Ukuxhomekeka emntwaneni kufuna ukhathalelo lwemihla ngemihla kunye nokuzinikezela, ngenxa yoko iminqweno yabazali kufuneka imisiwe.
Ukuba ngutata kukodwa akukho lula, ukuba wongeza ukuba kwenzeka kwelona xesha lishushu nelona lingasebenziyo lonyaka, iingxaki ziyanda. Ukuthatha ukuba ngutata ehlotyeni kunokubangela iimpikiswano ezingaphezulu kwesi sibini kunye nosapho kwaye kunyuse inqanaba uxinzelelo y umthwalo.
Ukukhulelwa nokuba ngumama ehlotyeni
Iinyanga zasehlotyeni, njengomthetho ngokubanzi, zezo zifumana elona nani liphezulu lokuzalwa eSpain. Oomama abaninzi bafumanisa ukuba ukukhulelwa kwabo akuhambelani ne calor kwaye bahlala beyicwangcisa ngaphandle kweenyanga zikaJulayi nezika-Agasti ngokukodwa. Umfazi okhulelweyo udiniwe ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elikhulu, kufuneka anyamezele amaqondo obushushu angahambelaniyo kunye nokudodobala kwehomoni kunye nokukhusela ulusu lwakhe ngokucokisekileyo. Ukuba nosana ehlotyeni kubonakala kungaphazamisi kangako, kuba kuluncedo kakhulu ukuhamba nomntwana uye kubethwa ngumoya kwaye akufuneki bachithe iinyanga zabo zokuqala bezivalele ekhaya ngenxa yengqele.
Ihlobo ziinyanga apho unexesha elikhululekileyo kunye nexesha elingakumbi lokunqamula, ukuhamba, ukuphumla kunye nokutshiswa lilanga. Ukuba ngumzali ngezo nyanga kunokuba nzima ukukuthwala. Ukuxhomekeka kokuqala komntwana kufuna ukhathalelo kunye nokuzinikezela yonke imihla, ke Iminqweno yomzali kufuneka imiselwe ixesha elithile.
Abazali abasebenzayo kunye nabo bafuna ukuphumla bajonge iintsuku okanye iiveki ngehlobo apho banokwenza khona imidlalo edlalayo okanye umyeke Umsebenzi wasekhaya, imiyalelo yomphathi ogunyazisiweyo, ukuhlala ufowuna, ukuhlawula amatyala, amatyala ..., uxanduva kunye noxanduva.
Ukufika komntwana kufuna umonde omninzi, ukusebenza kwaye akukho xesha likhululekileyo. Uxolo ekudala lulindelwe kubazali abafumana umntwana wabo ehlotyeni alwenzeki, nto leyo ebangela uxinzelelo ngakumbi, iingxabano rhoqo kunye nemo embi yokungalali.
Iingcebiso kubazali abafumana usana lwabo ehlotyeni
Ukungalusongeli ngokufudumeleyo usana kwaye ukwazi ukuhamba nalo kuluncedo olukhulu.
Dibana nabahlobo abaya eholideyini kwamanye amazwe, bemise inkampu, abanenkululeko yokuya echibini yonke imihla okanye bathathe ukutya elunxwemeni, basele ibhiya kumhlaba othambekileyo okanye baye kubhula iklabhu kwimozulu entle edla ngokwenziwa, utopia yabazali abatsha.
Ukuze ungalahli ithemba kwaye uthelekise imisebenzi yabazali abangabodwa okanye yabantwana abadala kunye naleyo yomntu osandul 'ukuba yinto enye, into ebalulekileyo kukuqonda ukuba linqanaba lokudlula. Kunyaka olandelayo izinto zizakuba ngcono njalo njalo. Abo namhlanje bonwabela ukungatshati kunye nokuzonwabisa, kwixa elizayo baya kuba kwelinye icala. Kuyo yonke le nto, Kuya kufuneka ujongane nale meko ngokuthembeka kwaye ubone icala elilungileyo kunye namathuba akhoyo okonwabisa abantwana:
- Akuthandabuzeki Imozulu emnandi nenelanga ithanda yonke into: Ukungabinakho ukusongela umntwana ngokufudumeleyo kwaye ukwazi ukuphuma naye uhambe naye kuluncedo olukhulu.
- ukuba abantwana abalala kakubiUkuphuma endlwini kunye nokugungqa nemoto, kuvumela ikhefu elingcono nelikhawulezayo kwaye kuthintela uxinzelelo lokuqala lokulala ekhaya.
- Ukuhamba kwindawo evulekileyo ngeyure engatshisi kangako, kusasa kwaye ngokuhlwa-ngokuhlwa: Ungasela kwithambeka, nokuba lifutshane. Ukuba umama uncancisa, imeko iya kudinisa ngakumbi kuba umntwana uya kufuna ukusela rhoqo. Eyona nto intle kumama oncelisayo kukulala phantsi okanye ukuhlala emthunzini, ukuhambisa amanzi y ukuncancisa ngaphandle kokucinga malunga neeshedyuli.
- I-vitamin D engakumbi kumama nomntwana: Umntwana akufuneki abekwe ngqo elangeni, kuya kufuneka ujonge izithunzi ukuze uhlale umhambisa amanzi. Ilanga londla nge-vitamin D kwaye liluncedo kuzo zombini impilo.
- Ngemozulu entle, umama nonyana bagula kancinaneAzikho izifo ezininzi ezosulelayo njengemozulu embi.
- Xa umama ephumelele ukuvalelwa yedwa kwaye eziva ekhululekile, omelele kwaye eqinisekile ungakonwabela okufutshane yokuhlambela xa umntwana ezolile okanye elele, ephepha iiyure zobushushu obukhulu.
- Yenza ezinye uhambo oluncinci kufutshane, ngaphandle kwemithwalo emikhulu, okanye iisutikheyisi, okanye ukuzenzisa kohambo.
- Fumana utyelelo kubahlobo okanye kusapho ukuba bangabi nexesha elininzi kakhulu nabazali, bathathe ithuba lokuhoywa ngakumbi kunye nokunyanyekelwa ngabo.
Yenzani kwaye nixhasane njengentsapho
Kubalulekile ukuba ungakunqweneli ukwenza into enye eyenziwayo njengesibini, ngaphandle kwabantwana. Yonke into itshintshile kwaye ngakumbi xa umntwana emncinci kakhulu, akukho nto iya kuba lula. Imidla yomntwana kufuneka ijongwe ekuqaleni kwaye iinyanga ezininzi imeko ayizukubangcono. Umama akekho kumzuzu ofanelekileyo wehomoni kwaye ufuna ukhathalelo kunye nokuqonda.
Abazali nomntwana bayaziqhelanisa nokuzilungelelanisa. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba unyanzele imeko kwaye uhambe ngokuzolileyo kwaye inyathelo ngenyathelo. Ukushiya indlu ehlotyeni sele kukuvumela ukuba uphefumle, unqamule kwikhaya kunye nezibophelelo zomsebenzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngomntwana awukwazi ukwenza yonke into ongathanda ukuyenza, kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukuba kunye, ngaphandle kokucwangcisa kakhulu kwaye ulibale ukukhawuleza.