Njengabazali, nifuna abantwana benu bakhule bekwazi ukuzimela, nabantu abadala abaphumelelayo. Ukuzaliswa kwehelikopta inokwenza kube nzima ukuba oku kwenzeke. Ngamanye amazwi, Umzali okhuseleyo kakhulu osombulula iingxaki zabo bonke abantwana bakhe kwaye enze izigqibo akazukubenzela nto.
Nangona abazali beneenjongo ezintle zokukhusela nokunceda abantwana babo, phantse yonke into ebomini, ukungabancedi abantwana ukuba bazimele ngakumbi kunokuba yingozi kakhulu kwaye kubachaphazele ngokuthe ngqo kubomi babantu abadala. Ukuba ngumzali ngehelikopta kuphazamisa amandla omntwana okukhulisa, ukuzithemba, kunye nokukwazi ukusombulula iingxaki.
Nceda umntwana wakho akwazi ukuzimela
Vumela umntwana wakho azimele ngakumbi kunye neengcebiso ezilula zokufaka isicelo imihla ngemihla, ngaphandle kokubakhusela kakhulu kwaye abavumele ukuba babe ngokwabo, phantsi kwesikhokelo sakho kunye nenkxaso engenamiqathango:
- Vumela umntwana wakho azondle kwaye atye iyogathi ngecephe. Uninzi lwabazali boyika ukungcungcutheka okunokubangela ekutyeni kangangokuba bavinjwe ithuba lokuphonononga kwaye bazifundele ngokwabo ngokuzama kunye nephutha.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho unengxaki esikolweni okanye kwisabelo, buza utitshala ukuba yintoni na ingxaki. Thetha nomntwana wakho ukuze ufumane okwenzekayo, ukuze azi ukuba uya kuhlala enenkxaso kwaye umncede afumane izisombululo awonwabe ngazo.
- Vumela abantwana bafumane iziphumo zezenzo zabo. Ukulibala imisebenzi yeqela lakho lezemidlalo okanye impahla iya kunceda ukwakha uxanduva lwakho ngezenzo.
- Xa kuvela ingxaki ephazamisayo, nika umntwana wakho iintsuku ezimbalwa ukuba asebenze kwizisombululo anokuzisebenzisa ukuphucula imeko. Jonga naye ukuba ngaba kukho ingxaki enjalo kwaye unike iingcebiso ukuba ufuna ukuba baphucule imeko.
Mnike izixhobo ezoneleyo ukuze umntwana wakho afunde ukusingatha iimfuno eziqhelekileyo zobomi, kodwa ungasombululi yonke into eyenzekayo kuye kuba emva koko, uya kuba umnqanda ukuba akhule kwaye aqole. Ukwenza okona kulungileyo ebantwaneni ngamanye amaxesha kukuba bazifunele ngokwabo. Imalunga nokufumana ibhalansi yokwazi ukuba ungene nini kwaye ubavumele nini ukuba bazinyamekele.