Kuyamangalisa kodwa kuyinyani. Inkqubo ye- iintsana ze-nordic zalala ngaphandle, yinto ehlala isothusa. Kodwa kwi Madreshoy, Sifumanisa ukuba kutheni ithandwa kangaka kwaye ziziphi izibonelelo ezibanika zona.
Iintsana zaseNordic zokulala ngaphandle zinokuvakala xa kusehlotyeni. Kodwa kuyacaca ukuba bayayenza xa amaqondo obushushu engekho phezulu kangako. Ngokuchanekileyo. Ngexesha leenyanga ezibandayo, nazo bayalala. Kwaye nangona ibubuhlanya bokwenyani, uninzi lwethu lunokuyichaza umdlalo okhululekileyo onawo abantwana esitratweni, nokuba kuyabanda. Ukuhlala ubakhusela engqeleni akubenzi bomelele, kodwa buthathaka.
Iintsana zaseNordic zalala ngaphandle
Umkhuba wokuqhaqha emoyeni ovulekileyo weentsana zaseNordic uqhelekile kumazwe abanda kakhulu. Eyona nto ibanda kakhulu: IDenmark, iFinland, iNorway, iSweden… Ukuba iseyesta ibikwindawo ezikweleenjiko, uluvo beluya kwahluka, kodwa ke sithetha ngamaqondo obushushu angaphezu kweloziro. Nokuba ukufikelela chukumisa iidigri ezili-15 ngezantsi kweqanda.
Ngaphandle kokuthandwa, phantse isithethe sokulalisa abantwana baseNordic ngaphandle. I-siesta yaseNordic eyaziwayo. Apho oomama, ngaphakathi ezindlwini, ezivenkileni okanye kwimivalo, iintsana, zilinda ngaphandle, zilele kamnandi. Kwaye uyakholelwa okanye awukholwa, nokuba siziintsana okanye abantu abadala, umzimba ufuna ukubanda, ukuze ulale ngcono. Njengoko uyifunda.
Uninzi lwethu luyaqhubeka lucinga ukuba kukuphambana okupheleleyo. Ingakumbi ukushiya umntwana esitratweni yedwa. Kodwa kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo ukuba la ngamazwe apho ukhuseleko luphantse lwagqithisa kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo kumntu wonke. Nokuba yintoni, ii-naps zibaluleke kakhulu kubancinci
Izibonelelo zephothi yaseNordic
Yikholwe okanye ungakholelwa, ubuthongo bangaphandle beentsana zaseNordic, banazo izibonelelo ezimangalisayo kwimpilo yakho. Makhe sijonge, ziyintoni na.
- Nge iimpahla ezifudumeleyo eziyimfuneko kunye nengubo, umntwana uyakwazi ukulala ngokugqibeleleyo. Kwaye ngenxa yengqele, ulala nangcono. Njengoko besesitshilo apha ngasentla, ukubanda kuyimfuneko ukwenza umzimba uphumle.
- Unokulala ixesha elide nangakumbi. Balala kamnandi, ikuvumela ukuba uvuke ngaphandle kozela.
- Ukuvezwa yingqele, abagqithisi, ngenxa yeempahla. Ke banokukhululeka ngakumbi.
- Banesakhono esikhulu sokugxininisa kunye nemeko engcono yengqondo.
- Bayakwazi ukuziqhelanisa nayo nayiphi na imeko yokulala. Ukuvuka, basebenza ngakumbi, kodwa xa ilixesha lokulala ebusuku okanye ekukhanyeni okuphantsi, balala ngaphandle kwengxaki.
- Ngaba umngcipheko omncinci wokubanda. Ukuzikhusela kuqiniswa ngokwendalo xa kuvezwa ingqele yesitalato. Ngokophononongo, kufunyenwe iziphumo zokuba abantwana abathe balala esitratweni, bangabikho esikolweni.
- Uxolo lwengqondo lwabazali. Aba, xa besepakini kwaye bafuna ukuphumla, banokuncokola ngokuzolileyo, ngelixa umntwana elala nengqele. Kuba balala ngakumbi nangcono, okuvumela abazali, nabo ukuba baphumle.
Khathalela xa ulala ngaphandle
Ewe kunjalo, ubuthongo bangaphandle beentsana zaseNordic abuthethi ukukhulula omncinci kwikhephu kwaye yiyo loo nto. Banothotho lwezinto abanomdla kuzo, ukuze umntwana akwazi lala ngoxolo. Kuya kuba kubanda, kodwa Uya kuba noluhlu lokhathalelo kunye nokujonga.
- Kufuneka ibe sisitrato esaziwayo nesikhuselekileyo. Ewe, ukuba awusazi isitalato okanye uqonde ukuba akukhuselekanga, abayivumeli ukuba umntwana alale ngaphandle.
- Ukuba kunomoya kwaye kuyanetha, umntwana angalala ngokugqibeleleyo ngaphandle, okoko ikhuselwe kwezi zinto zinje. Ngokubeka i-hood engenawo amanzi, umntwana unokuthambisa ngaphandle kwengxaki.
- Ayikuko ukushiya umntwana njengoko enjalo. Kufuneka ube neempahla ezintle kunye nengubo efudumeleyo, apho unokuziva ukhuselekile.
- Xa ufuna ukulala ngaphandle, kodwa akulunganga ukuphuma phandle, ngenxa yemozulu, umzekelo, bayazisa egadini. Ke, banokonwabela ukungqengqa, kodwa kwindawo yendlu. Ilungele iigilts.
- Unako ukubeka iliso, ukuphulaphula umntwana, ukuba unayo nayiphi na into engathandekiyo.
Kuyathakazelisa kakhulu ukwazi ukuba ubuthongo bangaphandle beentsana zeNordic bunokwenza okungakanani malunga nempilo yabo. Kwaye njani ivumela ukuba balale nolo xolo lwengqondo, ethi ngamanye amaxesha, kwigumbi elishushu, ingaphumeleli.
Kwaye wena? Ngaba unokuba nesibindi sokuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba alale eNordic? Siyazi ukuba kuyaphambana, kodwa zikhona iziphumo. Ukuba ufuna ukuyenza, qiniseka ukuba uyithathela ingqalelo inkathalo esikunike yona ukususela ngoko Madreshoy. Kwaye ungayeki izimvo ezingezantsi ucinga ntoni malunga ne-nap yaseNordic kwaye ukuba ungazama. Ngaphezulu, ukuba uyayenza, nceda wabelane nathi.