Kungenzeka ukuba Ukuba ukhulelwe, qiniseka ukuba uhamba ukuba kunokwenzeka into engalindelekanga ekwenza uzive ungalunganga. Kodwa inyani kukuba akunandaba ukuba ukhulelwe ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kweenyanga, Ukuba uziva uphilile kwaye usekude kumhla omiselweyo, akufuneki kubekho ngxaki ungahamba ukonwabele iholide yakho nosapho okanye nabahlobo. Kuba nabasetyhini abakhulelweyo bayahamba.
Nangona kuyinyani, ukuba unalo ixesha elincinane lokuzala, kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba ungagqithi kakhulu kwimeko apho kuya kufuneka balekela esibhedlele Ukuya kwezabasebenzi, inyani kukuba ukuba uphilile ungahamba uthabatha amanyathelo okhuseleko kwaye uthathele ingqalelo amaxesha onke imeko yakho njengomfazi okhulelweyo.
Umbono wokuhamba ukhulelwe
I ngcamango ukuhamba ngexesha lokukhulelwa Ingabonakala iyoyikisa ekuqaleni, ngakumbi xa ukhululekile ebhedini. Unokucinga ukuba akukho ndlela ikhuselekileyo yokuhamba ngenqwelomoya okanye awunakuva kamnandi kwigumbi lasehotele. Kodwa inyani yile ukuba ukhulelwe lelinye lawona maxesha angahle okuba ukwazi ukubaleka kwaye wonwabe ngeentsuku zakho zokuphumla.
Akukho mfuneko yokuba ndikukhumbuze ukuba umhlaba wakho uza kuqala ukutshintsha nje ukuba umntwana wakho afike emhlabeni, ke ingalixesha elibalulekileyo lokuba uzibeke phambili kwaye ucwangcise uhambo olulungele wena nolonwabo. Ukuba awunayo imeko yonyango ethintelayo, qalisa ukucwangcisa uhambo oza kulithatha neqabane lakho okanye nabahlobo bakho kwaye wonwabele uhambo olonwabisayo, oluphumlayo nolonwabisayo.
Izinto ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe
Ukuba ufuna ukuthatha uhambo kwaye ube nexesha elimnandi, kuya kufuneka uthathe izinto ezithile ukuze kungabikho nto ikothusayo kwaye ungonwabela iholide okanye iintsuku ezimbalwa ungabikho ngaphandle koloyiko okanye ububi.
Iintsuku oya kuthi uhambe ngazo
Kubalulekile ukuba ucinge ngeentsuku oya kuba ungekho kunye nexesha lokukhulelwa kwakho. Ayifani into yokuba ungabikho eholideyini kangangeentsuku ezi-4 ukhulelwe kunokuba ube nama-21 okanye ama-30 ekupheleni kwayo. Ngesi sizathu, cinga ngenyameko malunga nemihla yohambo lwakho kwaye ucinge ukuba ungayenza nyhani.
Ixesha lokuhamba
Xa uthatha uhambo kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukusuka ekuqaleni kohambo ukuya kwindawo ekuyiwa kuyo. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukulawula izitopu zeemoto ukuze ukwazi ukuya kwindlu yangasese, ukuba uhamba ngololiwe, hlala kufutshane nezindlu zangasese nakwinqwelomoya. Khetha indlela yothutho ekulungeleyo, kwaye ukuba uya kolula imilenze yakho rhoqo emva kweeyure ezimbini, konke kungcono.
Ungumhambi onjani
Ukucwangcisa uhambo, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo into oyithandayo kunye nendlela olonwabela ngayo uhambo lwakho. Ukwenza oku, cinga malunga nokuba into oyithandayo kukubona indawo, ukuya ezintabeni, ukutyelela usapho okanye abahlobo, ukonwabela ulwandle okanye ihotele enephuli.. Ngale ndlela kuphela apho uya kuba nakho ukucinga ukuba loluphi uhlobo lohambo olulungele wena. kwaye unokucwangcisa ngcono.
Ngaba uhambo luyahambelana nokukhulelwa?
Ngamanye amaxesha umfazi ufuna ukuhamba kuba angathanda ukwenza izinto aqhele ukwenza. Ukuba injongo yohambo lwakho kukwenza imidlalo enobungozi, ukusela utywala okanye ukutya ukutya okungaqhelekanga, ke kungcono ukuba uqale ucinge ngolunye uhlobo lohambo kunye nezinye izinto ezinxaxhileyo ukuze ube nakho ukonwabela yeentsuku zakho zokuphuma kunye nokukhulelwa kwakho.
Ngaba lukhona unyango olulungileyo?
Ukuba ukhulelwe, kuyakufuneka ukuba uthathe ingqalelo yokuba indawo oya kuyo ufuna ukhathalelo lonyango olusondeleyo kufutshane nalapho ukhoyo. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba unayo nayiphi na ingxaki xa ukhulelwe. Ngokwesiqhelo, Ukuba uya esixekweni ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nendawo ekufuphi apho unokunyangwa khona ngugqirha ukuba kunyanzelekile, Kodwa xa ungathandabuzeki, kubalulekile ukuba wazise ngesixhobo sonyango esikuloo ndawo ufuna ukuya kuyo.
Ukuba uza kukhenketha phesheya, kufuneka ufumanise ukuba loluphi unyango olukhoyo kwaye uyazi ukuba unganyangwa na ukuba kufanelekile.
Qhagamshelana nogqirha wakho
Kuyimfuneko ukuba ngaphambi kokuhamba uthethile nogqirha okanye umbelekisi wakho ukufumanisa ukuba lolona khetho lulungileyo na kuwe. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba unobungozi obuphezulu okanye ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili, ukuba ukhulelwe amawele okanye ngaphezulu kweentsana ezimbini. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ungahamba kodwa ugqirha akakucebisi, khumbula ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba indawo oya kuyo inokhathalelo olulungileyo lwezonyango okanye ukuba ukufutshane nendlu yakho ukuze ubuye ngokukhawuleza xa kukho into engahambi kakuhle.
Ukuba uhamba ngenqwelo moya kuyakufuneka uthathele ingqalelo umhla wokuphelelwa lixesha kwaye lithuba lakho lokuba umntwana azalwe. Ungabuza ugqirha wakho ingxelo apho olu lwazi lubonakalisiwe kuba kwezinye iinqwelomoya kuyafuneka ukubhabha. Usenokufumana neenqwelomoya ezingabavumeli abasetyhini abakhulelweyo kwinqanaba lokugqibela lokukhulelwa, ke kuya kufuneka ufumane enye indlela yokuhamba okanye ucinge ngenye inkampani yeenqwelomoya.
Iingcebiso zokuqwalaselwa
- Yiva okusemandleni akho ngexesha lokukhwela (yitya kakuhle, usele amanzi amaninzi, hamba-hamba, yenza umthambo ukugcina igazi lihamba)
- Soloko usebenzisa iinkqubo zokhuseleko ezikhoyo kwezothutho ezinje ngebhanti yesihlalo (kodwa yinxibe ngaphandle kokucinezela esiswini sakho)
- Fumana izitofu ezifanelekileyo ngaphambi kohambo lwakho, qhagamshelana nogqirha wakho
- Nxiba iimpahla ezintle ngamaxesha onke
- Cela into oyifunayo nanini na
Ezi zezinye zeengcebiso ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo ngaphambi kokuqala uhambo lwakho kule holide.