Sonke sizikhumbule ngothando iipiknikhi kunye nabazali bethu ebuntwaneni bethu. Zizinto ezixabisekileyo esizikhumbulayo ezenza ukuba sonke sizive sonwabile, ezisisa kumaxesha okonwaba esifuna ukuwaphinda nabantwana bethu.
Ezinye zezizathu ezakhayo zokwenza imisebenzi yangaphandle nabantwana bakho kunokuba kukuchitha ixesha kunye nabo.. Ixesha elityalomali lokuba kunye lixesha elisetyenziselwa ukwakha iziseko eziqinileyo kubudlelwane bakho. Lixesha lokuba ukomeleza amaqhina, ukonwabela ukufunda omnye komnye.
Izibonelelo zendalo esingqongileyo kwinqanaba leengqondo
Uninzi lwee-psychologists ziyavumelana ngezibonelelo eziza nendalo kuzinzo lweemvakalelo zethu. Umbala oluhlaza uzisa ukuzola kunye noxolo engqondweni yethu, kwaye ukunxibelelana nendalo kubangela ukufihlakala kwee-endorphins ezingasichaphazeli kwinqanaba lokusebenza kwengqondo kuphela.Kukwaluncedo nasezintliziyweni zethu. Ke, siyabona ukuba isibonelelo seemvakalelo ayisiso sodwa isibonelelo esinaso kwimpilo yethu, kuba kungekuphela nje apho kungakho uphuculo kwinqanaba leengqondo, kodwa nasemzimbeni, ukuthatha uhambo oluhle nabantwana bethu kwindalo. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kuphucula izakhono zakho zemoto, ithoni yezihlunu kunye nokuphefumla umoya ococekileyo kunesedolophini, isibonelelo sikwabonwa nakwindlela yokuphefumla.
Ukuzilolonga ngaphandle
Ukuthatha uhambo nabantwana kwindalo kuluncedo kusapho lonke. Ayisiyiyo kuphela yokwenza umthambo ngokwawo, esele sithethileyo ukuba iluncedo kuye wonke umntu. Kumnandi kakhulu kwaye kunomvuzo wokuhamba intaba okanye ukuhamba ngebhayisikile, kuluncedo kakhulu kubo ukuba bafunde ukuziqhelanisa nokufunda iimephu. Kwakhona Imisebenzi efana nentaka okanye ukubukela izinambuzane, ukuqokelela izityalo, amakhowa, amagqabi okanye imbewu kunokuba yinto elungileyo yokwenza inkumbulo yakho. Eli inqaku elongezelelweyo kuphuhliso lwengqondo kunye nokufunda kwengqondo.
Intsimi kunye nokunyamezelana kukhathazekile
Bekusoloko kusithiwa abantu belizwe bomelele kwaye oku kunento yokwenza nesihloko esikhankanyiweyo. Endle kuhlala kukho amatye endleleni, kodwa kufuneka uqhubeke, ukuba uyawa, uyavuka kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo. Ukuba iyanetha, uyanetha kwaye akukho nto izakwenzeka nokuba, uzomisa xa ufika ekhaya, kuphelele apho. Kukho amakhulu ezinto ezinokuthi zihambe gwenxa kuhambo lwelizwe, kodwa ungasoloko ukonwabela okukungqongileyo.
Ungakhwela ibhayisekile yakho kwaye iqala ukuna imvula, uthathe ikhava kwaye wonwabe ubalisa amabali nabantwana bakho ngelixa ninokutya okulula. Oku kwenza ukuba babone iingxaki ngendlela eyahlukileyo., Banokufunda ukuba yonke imiqobo inokoyiswa kwaye nayiphi na imiqobo inokujika ibe bhetele kwimeko.
Ukomeleza amaqhina okuncamathisela
Kumntwana wedolophu, ilali inokuba yindawo enobutshaba, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba novalo ngokulinganayo malunga nokufuna ukufumana yonke into ngaxeshanye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhambe naye kwaye umbonise ukuba wenziwa njani umsebenzi ngamnye, kuba Oku kuya komeleza amaqhina okuncamathisela anako nawe.
Umntwana wakho kufuneka azifunele, njengoko kucetyisiwe yi Indlela kaMaria Montessori, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba usondele kwaye uhambe naye kuko konke ukufumanisa. Ukumbukela efunda kwaye efumanisa kuluncedo kakhulu ekomelezeni olo manyano sele unalo nomntwana wakho. Yintoni egqithisile uya kufunda naye kwaye kuye, iimpendulo obungazazi kumntwana wakho omncinci kwaye unokufumana kunye izinto ongazaziyo malunga nendalo oyityelelayo. Uhambo olukhokelwayo, umzekelo, lunokuba lunomdla kuni nobabini.
Amaxesha ekwabelwana ngawo ahlukile kwaye ayinakuphindwa. Umntwana wakho uyakuhlala ekhumbula, njengawe, ngala mhla wawuphuma uye endle kwaye yaqala ukunetha, kodwa wahlala ukonwabela imvula kwindawo egqunyiweyo, usitya, ucula, ubalisa iziqhulo okanye amabali, nokuba kunjani. Esona sipho sibalaseleyo onokunika abantwana bakho ebomini babo lixesha lakho.