Abantwana bafuna iinkqubo ukuze bazive bekhuselekile, ukuba usuku lwabo luhlelwe ngendlela elungeleleneyo kubanceda ukuba bazi inyathelo elilandelayo kwaye ke bathintele ukungazithembi okungaziwayo. Abancinci bahlala befunda kwaye isifundo ngasinye esitsha sinokuba sisizathu sokungazithembi kubo. Ukongeza, iinkqubo ziyimfuneko ukuze abantwana bafezekise ulungelelwaniso lweemvakalelo.
Funda ibali ngaphambi kokuba ulale yenye yeendlela eziluncedo kakhulu emntwaneni Ngandlela zonke. Uziva exabisekile kuba umama okanye utata uyeka nantoni na ayenzayo ukubalisa ibali. Kodwa ukongeza, ukwenza umkhwa wokufunda ebantwaneni kuya kubanika izibonelelo ezinkulu kwinqanaba lokuqonda, phakathi kwabanye abaninzi.
Uncwadi kufuneka lubekhona kubomi babantwana
Ngamabali, abantwana banokufumana impendulo kwizinto ezininzi ezibaxhalabisayo kwaye baliqonde ngcono ilizwe elibangqongileyo. Kumabali abaliswayo banako uqaphele iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo kwaye ufunde ukuzilawula. Ukongeza, iyabanceda baphuhlise ukucinga kwabo, baphucule ubuchule babo kunye nokukhuthaza intelekelelo.
Enye yeendima ezibaluleke kakhulu kuncwadi ekukhuleni kwabantwana kukukwazi ulwimi. Ngamabali amancinci bandise isigama sabo ngendlela elula necacileyo, ukudibanisa imifanekiso negama labo elihambelanayo. Ukukwazi kwabo ukuqonda kunye nokugxila kuyasebenza nabo, kwaye ukukwazi kwabo ukukhumbula ngentloko nako kuyaphuculwa.
Izibonelelo zebali elimnandi ebusuku
Njengoko ubona, ukubandakanya ukufunda kwiinkqubo zabantwana bakho kuya kuzisa kakhulu izibonelelo zokuphuhla kwengqondo kunye nokukhula kwengqondo yabancinci. Ukufunda Kufuneka ibe yinxalenye yobomi babantwana, kubalulekile ukubanceda bakhulise amandla abo, ulwimi, intetho, unxibelelwano, njl. Kodwa ukongeza kwezi zibonelelo, ibali elilungileyo lasebusuku lizisa ezinye izibonelelo ezininzi.
Ukukhuthaza ukuphumla nokulala
Usuku lwabantwana lugcwele iimvakalelo kunye nemisebenzi egcina umzimba wakho usebenza, ukufezekisa ukulala okuthuthuzelayo Kufuneka bangene kuqala kwimeko yokuphumla. Ibali lokulala liya kukunceda ufezekise imeko yoxolo. Ukufezekisa oku, kubalulekile ukuba ithoni yelizwi lakho izolile kwaye inesidima, akufuneki wenze intshukumo okanye ungqubana.
Qinisekisa ukuba ibali lizolile kwaye ube nesiphelo esimnandi, oku kuya kunceda umntwana alele ngokunzulu kwaye ekhululekile.
Yomeleza ubudlelwane bemvakalelo
Kubantwana kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bazive ukuba babalulekile kubazali babo, ke xa kufika ubusuku kwaye ulinikezela elo xesha kubo, ubenza bazive bebalulekile kuwe. Ngalo mkhwa ulula uyakomeleza amaqhina osapho kwaye wonwabele ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nabantwana bakho. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ixesha lebali elimnandi lilungiselelwe abantwana kuphela.
Oku kuthetha ukuba akufuneki ube neselfowuni ekufuphi, okanye ezinye izixhobo okanye izinto ezinokuphazamisa ingqalelo yakho.
Inceda ukuba baqonde iimvakalelo zabo
Ukulungiselela le nto, kubalulekile ukuba uyisebenzise amabali alungele abantwana bakhoAyisiyonto ilula leyo yobudala kodwa ke, yophuhliso lokukhula. Akukho mntu unje ubaziyo abantwana bakho, khangela amabali anomyalezo onako nceda umntwana wakho ngokusekwe kwimeko akuyo ngoku. Kubo kubalulekile ukuba bazi ukuba izinto ezifanayo ziyenzeka nakwabanye abantwana, kodwa kananjalo, kumabali bafumana isisombululo esinokubanceda balawule le meko.
Yenza abantwana bathande ukufunda iya kwenza kubo umkhwa omangalisayo, oluncedo kakhulu kwi ukukhula kwabo ebuntwaneni kodwa nasekukhuleni kwabo. Amabali abaliswa kumabali akuvumela ukuba udlulise amaxabiso, imbali kunye nenkcubeko kuyo yonke imimandla.
Ukufunda akuyiqondi iminyaka, akunamsebenzi ukuba ngaba awubafundeli abantwana bakho amabali, kwaye akunamsebenzi nokuba awufundanga okwangoku. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uqale, bandakanya lo mkhuba kwisiqhelo sabantwana eya kukuthatha imizuzu embalwa ekupheleni kosuku. Apho kunye niya kwabelana khona ngamaxesha okusondelelana, uthando kunye nemiboniso yothando ngaphambi kokuba nilale. Akukho ndlela ibhetele yokuqinisekisa ukuba nonke niyonwabela amaphupha amnandi.