo womonde
Sele uyazi ukuba nabantwana kufuneka basebenzise iidosi ezinkulu zomonde. Abancinci bafuna ixesha labo lokuqhubekeka ulwazi, ukusebenzisa oko bakufundileyo kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, ukufezekisa oko uzama ukubafundisa kona. Kodwa kwakhona Kuyimfuneko ukuba uthathe ingqalelo kwinqanaba lokuvuthwa komntwana ngamnye, ayisiyonto ephawula ubudala bakhe.
Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuvuthela i-snot yabo ngezigaba, yonke imihla dlala nabo okwexeshana ngamanye amaqhinga esiza kubona ngezantsi kwaye sibavumele ukuba baziqhelanise kwaye badlale kangangoko bafuna. Yiba nomonde kwaye kungekudala uza kubona ukuba umntwana wakho wenza njani ngale nto ixhaphakileyo, eya kuhamba naye ubomi bakhe bonke.
Isigaba sokuqala: ukufunda ukuvuthela ngomlomo
Ngaphambi kokuba ufunde ukuvuthela ngeempumlo zakho, Kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuvuthela ngomlomo. Le yimidlalo elula yomntwana ukuba ayifunde le nto.
- Yenza amagwebu esephaBonke abantwana bathanda amaqamza esepha, le nto yokudlala ilula kubo ilungele ukuba bafunde ukuvuthela.
- Amaqamza aneendiza: Ufuna kuphela iglasi enamanzi kunye neendiza ezinemibala. Baza kuba nokudubula kanye xa befunde ukuvuthela kwaye babone ukuba bakwazi njani ukwenza amaqamza.
Isigaba sesibini: ukufunda ukuvuthela ngeempumlo
Nje ukuba umntwana alawule ukuvuthela ngomlomo, banokufunda ukuvuthela ngeempumlo. Kodwa umntwana akazukuhlulahlula enye isenzo okanye enye, ke Kuya kufuneka umfundise ukuba zizenzo ezahlukeneyo. Ungawasebenzisa la maqhinga:
- Qhubeka nomququ: Kodwa kule meko, ngelixa umntwana evuthela ngomlomo wakhe esenza amagwebu, cinezela umququ ngeminwe yakho. Into ezakwenzeka yileya uxinzelelo lomoya luya kuvelisa umnqweno wempumlo ngokuzenzekelayo.
- Beka umgubo okanye into elula etafileni: Cela umntwana avuthele impumlo ukwenza into ihambe.
Isigaba sesithathu: Funda ukwenza uqinisa ngeminwe yakho
Umntwana kufuneka afumane ubuchule obuthile ngeminwe yakhe emincinci ukuze ubambe izicwili empumlweni yakho kwaye usebenzise uxinzelelo oluyimfuneko. Ungayisebenzisa le midlalo ukusebenza izakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto:
- Vula kwaye uvale iingubo zokunxiba: Thatha isikhongozeli seplastiki usigcwalise ngemigqomo yokunxiba. Bonisa umntwana wakho apho aza kukhama khona ukuze ucofe luvuleke kwaye alubeke phezu komphetho wesikhongozeli. Vumela umntwana ukuba ancamathisele abantu abaninzi njengoko efuna kwaye baphinde basebenzise ixesha nexesha.
Isigaba sesine: Ukubetha iSnot yakho ngeTshefu
Okwangoku, kuhlala kuphela ukuziqhelanisa okuninzi kunye nomonde omkhulu. Nika umntwana ithishu uthathe enye, umbonise indlela yokwenza. Akukho mfundo ingcono kunaleyo yokuxelisa, yima ecaleni kwakhe ucacise inyathelo ngenyathelo indlela ekufuneka eyenzile ngayo.
Iqhinga lilandelayo, umntwana kufuneka abambe itshefu ngezandla zombini kwaye ayizise empumlweni. Ngomnwe kufuneka uvale enye yemingxunya kwaye ukuvuthela ngamandla ngeempumlo ukukhupha i-snot.
Kubalulekile ukuziqhelanisa, ukuze umntwana angafunda ukuvuthela i-snot yabo ngokuzimela. Kodwa ukufezekisa oku kuya kufuneka udlule kwizigaba zangaphambili, ngaphandle kokudinwa kwiminwe yakho kwaye ungazi ukuba uvuthele njani ngeempumlo, ngekhe ukwazi ukufunda ukwenza eso simbo somzimba.