Ukuzilolonga rhoqo kuyafuneka kuye wonke umntu, kubandakanya nabantwana. Nangona kunjalo, bonke abantu abanazo iimfuno ezifanayo ngokwexesha okanye ngamandla. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba zeziphi na iimfuno zabantwana, ukuze ixesha abalisebenzisayo lifanelekile kwimeko nganye kwaye njengoko kunconyelwe ubudala babo.
Ukongeza, uhlobo olwahlukileyo lokuzivocavoca luyacetyiswa kwiminyaka nganye, luyimfuneko uthathe ingqalelo kwiimpawu zomntwana ngamnye. Kukho abantwana abakhutheleyo, abafuna intshukumo enkulu yonke imihla ukutshisa onke la mandla. Abanye, kwelinye icala, bafuna inkuthazo yokuhamba kuba kwindalo yabo akukho sidingo sokwenza umthambo.
Ngayiphi na imeko, kunqande ukuhlala phantsi kwaye ukufundisa abantwana ukwenza umthambo, ibalulekile ekukhuleni kwayo kunye nasekuphuculweni okufanelekileyo. Ukwenza umkhwa ebantwaneni yeyona ndlela yokwenza umthambo ube yinxalenye yobomi bakho, baya kufunda ukuhlala besempilweni ngokwabo ebomini bakhe bonke.
Imisebenzi, imidlalo kunye nezemidlalo
Xa uthetha ngokwenza umthambo, uhlala ucinga ngemidlalo yabantu abadala, umthambo, imijikelezo yamandla nokunye okunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, xa kuziwa ebantwaneni, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo ezinye iintlobo zemisebenzi enje ngemidlalo, imfundo yomzimba, imisebenzi eyenziwa esikolweni okanye nawuphina umsebenzi owenziwayo owenziwa kwimeko yasekhaya.
Oko kukuthi, ukungqungqa ekhaya nabantwana nako kuwela kwinto eyamkelekileyo kwabancinci. Dlala imidyarho okanye ithegi epakini. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ezinye iintlobo zemithambo ekhethekileyo ziyinxalenye yemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla yabantwana. Uziqeqesha njani umdlalo okanye wenze umsebenzi othile ukukhokelwa nokulawulwa ngumntu omdala.
Kucetyiswa ixesha lokuzilolonga kubantwana ngokobudala
Ukongeza ekwenzeni imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo, oku kufuneka kwenziwe ixesha elincinci. Ukuthathela ingqalelo iminyaka yabantwana, La ngamaxesha acetyiswayo nguMbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi.
- Abantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka eyi-1 ukuya kwe-3 ubudala: Abancinci kufuneka badlale ngokukuko amaxesha ngamaxesha ngemini, ixesha eliqikelelweyo ubuncinci iyure yonke imihla.
- Abantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-5 ubudala: Ixesha lokuphumla kufuneka libe ubuncinci iiyure ezimbini yonke imihla, phakathi kwexesha lokudlala kunye nemisebenzi ehambelana nomntu omdala.
- Ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-5 ukuya kwishumi elivisayoUmsebenzi womzimba kufuneka ukwanda kwamandla emva kwe-5 okanye ye-6 iminyaka, efikelela kwisantya esinzulu ngexesha lokufikisa.
Ixesha lokuzilolonga libaluleke kakhulu, kuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuba abantwana benze njalo yomeleza amathambo akho, izihlunu kunye nokwandisa amandla okuphefumla. Ngesi sizathu, uMbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi ukwacebisa ngokulawula ixesha lokungasebenzi ebantwaneni. Kubantwana, ixesha lokungasebenzi kufuneka lingadluli iyure enye kwaye kwimeko yabantwana besikolo, akufuneki bangasebenzi ngaphezulu kweeyure ezimbini. Ngaphandle kwexesha abalichithayo belele.
Ungabakhuthaza njani abantwana ukuba bazilolonge
Eyona ndlela yokukhuthaza abantwana ukuba balolonge umzimba kukuziqhelanisa nabo. Zama ukubekela bucala ixesha suku ngalunye lokwenza izinto zomzimba ezahlukeneyo nabantwana. Ukongeza ekuphumeni yonke imihla epakini ukuhamba, ukukhwela ibhayisekile okanye Yonwabela ixesha lokuhamba kwemidlalo, zama ukwenza amaxesha omthambo ekhaya. Ukudanisa ngumthambo obalaseleyo, onke amaqela emisipha ayasebenza kwaye ii-endorphins, ihomoni yolonwabo, ziyakhutshwa.
Qinisekisa ukuba abantwana bayayiqonda imidlalo njengomdlalo, Yonwaba kwaye uhambe kamnandi. Ke, baya kuyicela ngokwabo kwaye iya kuba ngumkhwa wokuyonwabela njengentsapho. Ukudlala imidlalo nabantwana kuya kukunceda ukuba uphucule imeko yakho yomzimba. Ngamafutshane, ixesha lokuba nabantwana liya kuba semgangathweni ophezulu kwaye libe sempilweni kusapho lonke.