Ukunceda abantwana bafezekise iinjongo zabo kukuqinisekisa ukuba ebomini babo baya kuba nakho ukulawula iminqweno yabo kwaye basebenzise izixhobo eziyimfuneko ukuzizalisekisa. Ngoba umntu ufuna iinjongo kunye neenjongo ezibonisa umzamo, lowo ekugqibeleni ozisa umvuzo kwaye enze ubomi buhlale bunenjongo. Isiphelo esikunyanzela ukuba usebenze nzima kwaye wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukukufezekisa.
Le yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ekubetheleleni ebantwaneni. Kuba bancinci kufuneka bafunde ukuzibekela iinjongo zokuba bahlangane kwaye akukho nto ilunge ngakumbi ngaphandle koncedo lwabazali lokuyiphumeza. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba ungabanceda njani abantwana bakho bafezekise iinjongo zabo? Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso ezifanelekileyo eziza kuba luncedo olukhulu kuwe.
Zithini iinjongo kunye nendlela onokubanceda ngayo abantwana ukuba bazifezekise
Injongo ngumceli mngeni, injongo, isiphelo esiquka umvuzo othile. Oku kunokuba yinyani yokuhlangabezana nenjongo, nangona ebomini iinjongo ezisebenza kwamanye amanqanaba afana nomsebenzi, zikwabandakanya umvuzo obaluleke ngakumbi. Umgangatho we ukufezekisa okona kulungileyo ngokwakho, umvuzo womzamo, yinto ebalulekileyo ebomini wakhe nawuphina umntu, okwabantwana.
Ukunceda abantwana bakho bafezekise iinjongo zabo, kufuneka uqale ubafundise ukuba zeziphi iinjongo. Xa bebancinci kakhulu, iinjongo zabo zinokuba lula njengokunxiba suku ngalunye okanye ukubanakho ukugqiba iphazili okanye umdlalo othile wolwakhiwo. Kukule mizuzu xa unakho khokela abantwana bakho kwaye ubafundise ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo, Qaphela ezi ngcebiso.
Vumela abantwana bakho bazenzele izigqibo
Oko kuthetha ukuba ayithinteli imiba ebeka umceli mngeni kubo, nokuba ayibonakali iyinto elungileyo kuwe. Oku kuhlala kwenzeka kubantwana abadala, xa bekwishumi elivisayo kwaye kufuneka bafumanise ukuba yeyiphi imida yabo. Fundisa abantwana bakho ukwenza isicwangciso, ukufumana indlela yokuhlangabezana nenjongo yakho nokuba ibonakala ngathi iphambene kangakanani. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakwazi ukufikelela kwinjongo, isenokungabi ngumbono ophambeneyo.
Bhiyozela yonke impumelelo nokuba incinci kangakanani
Ukufikelela kwiinjongo kubaluleke kakhulu, ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba ubhiyozele impumelelo nganye encinci kunye nabantwana bakho ukuze bazive bekhuthazekile kwaye benomdla wokuqhubeka. Ukwenza injongo ifikeleleke ngakumbi, ifundisa abantwana ukuba bazibekele iinjongo zexesha elifutshane, eliphakathi nelide. Ke banokonwabela impumelelo yonke indlela.
Fundisa abantwana bakho ukubaluleka komgudu
Ukunikezela ngesiqingatha sobunzima yeyona nto banokujongana nayo. Xa bengazi ukuba baqhubeke njani, cXa bephulukana nenkuthazo okanye xa baziva bengenako, kufuneka baziva inkxaso yakho kunye namandla akho okuziva ukuba banako. Umzamo sisiseko sayo nayiphi na impumelelo, kuba ukuba akukho nzame akunakubakho mbuyekezo. Fundisa abantwana bakho amaxabiso afana nomzamo okanye usebenze.
Yiba ngumzekelo kubantwana bakho
Eyona ndlela yokufundisa abantwana ngumzekelo. Ukuba abantwana bakho bakubona uzenzela isicwangciso kwaye suku ngalunye babona ukuba uzabalazela njani ukusiphumeza, baya kuyazi ngakumbi ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukusebenza nzima ukuze ufumane le nto uyifunayo. Hlala nabantwana bakho kwaye iphakamisa uluvo lokuba ngamnye ubeka usukelo, injongo ufuna ukufezekisa.
Umzekelo, ngaba ungomnye woomama abaninzi abaphindaphinda ekhaya ukuba ufuna ukwenza umthambo kodwa ungaze wenze? Ewe, eli lelona xesha lilungileyo lokufundisa abantwana bakho ukuba nawe uyakwazi ukubeka usukelo kwaye usebenzele ukulufikelela. Ukuba abantwana bakho bakubona udlala imidlalo yonke imihla, nokuba banomnqweno omncinci okanye amandla, baya kuba nenkuthazo phambi kwamehlo abo ukuba basebenzele ukufezekisa zonke iinjongo zabo.