Abantwana bakhula rhoqo bephila ngamava amatsha, amava anokuthi ngamanye amaxesha oyise ukusukela oko besebancinci kakhulu abayazi indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zabo. Xa umntwana enomsindo okanye umzuzu onomsindo, bafuna umntu oza kubafundisa ukuba bazole. Zininzi iindlela zokufundisa abantwana ukuba behlise umoya, namhlanje siza kuyazi indlela yeebhaluni.
Kubalulekile ukufundisa abantwana izixhobo abanokuzisebenzisa ukulawula iimowudi zabo. Inkqubo yebhaluni isetyenziswa ngabazali abaninzi, njengoko injalo kuyasebenza ekuncedeni ukuzolisa umntwana ngexesha lexhala. Ilungile kuba obu buchule buquka ukufundisa umntwana ukulawula ukuphefumla kwakhe, ngokudlala.
Yintoni ubuchule bebhaluni?
Inkqubo yebhaluni isetyenziselwa ukuzolisa umntwana xa efumana umzuzu wovalo ngokuphefumla. Kuya kukunceda ukuba wazi ukusebenza kwemiphunga kunye iyakukunceda ukwazi ukuzola phantsi kweemeko ezifanayo. Obu buchule bulula kakhulu, buquka ukonyusa iibhaluni ezininzi ngelixa uzolile uchaze umntwana wakho ukuba iibhaluni zinje ngabantu xa benovalo, zombini zigcwalisa umoya abangakwaziyo ukuzikhulula.
Emva koko thabatha ibhaluni nganye kwaye uyibeke emilebeni yomlomo wakho, emva koko, kufuneka ubambe umoya ngeempumlo zakho, kangangoko umntwana enakho kwaye emva koko ayikhulule ngomlomo. Ngale ndlela, ibhaluni iya kugcwaliswa ngumoya ophuma ngaphakathi kunye nomphunga ngamnye. Kufuneka uphinde lo msebenzi ubuncinci amaxesha ama-4 okanye ama-5, okoko umntwana engaphazanyiswa sisiyezi kwaye ezolile.
Emva kokuba ibhaluni igcwele umoya, cela umntwana wakho ukuba ayicaphukise kancinci kancinciUkwenza oku, kuya kufuneka uthathe into oyithethayo kwaye uyolule ide ibe engenamngxunya. Ngale ndlela, umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba angayenza xa ekhathazekile kwaye egcwele umoya.
Izibonelelo zenkqubo yeebhaluni
Obu buchule buluncedo kakhulu ekuzoliseni abantwana abanokuba nexhala, ukongeza inezibonelelo ezininzi njenge:
- Uncedo phucula ubizo kunye nokuphucula indlela yokubiza izandi
- Iphuculwe ngokucacileyo amandla emiphunga zomntwana
- Umntwana ufunda ukukhululeka ngoku lawula iimpembelelo luvalo
Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala ejongene neemeko zovalo, zama ukuhlala uzolile, kulula ukuba nomsindo kwaye ugqibe ukukhala ngaxeshanye. Zama ukujongana nemeko kwaye sebenza nomntwana wakho ngezi ndlela zobuchule.