Unyana wam undibiza ngegama! Lelinye lamabinzana esiliphinda kakhulu kuba liyenzeka nakubomi bokwenyani kubantu abaninzi kunokuba sicinga. Ngamanye amaxesha sibona indlela abancinci bethu abasibiza ngayo 'mama' okanye 'tata' ukuya kumagama ethu. Ukunyaniseka, ayisiyonto esiyithanda kakhulu.
Ke, siza kubona ukuba kutheni isenzeka kwaye yintoni enokwenziwa ukuyitshintsha. Okokuqala akufanele sikhathazeke kakhulu ngenxa yokuba sele sisazi ukuba abantwana bafunda izinto ezingenasiphelo kwaye banezigaba zabo, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya kuba sesinye sazo kwaye kungekudala kuya kupheliswa. Ngokuqinisekileyo ujonge phambili kuyo!
Kutheni unyana wam endibiza ngegama lam: Xelisa
Sibeka izandla zethu entloko, yinyani. Ayiyongxaki ngokwayo kodwa asithandi kakhulu ukuba sive igama lethu emilonyeni yabo. Kuba, kuninzi, intle kakhulu le 'kamama' okanye 'katata'. Njengokuba, ukuba uyazibuza ukuba kutheni unyana wam endibiza ngegama, sizokuxelela ukuba enye yezizathu kukuba balinganisa abanye abantu.. Oko kukuthi, badinwe kukuva indlela abo bakwisangqa esikufutshane bakubize ngegama lakho, ngoko nabo baxelisa oko bakuvayo ukuphinda. Sele sitshilo kwizihlandlo ezininzi ukuba bafana nezipontshi. Ewe, mhlawumbi banalo ixesha lonyaka apho bathatha isigqibo sokuqhuba le nkqubo.
Ngenxa yokwahlukana ngokweemvakalelo
Esinye isizathu sokuba umntwana wakho akubize ngegama lakho ngenxa yokwahlukana ngokweemvakalelo. Oko kukuthi, uhlobo lomgama oluphawulwa ngumntwana. Oku kwenzeka xa siyishiya ixesha elide kwinkathalo yabanye abantu okanye xa abazali besahlukana. Baphila umzuzu wokubhideka kwaye kuqhelekile ukuba babonise ngokusibiza ngamagama. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kufuneka sihlale sichitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka kunye nabo, nangona siyazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ngenxa yezizathu zomsebenzi.
isenzo sovukelo
Xa bengasengabo abantwana bangene Kwinqanaba lokufikisa kuyenzeka ukuba sifumanise ukuba sibizwa ngegama lethu. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kule meko sisenzo sovukelo, kwiimeko ezininzi. Ngoko kwakhona sinokuthi iya kuba yinto engayi kuhlala ixesha elide kuba baya kudlula kwelinye lamanqanaba anzima ebomini babo.
Ndingenza ntoni ukuze andibize 'mama' okanye 'tata'
Sele sizibonile ezinye zezizathu zokuba unyana wam andibize ngegama. Ngaphandle kokudlula, kungcono ukuthatha inyathelo ngalo mba kwaye yonke into ibuyele kwesi siqhelo esisithanda kakhulu. Ngoko, xa oku kusenzeka kwaye usiva igama lakho akufuneki ubize kuye, ngokungathi awukho kuwe. Xa ebona ukuba asibahoyi ngokuphindaphinda igama, uya kusabela aze aqonde ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo.
Asingomxholo uhlekisayo ukuhleka, kuba kwiimeko ezininzi uncumo luyaphela xa abancinci benza into kwaye oko kuya kubonisa ukuba baya kuyenza kwakhona. Ke, kufuneka sizimisele kancinci ukuba sifuna baguqule isimo sabo sengqondo. Xa sinexesha, kuhle sihlale nabo phantsi sibacacisele ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni nokuba bafanele basibize ngantoni. Ukuthetha ngexesha, uyazi ukuba kufuneka sizame ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko sinako kunye nabo, kokubini ukudlala nokubafundela, nto leyo engaze ibuhlungu. Oko kubizwa ngokuba kukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni yinto abaya kuyixabisa kwaye baya kuyixabisa kakhulu. Ekubeni bekhawuleza baqhelane nokulungileyo, kufuneka sikwenze oko kulungileyo kusibize ngokuthi 'mama' okanye 'tata'. Khumbula ukuba kufuneka sibe nomonde kwaye yonke into iya kutshintsha.