Abasetyhini abaninzi balindile umzuzu onqwenelekayo wokukhulelwa, kodwa ngenxa yeemeko ezahlukeneyo, iindaba zinokumothusa kwaye iba loloyiko kunye noxinzelelo. Kubafazi abaninzi, ukwazi idatha kunye nokwenza isigqibo ubanika ulwandle lokungaqiniseki, Ndingenza ntoni ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye andifuni ukuba nayo?
Ngokuqinisekileyo isigqibo asiphelelanga, zininzi iindlela zokucela uncedo kunye nolwazi kwaye ndikwenze uzive ukuba awuwedwa. Iinketho ziyahanjiswa, unokwenza isigqibo sokuba nomntwana, ukukhupha isisu okanye ukunika umntwana ukuba amkelwe. Naluphi na ukhetho iya kuba kukucamngca okukhulu kwaye banokuvavanywa ngesigqibo esikhulu.
Indlela yokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo?
Iingcebiso ezilungileyo kukuba yabelana ngemeko yakho nabantu abathembekileyo. Ngalo lonke ixesha olona khetho lulungileyo kukukunceda Izalamane zakho ezisondeleyoEwe, kunokwenzeka ukuba ngabona banokunika elona cebiso lilungileyo. Nangona kunjalo, jonga naluphi na uhlobo lwenkxaso yeemvakalelo nabantu abasondeleyo abanokunika uvavanyo oluchanekileyo kunye nembeko.
Kwelinye icala esinalo kutata womntwana ngubani onokuhambisa eso sigqibo sikhulu. Ugqirha Ukwabonelela ngenkxaso ebalaseleyo kumava akhe obuchwephesha kwaye angabhekisa kuhlobo oluthile loncedo kuxhomekeke kwityala kwaye angalibhekisa ityala kumcebisi oqeqeshiweyo.
Ngokukhawuleza ukuba iindaba zaziwe Kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo esifanelekileyo. Ukuba ukhetho kukuqhubeka nokukhulelwa ngenxa yokuba kufuneka unikezele umntwana ukuba akhuliswe, kungcono ukuthatha amanyathelo. yinyamekele imeko yakho kunye nokutya okutyayo, apho kukho imfuneko yokwahlula nayiphi na into enetyhefu enokwenzakalisa umntwana. Kuya kufuneka uphumle kwaye ungathathi naluphi na uhlobo lwamayeza ngaphandle kokubonisana nogqirha wakho kuqala.
Ndingenza ntoni ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye andifuni ukuba nayo?
Kuzo zonke iinketho, isigqibo sokungafuni ukukhulelwa kuqala ngezigqibo zakho. Kungenxa yokuba ayiloxesha, okanye umncinci kakhulu kwaye ufuna ukuqhubeka nokugxila kwizifundo zakho. Phakathi kwezinye izigqibo kukufuna ukuthatha iinjongo kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo, apho umntwana ngelo xesha angangumqobo.
Ukuqhomfa
Ukuqhomfa ingena ngaphakathi ukupheliswa kokukhulelwa. Isigqibo sokuthatha olu hlobo lwendlela kufuneka sigqitywe ngokukhawuleza, nokuba kukwimpilo yakho. Ukuqhomfa eSpain kukhululekile kwaye kusemthethweni ukusukela ngo-2010, ngaphakathi koMthetho we-Organic 2/2010. Kuyaziwa ukuba umfazi okwiminyaka esemthethweni angakunqumamisa ukukhulelwa kwakhe ngaphambi kweeveki ezili-14 zokumitha.
Olu khetho luya kusebenza ezandleni zogqirha oyingcaliNokuba kukwiziko lempilo likarhulumente okanye kwiziko labucala eligunyazisiweyo. Kwimeko yokuba ngumntwana omncinci, kufuneka kubekho imvume esayinwe ngabazali okanye ngabantu ababambe iindwendwe. Ayizizo zonke iingcali zonyango ezinokunika imvume yokukhupha isisu, ke ityala linokudluliselwa komnye ugqirha ovumayo.
Ukwamkela umntwana ongamzelanga ibengowakho
Olunye uhlobo, olo lwamandla ukubeka umntwana ongafunekiyo ukuba amkelwe. Imalunga nokukwazi ukunika ithuba lokufumana umntwana kolunye usapho. Baya kumgcina lo mntwana ngokusisigxina nangaphantsi kwesivumelwano esisemthethweni.
Inkqubo yokumnikezela ukuba ikhuliswe ngabanye abantu iya kwenzeka phantse kwangoko emva kokuba ezelwe kwaye ngenxa yoko uyathuthuzeleka Isigqibo esiqinileyo nesokugqibela. Ukwenza le nkqubo, kufuneka unxibelelane ne iarhente yokwamkela abantwana okanye igqwetha eliyincutshe.
Inketho yokukwazi ukuyinikela ukuba yamkelwe nayo inokulawulwa xa umntwana sele enayo, umfazi okhulelweyo eSpain akanakumnika imvume ade azalwe loo mntwana. Umama webhayoloji kuya kufuneka asayine uxwebhu lokurhoxa kwigunya laloo mntu.
Ngexesha elinje, isigqibo esenziweyo kufuneka sicingisise, kuba iimvakalelo ezingapheliyo kunye neengcinga ziyahlangana ndizimisele kakhulu. Kungenxa yoko naluphi na uhlobo loncedo luyaxatyiswa kwaye uhlala evela kwinkxaso enemiqathango yokuba umntu othembekileyo.
Ukuba awufuni ukuba nayo, ukhetho lokuqala kufuneka ibe kukuyibeka ukuze yamkelwe. Nto engeyiyo, ukukhupha isisu kukuphela kobomi bakho, ngoba? Zininzi iintsapho eSpain ezikulungeleyo ukumthatha zimkhulise ... myeke umntwana wakho akhokele ubomi bakhe, nokuba awukwazi / ufuna ukumkhulisa umfundise.