Namhlanje lusuku loMsebenzi, umhla ngelishwa uphulukana nokubaluleka okufaneleyo. Ngalo lonke ixesha siwuxabisa umzabalazo wookhokho bethu kancinci kwaye kuninzi lwabantu liholide nje.
Usuku olunje namhlanje Ngo-1886, abasebenzi baqhankqalaza belwela amalungelo abo bonke abafumana umvuzo. Le yinto abantwana bethu abaza kuyifunda esikolweni, baya kubaxelela ngembali yendalo iphela kwaye baya kuyazi intsingiselo yalo mbhiyozo.
Kodwa kwimbopheleleko yethu, njengabantu Ngoku sonwabela amalungelo athile ngenxa yemizamo yabanye abantuKufuneka sibakhulise abantwana bethu ngendlela yokuba baqonde ukuba yintoni umsebenzi kwaye kutheni ubaluleke kangaka.
Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba kutheni kubhiyozelwa uSuku lwaBasebenzi
Ke ngoko, singabazali sinoxanduva lokubafundisa ukubaluleka komzamo nokunyamezela. Kwaye kufuneka sikwenze oko sithathela ingqalelo ukuba umsebenzi awubhekiseli kuphela kwinto esiyenzayo ngaphandle kwekhaya.
Abantwana kufuneka bafunde besebancinci, ukuze bafumane isibonelelo kufuneka kuqala benze umzamo, umsebenzi. Kubalulekile kuphuhliso lwayo, ukuba bafunde ukuba izinto ziyaphunyezwa ngomsebenzi.
Kwaye ukuba bawenze kakuhle loo msebenzi, baya kufumana umvuzo. Ootata noomama singabaxhasi bemvelo babantwana bethu. Sinesidingo sokubanika yonke into, ke kulula ukuba umntwana aqonde ukuba anganakho nantoni na ayifunayo ngaphandle komzamo.
Ukuze abantwana bethu bakhule bazi ukuba kubiza ntoni ukuphumelela into, kuqala Kufuneka bafunde ukuba izinto azifezekiswa ngokuzifuna. Umsebenzi uphuhlisa ubuntu.
Ungaqala ngokwabela imisebenzi emincinci ekhaya, kuxhomekeke kubudala babo. Ngokwenza imikhwa kubantwana abancinci, uya kudala imihla ngemihla yokusebenza. Kwaye ukufunda kuya kuba esisiseko kuphuhliso nokukhula kwabantwana bakho.
Ngale ndlela uyakuba ukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bafeze izinto ngemizamo yabo. Uya kubakhuthaza ukuba bakhule babe ngabantu abadala abanenkathalo. Ukuba senza impazamo yokubanika yonke into, sinokubatshintsha abantwana bethu babe ngabantu abadala ababuthathaka, engakwazi ukuhlangabezana neenjongo.
Ukwenza umsebenzi kubandakanya umzamo, unyamezelo, uxanduva, umceli mngeni. Izakhono eziyimfuneko ebomini ngokubanzi. Ke ngoko, ukongeza ekufundiseni abantwana ngexabiso lomsebenzi, uya kuphuhlisa ubuntu obusebenzayo kwikamva.
Hlela ezinye Umsebenzi okhethekileyo oza kuwenza njengentsapho ngoSuku lwaBasebenzi. Kuxhomekeka kubudala babantwana, kunokuba nzima okanye kungaphantsi.
Umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwe abantwana
Isigaba ngasinye sinomsebenzi. Nokuba abantwana bancinci kakhulu, ungabafundisa ukuba emva kokudlala, kuya kufuneka ubeke iithoyi ngokulandelelana kwazo. Hlala nabo kwindawo yabo yokudlala, kwaye bafundise ukugcina yonke into ikwindawo yayo ezihambelanayo
Xa sele bebadala ngokwaneleyo, unokwabela umsebenzi wasekhaya. Uku-odola iithoyi zabo iya kuba ngumsebenzi wabo wokuqala, kwaye akufuneki ubajongele phantsi ukuba abazenzi. Abazali kufuneka bomelele, ukuze abantwana mabaqonde ukuba izenzo zabo zineziphumo.
Njengokuba abantwana bekhula kwaye befumana izakhono, Unokwenza nabo itafile yemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla kunye neveki. Kumsebenzi ngamnye abawugqibileyo, baya kuqokelela amanqaku, aya kuthi ekupheleni kweveki abe "ngumvuzo" wabo.
Imisebenzi oyigqibezela ngokuchanekileyo, uya kuphakama umvuzo wakho. Yiyo loo nto abantwana baya kufunda ukuba ngomzamo wabo, bafeze okungaphezulu lee kunangoko bekwenzile.
Umsebenzi ngamnye kunye nomsebenzi weqela
Kukwabalulekile ukuba ufundise abantwana bakho ukuba bahlule phakathi komsebenzi ngamnye kunye nomsebenzi weqela. Kuba ebomini bakho bonke, kuyakufuneka wenze imisebenzi yazo zonke iintlobo, ayikaze ibenzakalise bafundise ukusebenza kwiqela.
Akululanga kubo bonke abantwana ukuba babelane ngomsebenzi, babelane ngezimvo, kwaye babone ukuba abanye abantu bakhula njani. Kukho abantu abazalwa benobuntu kunye nokhuphiswano lomntu.
Kwezi meko kuya kufuneka nokuba ucwangcise imisebenzi yeqela ekhaya, ukuze umvuzo wabelwane ngawo. Ngokuqhubekayo uya kube ukhuthaza ebantwaneni bakho ixabiso lokuba nesisa nokwabelana, zombini izibonelelo kunye nokuzincama.
Kwaye into ebaluleke kakhulu ongafanele uyilibale kukufundisa abantwana bakho ukuba bayasebenza, ikwayinto eyenziwa ngabazali ekhaya. Esi sizathu esisalindileyo. Mhlawumbi abantwana bakho ngabanduleli balo mlo Ngenye imini ziya kukhankanywa kwiincwadi zembali.
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