Ukuba ungutata, uya kwazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ixesha lokufikisa linqanaba elinzima kakhulu kuye nawuphina umntu osemtsha ke kuya kufuneka uhambe ngeenyawo zelothe kwaye uphephe ukuba eli nqanaba lobomi libe sisihogo sokwenyani somntwana kunye nabazali ngokwabo.
Iingcali kwisifundo sicebisa, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukukhuthaza kunye nokukhuthaza ubuchule babantwana abafikisayo kuba ngale ndlela baziva bekhululekile kwaye bezimele xa besebenzisa izimvo zabo ezininzi.
Ukubaluleka kokukhuthaza ubuchule kulutsha
Uninzi lwabazali bayazibuza ukuba kutheni kubalulekile ukukhuthaza kunye nokukhuthaza ubuchule kulutsha lwabo. Emva koko sichaza izizathu:
- Ukuyila kunceda ukwenza ukuba iinkqubo zomntu oselula zisebenze.
- Ivumela ukuphuhlisa amandla okuqonda.
- Ukuyila kukhuthaza ubukrelekrele.
- Kwomeleza ukuzithemba nokuzithemba komntwana ofikisayo.
- Ivumela umntu omncinci ukuba akwazi ukunxibelelana nokunxibelelana ngcono nabanye.
- Inceda ukuthintela uxinzelelo, exhaphake kakhulu kulutsha.
Ubuchule kulutsha
Ixesha lokufikisa linqanaba lobomi elibonakaliswa linani elikhulu lokunyuka nokuphakama kweemvakalelo abantu abancinci abahluphekayo. Los bazali Banokunceda ekwenzeni yonke into ibekezeleleke ngakumbi ngokubavumela ukuba baphuhlise ubuchule babo ngale ndlela ilandelayo nangokulandela nayiphi na le misebenzi ilandelayo:
- Thatha into ethile kwaye ufumane iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuyisebenzisa. Nangona ekuqaleni kunokubonakala ngathi bubudenge, inyani kukuba olu hlobo lomsebenzi luyakhuthaza umntu omncinci kwaye ulungile.
- Ukwenza ifilimu emfutshane yindlela efanelekileyo yokukhuthaza ubuchule kulutsha. Isenokuba nzima ekuqaleni kuba ayisiyonto ilula ukuyenza kodwa ifezekile xa kufikwa kumba wokukhuthaza ubuchule obunjalo. Ukwenza into emfutshane kubandakanya ukwenza izinto ezininzi, ezinje ngokuvelisa iskripthi, ukwalathisa zonke izigcawu ezikumfanekiso, nokutolika.
- Ukuqiqa ngengqondo yindlela efanelekileyo efanelekileyo yokufumana isisombululo kwiingxaki ezinokwenyani okanye ezingeyonyani ngebhetri yeengcinga atsho ngazo umntu oselula. Ezinye zezi zimvo zinokubonakala ngathi ziphambene kwaye zingenantloko, kodwa kuya kufuneka uzivume, ukuze ukhuthaze ukucinga kunye nobuchule bokufikisa.
- Ukuthatha uthotho lweefoto nako kunokuba kuhle kulutsha. Unokukhetha ukuthatha imifanekiso ngeselula yakho okanye ubathathe ngendlela enobuchule ngakumbi ngekhamera elungileyo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umfana ashiye ubuchule bakhe bokuhamba kwaye abe nenkululeko xa kufikwa ekuthatheni iifoto azifunayo.
- Ubuchule bobugcisa yenye indlela elungileyo yokukhuthaza ubuchule kulo naliphi na ixesha lokufikisa. Nokuba yeyokupeyinta okanye yokwenza uhlobo oluthile lomdongwe ngodongwe kubalulekile xa kuziwa kulawulo lweemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo zolutsha kunye nokukwazi ukunqamla iingxaki zemihla ngemihla.
- Ukwenza ezakho iimpahla kunye nezinto zoncedo kunceda ekuphuculeni ubuchule bolunye ulutsha. Zive ukhululekile ukumnika inkululeko yokuzivavanya kwaye uzive ulungile ngaye. Umhlaba wefashoni unokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba avelise bonke ubuchule obunokugcinwa ngaphakathi.
Njengoko sele ubonile, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo onokukhetha kuzo kunye nemisebenzi enokuvumela umntwana ukuba afikise ubuchule bakhe. Khumbula ukuba kumaxesha amaninzi iingxaki ezivelayo phakathi kwabazali kunye nabantwana babo ngexesha lokufikisa, zezona bazive bezithembile kwaye abanakho ukwenza ubuchule ababuphetheyo ngaphakathi. Awulahli nto ngokukhetha enye yezi zinto zikhankanywe ngasentla kwaye uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba enze into ayithandayo kwaye oko komeleze ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kwakhe.