Abazali ngabo bahlala bekho ngenxa yomntwana. Ukwahlukana kwabo kunokwenza kuye iinyembezi kunye nokuphanziswa.
Uninzi lwabazali lujonga ixesha lokuba wedwa okanye ukuphumla nzima nomntwana ekhaya, ngakumbi ukuba abadlala bodwa. Umntwana ofuna umntu azodlala naye kubazali bakhe ufuna izinto ezininzi ngoku kwaye kunokuba nzima. Abazali badla ngokumangaliswa kukuba akazimeli ngakumbi. Masifumanise ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo na ukuba umntwana angadlali yedwa.
Abazali nabantwana, abadlala nabo
Kukho abazali abafika bediniwe bevela emsebenzini okanye befumana nje uxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla kwaye oko kubenza badinge amaxesha okuphumla. Xa unyana efuna ukudlala ehamba nabazali bakhe, oko kubangela unxunguphalo nokuphelelwa lithemba kubo. Ngokwesiqhelo bayazibuza ukuba akafuni ukuba sezakhe umkhwa okanye uze nemidlalo yakho kunye namabali. Kukho nabazali abacebisana ngalo mbandela neengcali kuba bengazi ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo na.
Abazali ngabo bahlala bekho ngenxa yomntwana. Uyaluqonda olo thando aze alufune. Xa umntwana esemncinci kakhulu, ubotshelelwe kakhulu kubazali bakhe, uxhomekeke kubo, kwaye ukwahlukana kwabo kuthetha iinyembezi kunye nokuphanziswa. Njengoko ikhula Kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana azimele ngakumbi, azimele kwaye azi ukuba alilawule njani ixesha labo, labo midlalo nendawo yayo.
Ukuzimela, ukuzimela kunye nokonwaba komntwana
Ukuqhakamshelana, ukuthanda abazali bakhe kubalulekile, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba akwazi ukwenza, ukuphanda, ukuzonwabisa ngezinto ezenza ukuba azive elungile kwaye azenzele.
Umdlalo unika inkululeko, uyakumema ukuba wenze, uphuhle ubukrelekrele bakho, ingqondo yengqondo kunye nesiqwenga semvakalelo. Kunzima ukubona ukuba umntwana ongaphezulu kweminyaka eyi-2 akakwazi ukudlala yedwa, ukuba uhlala efuna ukuba abazali bakhe bamgcine enkampanini. Inkwenkwe, ijikelezwe iigwegwe, Igumbi kunye negumbi lokuhlala ukuze wonwabe, uyakhala xa abazali bakhe bengekho. Umntwana uyabakhangela okanye unamathele kubo naphi na apho bakhoyo nokuba bakwenzile.
Abazali banokubakhuthaza abantwana ukuba badlale into abayithandayo, banxibelelane nabanye abantwana, bavuse inkohliso kubo ... Umntwana unokukufumanisa kuyinto ekruqulayo ukubona iithoyi egumbini lakhe, ukwazi ukuba sele edlalile ngazo kwaye azivuki iyelenqe. Hlaziya, fumana ingqalelo kwaye umdla neminye imisebenzi, imisebenzi yabantu abadala onokuthi uthathe inxaxheba kuyo…, Inokukwenza uzive utsala kwaye unemincili kwakhona.
Unxibelelwano, uthando lomzali nomntwana lubalulekile, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba umntwana uyakwazi ukwenza, ukuphanda, nokuzonwabisa ngento emenza azive elungile kwaye ezenzela isiqu sakhe. Eyona nto intle kukuba, kancinci kancinci, ukumenza ukuba azinxweme kubazali bakhe, ukwandisa ixesha elilawulayo lokudlala yedwa okanye nabanye abantwana, ngaphandle kokubakhangela. Ukumazi kakuhle kwaye ubuze kwiminqweno yakhe kuya kuba luncedo ukubeka ezandleni zakho eyona nto inomtsalane kuwe kwaye ufuna ukuyenza.