Abantu abaninzi xa becinga ngokuxhatshazwa okanye ukuxhatshazwa, ngokuzenzekelayo bacinga ngobundlobongela. Kuyinyani ukuba ubundlobongela yinto enzulu yokuxhatshazwa ekufuneka ingakhathalelwangaKuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ayisiyiyo kuphela uhlobo lokuhlukumeza olwenzekayo. Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemphefumlweni kubandakanya ukujolisa emntwini ngokwenza intetho ethoba isidima okanye eyoyikisayo, into ekhoyo ngoku kwizikolo ezininzi nakwiindawo zokusebenza. Ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo nako kukuhlukumeza ezikolweni kunye nokuhlokoma emsebenzini.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo (kokubini abantu abadala, abakwishumi elivisayo, ulutsha okanye abantwana) kunokukhokelela kuxinzelelo e kwanokuzibulala. Ngenxa yoku, kubaluleke kakhulu ukulwa nabaxhaphazi beemvakalelo ukwenza ukuba izikolo zikhuseleke. Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho uxhatshazwa ngokwasemphefumlweni, zikhona izinto onokuzenza ukunqanda okanye ukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba ajongane nazo.
Ziqaphele iimpawu
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela iimpawu zokuba umntwana wakho uyaxhatshazwa ngokwasemoyeni. Xa umntwana wakho esiya esikolweni kunokuba nzima kakhulu kuye, kusenokwenzeka ukuba le nto yenzekayo kuye kukuba anyamezele iimeko ezingahambelaniyo nezimvisa ubuhlungu emphefumlweni. Kungenxa yokuba ungabuyi ekhaya utyumkile akuthethi ukuba awonzakalisi esikolweni kubaxhaphazi beemvakalelo.
Ngamaxesha amaninzi, abantwana bazama ukuyifihla into yokuba bangcungcuthekiswa. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba umxhaphazi esenokuba wabasongela ngokubenzakalisa ukuba baxelela abazali babo, okanye mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba umntwana eziva engakhululekanga xa ethetha ngento eyenzekayo.
Iimpawu zinokwahluka kakhulu kuba ziya kuxhomekeka emntwaneni ova ubunzima kubo, kodwa banokuba zizilumkiso xa abantwana Bafuna ukukhuselwa kakhulu ngabazali babo, xa benengxaki yesisu okanye iintloko ngaphambi kokuya esikolweni ... Ukuba uqaphela ukuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle, kuya kufuneka uthethe nomntwana wakho ukuze ufumanise ukuba ngaba uxhatshazwa ngokwasemphefumlweni esikolweni. Ngale ndlela kuphela unokufumana izisombululo ezifanelekileyo.
Ukujamelana noko kwenzekayo
Kuya kufuneka ufundise umntwana wakho ukumelana nezi meko. Ukulwa ngokuthe ngqo kuya kwenza izinto zibe mandundu kwaye kunokukhokelela ekubeni umntwana wakho angene engxakini esikolweni. Endaweni yoko, fundisa abantwana ukuhlala bezolile kwaye bayirhoxe imeko. Kufanelekile kananjalo ukuba nihlale kumaqela abantwana ukuze abo baxhaphazayo boyikiswe bangaphazanyiswa.
Bandakanya abanye abantu abadala ngobulumko
Ukuba umntwana wakho uxhatshazwa ngokwasemphefumlweni, kuya kubaluleka ukubandakanya abanye abantu abadala esikolweni ukuze bazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Ke, xa imeko yobundlobongela ngamazwi, umntu omdala angangenelela ukunceda aphelise ukuxhatshazwa. Utitshala wesikolo, umqhubi webhasi, inqununu yesikolo okanye abanye abantu kufuneka bayazi into eyenzekayo, bahlala ngokuzithemba nangokuqonda ukuze abantwana bangazi ukuba bayazi, ukuba akunjalo ukuba bayangenelela kungenxa yokuba babonile amehlo akho. Phakathi kwethu sonke, umhlaseli angabanjwa, kodwa akufuneki sijonge kwenye indawo.
Xa abantu abadala bebona ukungaziphathi kakuhle, banokuhlangana baxoxe ingxaki ngezisombululo ezinokubakho. Emva kwale ntlanganiso yokuqala, kuya kufuneka ukuba kwenziwe ezinye iintlanganiso zokulandelela ukujonga ukuqhubeka kwemeko.
Ikhaya kufuneka libe yindawo ekhuselekileyo
Ikhaya kufuneka libe yindawo ekhuselekileyo yomntwana, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bazive ukuba xa bengena endlwini yabo bayangena kwindawo yabo yokubalekela, indawo apho baya kuhlala bekhuselekile. Kukho abantwana abajongana nokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemphefumlweni kwaye bayakwazi ukuboyisa kwaye bangaweli kuxinzelelo ngenxa yokuba kukho indawo ekhuselekileyo nenothando emakhayeni abo. Xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle esikolweni, abantwana kufuneka bakwazi ukujonga phambili ukuze bakwazi ukugoduka yonke imihla kwaye bazive bekhuselekile.
Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ugcine indlu yakho icocekile kwaye uzilungiselele ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwabantwana bakho, ubamkele emnyango wangaphambili nangalo lonke uthando emhlabeni ukuze bazive bethandwa kwaye behlonitshwa ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukongeza, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubanika ixesha elisemgangathweni, isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nosapho, phumani niyokwenza imisebenzi ngaphandle kwekhaya nangaphakathi kuyo, thethani ngezinto zemihla ngemihla, thethani ngeemvakalelo ... umntwana wakho kufuneka aqonde ukuba unomdla kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo kunye nokuba ngumntu obaluleke kakhulu kwindawo yakhe esondeleyo.
Sebenza kwizakhono zeemvakalelo nomntwana wakho
Ukuba kunyanzelekile okanye awuqeqeshwanga, unokucela ingcebiso kubungcali kwimfundo yeemvakalelo ukuze umntwana wakho akwazi ukuphucula imisebenzi yakhe.. Uninzi lwabantwana abangcungcuthekiswa esikolweni bayaluphendula olu hlobo lokuxhatshazwa ngokuba ngabaxhaphazi ukuze bakhuphe umsindo wabo ngaphakathi. Enye indlela yokuthintela oku kukusebenza nomntwana wakho ekucwangciseni iiprojekthi zenkonzo kunye nokunceda abanye abantu abahlwempuzekileyo. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba kuncinci ukuba ufuna ukukhupha wonke umsindo wakho ngokuxhaphaza abanye abantwana kwaye endaweni yoko, kuya kunceda abo banokubangcungcuthekiswa ngabanye abaxhaphazi.
Yenza imisebenzi ngaphandle kwesikolo
Ukwenza imisebenzi ngaphandle kwesikolo kunokukunika amandla okuzithemba ukuze ukwazi ukuphucula indlela ozijonga ngayo. Ukubhalisela imisebenzi yangaphandle ngokwenza izinto olungileyo kuzo kunye nezinto ozithandayo kuya kukuzisela intlalo-ntle kwaye, Uyakwazi ukudibana namanye amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana akwiintanga zakho ukuba wenze ubuhlobo obuhle nabo kwaye ungaziva ungcono nokuba ungubani. Ngale ndlela uyakuqonda ukuba umxhaphazi osoyikisa ngokweemvakalelo nguye kuphela onengxaki (ngokuqinisekileyo unemvakalelo) kwaye kuphela kwendlela ekufuneka uzive wonwabile ngayo.