Ngaphakathi kuthotho lwezithuba zokuthetha ngomdlalo kunye neethoyi ezifanelekileyo kubudala bunye, kwakusafuneka sigxile kulutsha, abathi nangona ngamanye amaxesha silibale, kusafuneka badlale (enyanisweni, umdlalo usaluncedo nakubantu abadala) . Kwaye ukuba ngexesha lobuntwana, ukudlala kuyanceda, kulutsha uncediso oluvumela uphuhliso kunye nokomelezwa yamandla ahlukeneyo emzimbeni, engqondweni, ngokweemvakalelo, kubuchule bokuqonda kunye nokuchaphazela ubuchule; ngokweziphumo ze uphononongo olukhokelwe nguSarah Blakemore kwaye lwapapashwa kwiNtlalontle yoPhuhliso lweBongo.
Ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-10 kwiimeko ezininzi, nangakumbi ngokubanzi yi-12 into yokudlala yemveli iphulukana nokubaluleka kwayo, kwaye ithathelwa indawo yimidlalo yevidiyo, imidlalo kunye nemidlalo yebhodi; ngokwenza akusoloko kufakwa endaweni, kuba banokuncedisana. Amantombazana namakhwenkwe aphulukana nomdla wokufunda ngexesha lokufikisa, kodwa ukuba umkhwa ukhuliswa besebancinci, mhlawumbi baya kubuyela kuyo kamva. Ngamanye amaxesha sifunda ukuba itekhnoloji ithanda ukuzimela, kodwa kuye kwaboniswa ukuba le yokugqibela ayisosiphumo ngqo; Kwaye nakwiintsapho ezifana neyam, amava amava: unyana wam yigek kwaye ngamanye amaxesha udlala yedwa ... Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha udlala nodadewabo, abazali bakhe, abamelwane, umhlobo wakhe osenyongweni, iqela lakhe lokuthandana, okanye i-Intanethi , utyekelo lokuba sabelane ngomdlalo ngaphezu kokonwabela wedwa, nangona ukuba kwinqanaba labo kungenzeki kuthi.
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo ukusuka kwi-Children's Play Observatory, abazali baqinisekiswa ukuba 'umdlalo ubaluleke kakhulu njengeyona ndlela yokunxibelelana ethanda unxibelelwano nokuqonda phakathi kwabazali nabantwana kule minyaka'.; ungathandabuzi ukwabelana ngemidlalo xa ubuza, okanye ukucebisa ngamathuba omdlalo ekwabelwana ngawo.
Uyikhetha njani iithoyi kulutsha: gcinani engqondweni ukuba ...
Umntwana wakho ngumntwana kuba usemncinci, kodwa ujongene Inqanaba lotshintsho olukhulu oluya kukhokelela kubudala; Utshintsho luvela kwelona candelo libonakalayo (ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwasentlalweni, ngokwengqondo, ...) ukuya kuphuhliso lwehomoni kunye nokukhula kwengqondo. Esinye seziphumo ezikhawulezileyo zezi 'Ukwahlula' kwabazali: baneeprojekthi zaboBadibana nabo bafuna, bathathe isigqibo ngokuzonwabisa kwabo, bakhulise ukucinga okungacacanga; 'akukho nto intsha phantsi kwelanga, sikhona nathi. Ngaphandle kokuba uneempawu zokuba banokuba nengxaki enkulu, akufuneki uphazamise; Uselusapho kodwa igalelo lolutsha olufikisayo luyatshintsha xa kuthelekiswa namanqanaba angaphambili.
Kuba bafuna ixesha lokuba kunye nabo, bazane bhetele kwaye bazakhele isazisi, umnqweno wokucoca ngokuqhubekayo uphela unyamalala, ayikhathazi
Ungazikhetha njani iithoyi zabantwana ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwezi-6: zeziphi izinto zokudlala onokuthi uzinike?
Ndithetha ngokwemiqathango ngokubanzi yeqela lobudala elibanzi kakhulu (ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-16 phantse), kunzima ukunika iingcebiso eziphendula konke ukuthandabuza kwakho kuba umdla utshintsha kakhulu ngokobudala bomntwana wakho, kwaye nangona kunjalo yonke into iphawulwe ngokuvuthwa uqobo. Umntu oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala usenokuba nomdla kwizithuthi ezilawulwa kude, umntu oneminyaka eli-10 ubudala akanako; Kukho abo babengayithandi imidlalo yebhodi nge-8, kwaye bakwi-15; Abanye bayayamkela imidlalo yevidiyo enenqanaba le-PEGI elingaphantsi kwe-16 ukuya kweli-15, kwaye abanye bayifuna nge-13.
Kodwa kubonakala ngathi kukho imvumelwano yokuba 'umdlalo' usongeza amaxabiso kwaye ubonelele ngokufunda, kwaye eyona nto intle kukuba iyenza ngendlela emnandi. Ikwavumela ukuba wandise kwaye uphucule ubudlelwane ekuhlaleni kunye nokwandisa izakhono zobudlelwane. Ungayichazanga eyokuba kungumthombo wolonwabo.
Umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo angathanda ukudlala:
- IMeccans kunye nolwakhiwo lweemodeli.
- Imidlalo yebhodi yeqhinga.
- Izinto zokudlala zesayensi kunye nokulinga.
- Izithuthi ezilawula kude.
- Umdlalo yevidiyo.
- Imidlalo ye-elektroniki.
- Imidlalo yokwakha.
- Imidlalo edibeneyo yemathematics.
- Ukudlala indima.
- Imodeli ye-anatomical okanye iglobe, ukuba unomdla kulwazi.
Unokunika izixhobo kunye nezixhobo zemidlalo, kuba lixesha apho izinto zokuzonwabisa zichazwa
Uyikhetha njani iithoyi yabantwana abaneminyaka emi-3 ukuya kweli-6 ubudala: ukhuseleko engqondweni
Khumbula ukuba kufanelekile ukuyithathela ingqalelo xa bekhula: Ukumakisha i-CE, ukongamela iithoyi zombane (ukuba umntwana ungaphantsi kweminyaka eli-13/14 ubudala), Ukukhetha ngononophelo umxholo wedijithali ukunqanda ukuboniswa kakhulu kwabo bangafanelekanga. Kwakhona ulumke malunga nokusetyenziswa kwezithuthi ezilawulwa kude, abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-12 ubudala abanako ukuba nobuchule obaneleyo.
Ndigqibezela ngokukhumbula ukuba umdla wabo uhlala 'uqhubeka' xa ukhetha into oza kubanika yona. Thatha ixesha lakho, undwendwele iivenkile ezahlukeneyo kunye neendawo zorhweboNdivumele ndikukhaphe (ukumangaliswa kule minyaka akunakuthatha isigqibo) kunye nokucebisa, nokuba uthenga wedwa ngesinye isihlandlo. Kwaye ungalibali ukuphonononga umxholo wethu ucebisa iithoyi iintsana, abantwana abancinci, kwaye abantwana abaneminyaka eyi-6 ukuya kwe-10.
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