Akusoloko kulula ukuyilungisa xa kufikwa kwizipho zomama omtsha. Ezona zinto zixhaphakileyo zezo zifunwa ngumntwana, ukuba abakhathali kuba bahlala befuna izinto ezintsha. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokunika umama omtsha kwaye ezininzi zazo zisebenziseka kwaye ziyimfuneko kangangokuba aziqhelekanga ukuqwalaselwa.
Ukuza ekhaya nosana olusandul’ ukuzalwa, iimvakalelo ezingapheliyo ziqokelelana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kufuneka ujongane nokukhathala, iindlela ezintsha kunye neeshedyuli, kunye nokungabikho kwexesha lokunyamekela eminye imisebenzi. Oku kuthetha ukuba indlu iyayeka ukugqibelela ngamaxesha onke, ukuba akukho xesha lokwenza ukutya okwenziwa ekhaya kunye nesondlo okanye ukuba umama akanalo ixesha lokuhlamba ngaphezu kwemizuzu emi-5.
Yintoni onokuyinika umama omtsha kwaye uphumelele
Naluphina isipho yamkelekile kodwa ukuba iyinto eluncedo kwaye iya kukusindisa ekungxameni okungaphezulu kwesinye, ingaphezulu kweenkcukacha, isisindisi sobomi. Akukho mfuneko yokuchitha intywenka kwizinto, kwiimpahla ukuba usana aluyi kukwazi ukusebenzisa okanye koonodoli abaza kuthatha indawo kuphela, cinga ngayo yonke into enokufunwa ngumama osandul’ ukutshata nawayengenakuyifumana eyedwa.
Umzekelo, nawuphi na umama unako ukubamba iimpahla zomntwana nanini na. Ungaphinda uthenge ukutya okukhawulezayo, uthenge okanye uodole iidiapers ekhaya kwaye uya kuba nazo nangaliphi na ixesha. Kodwa akulula kangako ukuyifumana ngokucofa iqhosha umntu wokuhoya usana lwakho xa uhlamba okanye uphumleNdiyazi ixesha. Akululanga ukufumana ukutya okwenziwa ekhaya ekhaya, okanye ubuncinci ngaphandle kokukuhlawulela. Iinkcukacha ezithi nangona zingaqhayisi kangako, ziluncedo ngokwenene.
Ngoko akulunganga ukubonakalisa into emnandi kumntwana, ngakumbi ekubeni yonke into incinci kwaye imnandi kangangokuba kunzima ukuyichasa. Kodwa ungalibali ukupakisha into kumama omtsha, njengaye ezinye ii-tupperware zokutya kwasekhaya kulungele ukutyiwa. Unokuthatha amatikiti enziwe ngesandla apho uboleka khona ukuba unakekele umntwana okanye ucoce indlu ngelixa umama esiya kwi-hairdresser. Ngokuqinisekileyo umama uya kuvuya kwaye uya kuxabisa iinkcukacha.