Ukuhlaselwa ngumsindo ebantwaneni kuqhelekile. Yimeko enzima kakhulu ukuba abazali abaninzi abayazi indlela yokuphatha ngokuchanekileyo. Ukuba novalo kumacala omabini kuhlala kwenza izinto ziphume kulawulo, kubangele iziphumo ezibi nezingalunganga. Emva koko sikunika izikhokelo ukuze uthintele olu hlaselo lomsindo kunye nendlela efanelekileyo yokulawula.
Ukuhlaselwa ngumsindo kuBantwana
Ukuba ungutata okanye umama, uya kuba namava okuhlaselwa ngumsindo kumntwana wakho. Umntwana akayifumani le nto ayifunayo kwaye uqala ukukhala nokukhaba. Olu hlobo lokuziphatha luqhelekile phantse kubo bonke abantwana ngenxa yoko akufuneki ukhathazeke kakhulu. Kuyenzeka nakubantu abadala umahluko wokuba bayayazi indlela yokulawula iimpembelelo ezithile. Ixesha elingaphezulu kunye nokulandela uthotho lwezikhokelo, olu hlaselo lwe ira yiya kokuncinci kwaye ujongane nazo ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo.
Iingcebiso zokulawula umsindo evela kubantwana
Nika ingqalelo kwezi ngcebiso zilandelayo eziza kukuvumela ukuba ulawule umsindo onokuthi usweleke umntwana wakho.
- Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukuthoba umoya kwaye zama ukuthetha nomntwana wakho ukuze ufumanise ukuba yintoni engalunganga kuye.
- Akufanele uluthathe ngokobuqu olu hlaselo. Umncinci akayazi indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye ufuna uncedo lwakho ukuze akwazi ukwenza njalo.
- Imeko yeemvakalelo zomntwana wakho ibaluleke kakhulu xa kuziwa ekuhlaselweni ngumsindo. Yiyo loo nto kulungile ukuba uthethe naye malunga neemvakalelo zakhe.
- Ukuba umntwana unovalo kakhulu, akufuneki umenze buhlungu. Vumela imizuzwana embalwa ukuba yehlise umoya kwaye ungaqala ukuthetha ukuze ufumane okwenzekileyo.
- Emva kokuba umsindo udlulile, zive ukhululekile ukuhlala phantsi nomntwana wakho nithethe ngokwenzekileyo. Kulungile ukuhlalutya imeko kwaye ujonge izisombululo kwimeko enokwenzeka kwakhona.
- Kuyacetyiswa ukuba umfundise iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphumla, ukuze azame ukungabi nomsindo kwixa elizayo. Ukubala ukuya kwi-10 okanye ukuya kwelinye igumbi kukhetho umntwana wakho anokulwazi ukuze angacaphuki rhoqo.
- Abazali kufuneka babe ngumzekelo ngawo onke amaxesha ukuze ungaphulukani nendima yakho nangaliphi na ixesha kwaye uhlale uzolile. Ukuba ubona utata wakho enomsindo kwaye enomsindo, unokuphinda uziphathe.
Ungawuthintela njani umsindo evela ebantwaneni
- Kuba umntwana mncinci, kulungile ukudlala ukuze afunde ukubona iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ezikhoyo. Ndiyabulela kule nto nangaphezulu kwexesha, baya kuba nakho ukubona ezabo iimo.
- Kuya kufuneka uphakamise ezinye iindlela ezahlukeneyo ukuze ubenakho ukunyanga umsindo onokubakho kwaye yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha evunyelweyo. Ukubetha, ukuthukisa okanye ukutshica akufani Ngaphandle kokukwazi ukuguqula umsindo wakhe kwincwadi yokupeyinta.
- Abazali kufuneka bakuphephe ukusebenzisa ukukhanyela ngalo lonke ixesha xa benqabela into evela emntwaneni wabo. Endaweni yokuba kucetyiswe ngakumbi ukuba uvelane nomncinci kwaye uzibeke ezihlangwini zabo. Sonke sincinci kwaye siye safumana loo maxesha okuqumba kunye nomsindo. Umntwana uziva eqondwa ngalo lonke ixesha ukuba abazali bayawuqonda umsindo wakhe.
- Ngamaxesha amaninzi, uhlaselo olukhankanyiweyo lomsindo lwenzeka ngamaxesha athile anjengokuba ulambile okanye udikiwe. Ngaphambi kokufikelela kumzuzu onzima ngolu hlobo, kulungile ukukhusela isimilo esinjalo.
Umsindo kunye nomsindo ziqhelekile ebantwaneni kwaye yiyo loo nto abazali kufuneka bengaphulukani nendima yabo okanye boyike kakhulu. Kukho uthotho lwezikhokelo ezinokukunceda ukuthintela ukugqabhuka komsindo kwaye uphephe ukufikelela kwimeko egqithisileyo nengalawulekiyo. Kwimeko apho loo mzuzu unomsindo uza emntwaneni, kufuneka wehlise umoya kwaye uzame ukulungisa le meko uzolile kangangoko.