Into yokuba abantwana badlale bodwa ibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwabo, nangona oko kungathethi ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba udlale nabantwana bakho. Chitha ixesha nosapho, ixesha elinikezelwe kulonwabo lomntwana, ekwenzeni izinto abazithandayo, kubalulekile ekukhuleni ngokweemvakalelo komntwana. Imizuzu embalwa ngosuku yanele, ukuba nje lixesha elilodwa lomdlalo.
Ulibale malunga naziphi na iziphazamiso, beka ifowuni yakho kude kwaye ucime umabonwakude. Ngale ndlela, umntwana wakho angakonwabela kwaye avakalelwe kukuba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini bakho. Kuba nokuba abantwana abayazi indlela yokuyithetha, kufuneka bazi ukuba babalulekile, Ezi yinxalenye yenyani yosapho kwaye oku, badinga ixesha lokuzinikezela.
Ukuba ufuna uncedo kuba ungazi ukuba uza kudlala njani nabantwana bakho, ungaphoswa ngala macebiso alandelayo. Akukaze kube semva kwexesha kakhulu ukuba ungaqala, ukuba nje ixesha lokuqala lokuba yinto yokudlala yosapho. Ukusuka phi bobabini abantwana nabazali baya kuvuna izibonelelo ezinkulu.
Ndingadlala njani nabantwana bam
Akubalulekanga ukuba ujonge kuphela imisebenzi eyonwabisayo kubo, kuyafuneka ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ukhetho lwabo, izingqisho zabo kunye neemfuno zabo. Kuphela emva koko, ukudlala nabantwana bakho iya kuba yinto eyonwabisayo kwaye ayisiyimbopheleleko. Qaphela la maqhosha alandelayo ukuze funda ukudlala nabantwana bakho.
- Musa ukukhuphisana nabantwana bakho: Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuphumelela kwaye baphinde baphulukane, ngumgaqo osisiseko wokudlala kunye. Ngoku, elo xesha lokudlala akufuneki libe kukhuphiswano, kodwa lixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nelokufunda. Thatha ithuba lokuba abantwana bakho bafunde ukulawula ukukhathazeka, Bavakalisa indlela abaziva ngayo xa bengawuphumeleli umdlalo.
- Khuthaza ukudlala ngokukhululekileyo: Abantwana bayakuthanda ukuxuba yonke imibala yentlama yokudlala okanye bayile iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokusebenzisa iithoyi. Le nxalenye yomdlalo ibalulekile kwaye kuya kufuneka ubavumele bayiphonononge ngokukhululekileyo. Oku kuthi akufuneki ubalungise abantwana bakho ngelixa bedlalaGwema amabinzana anje "ayilunganga" okanye "ayisiyondlela odlala ngayo." Endaweni yoko, linganisa imidlalo yabo ukuze uzive uyinxalenye yomsebenzi.
- Vumela abantwana baphakamise imidlalo: Kulungile ukuhlala etafileni wenze iphazili, kodwa ayisiyiyo ngawe, kodwa yeyokudlala nabantwana bakho, nokuba yintoni na abayifunayo. Vumela ukuba baphonononge umdla wabo kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, basebenzise izixhobo ukwenza uqondise umdlalo ukuba kukho imfuneko.
- Yamkela iimfuno zaboKuxhomekeke kubudala nakwinqanaba lokukhula, abantwana baya kuba nesakhono esikhulu okanye esincinci sokugcina uxinzelelo kumdlalo omnye. Ke banokufuna ukutshintsha imisebenzi rhoqo, mabavavanye ubuchule babo kunye ukuba bafumanise eyona midlalo bayithandayo.
- Kuyenzeka ukuba okuchaseneyo kuyinyani kwaye ukuba umntwana ufuna ukuphinda umdlalo ofanayo kaninzi, ngakumbi abo bayithanda kakhulu. Esi simo sengqondo siqhelekile, kuba abantwana kufuneka baziqhelise ngaphambi kokuba baqiniseke ukuba banokwenza izinto.
Yintoni yokudlala nabantwana
Izinketho azipheli kwaye awudingi kwizixhobo okanye imidlalo emininzi. Nokuba ezona zinto zilula zinokuba ngamava osapho lonke, zigcwele kukuhleka kwaye kumnandi. Umzekelo, Unokucwangcisa i-gymkhana ekhaya, iworkshop, enye iseshoni yonyango yokuhleka kwaye uthathe nethuba lokufunda izinto ngezinye iinkcubeko, ezinje nge umsitho weti ilungisiwe.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba ixesha lokudlala nabantwana bakho ulibale ngazo naziphi na ezinye iimbophelelo. Yonwaba, hleka kwaye ukonwabele ukwenzeka kwabantwana. La ngamaxesha ayinyani abalulekileyo ebomini, lawo akukhumbuza ngentsingiselo yosapho kwaye onokuthi ujike xa uzifumana ukuwo umzuzu wokukhathazeka. Funda ukudlala nabantwana bakho kwaye uyakonwabela eyona ndawo intle kakhulu yokuba ngumama, ixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nabantwana bakho.