Como UJasmin usixelele izolo kule post intle Kwipropathi yobisi lwebele, ithathwa njenge 'golide imhlophe' kwaye izalisekisa imisebenzi ephambili emithathu, eyile: ukhuselo, isondlo kunye nokuqina. Kwaye ayizalisekisi kuphela xa kuzalwa umntwana, kuba iinyanga (okanye iminyaka) kamva, ubisi lwebele, olulungelelaniswe ngokugqibeleleyo neemfuno zomntwana, luyaqhubeka nokondla, ukuqhubeka nokukhusela (kunye nokuthuthuzela), kunye nokuqhubeka ukunceda ugcine ulwalamano.

Namhlanje sithetha ngokuncancisa ixesha elide, njengalelo xesha sathi ukuncancisa kufanele ukuba kunjalo "De umama nomntwana / nomntwana bafune"; Kule nto-ewe-kuyacetyiswa ukuba ube neemeko ezifanelekileyo, ezinje ngamaziko enkampani oomama abancancisayo ukubonisa ubisi, ukwamkelwa kwezentlalo, ukungenelela kukarhulumente ngokusasaza ulwazi oluthembekileyo okanye uqeqesho lwabasebenzi bezempilo, njl. Kumazwe ahambele phambili kuqhelekile ukubona abantwana abangaphezulu konyaka omnye bencanciswa, kwaye oku kuchazwa zizizathu ezininzi, kubandakanya imigangatho yethu emibini.

Ewe, 'isimilo' esikhokelela ekubeni abantu abaninzi bahlazeke ngenxa yokuba usana lncanca elunxwemeni, echibini, kwiofisi yengqesho, kwimyuziyam…, kodwa kamva uyakwamkela ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini komzimba wesetyhini yintoni ejongeyo iiposta zentengiso zangaphantsi. Andidingi kuchaza okuninzi malunga neminqweno ethile ekhoyo emva kwezi ndlela zokucinga, ndibize ngokubaxwa, kodwa ukuba nje sivumela ubukhoboka besixelele ukuba kufuneka sifundiswe nini kwaye njani ngokuya ngamalungu ethu omzimba, kuya kubakho ukuphikisana okunje.

Nangona zikho ezinye izizathu.

Ukuncancisa ihlala iyinto eqhelekileyo kude kube kubudala be-3, okanye nangaphezulu, kodwa oko kuyenzeka kwezinye iindawo zehlabathi, apho abantu basetyhini bamamela khona, kwaye ngokubanzi kwiindawo abahlala kuzo, bayazi ukuba ngokwembono yendaleko, ukuncancisa kuhambelana ngqo nokusinda kweentsana, kunye nokuphuhliswa kohlobo. Kukho imisebenzi ye-palephysiology kunye ne-anthropology bonisa ukulunyulwa okuzenzekelayo kwiminyaka emi-2,5 ukuya kwesi-7, kuba uHomo sapiens sapiens, njengoko sifunda kolu xwebhu lwe-AEPED.

Kwaye kwenzeka ntoni kuthi baseNtshona? Ukususela kumzuzu wokusebenzisa ibhotile yobisi olungumgubo waqala ukukhuseleka, kwaye nabasetyhini bangena kwimarike yomsebenzi, bekukho ikhefu kumkhwa wokunikela 'okona kutya kulungileyo emhlabeni kosana'. Ixesha lihambile, abafazi bayeka ukuthembela emizimbeni yethu, bebesixelele ukuba ubisi olungeyonyani lunezibonelelo ezininzi, kwaye nathi besisodwa kakhulu, kuba besingasenazo izihlobo zokucela. Njengokuba oko kwakungonelanga, iingcali ezahlukeneyo zempilo zanyanzelisa (ngaphandle kokusekwa kukuqinisekiswa okanye kwizifundo ezinokuthenjwa) ukuba ukuncancisa kubangele ukuxhomekeka, okanye ukuba ezinye iingxaki zokuziphatha zinokubangelwa yinto yokuba umntwana esela ubisi kunina.

Namhlanje amazinga okuncancisa abonakala ngathi aphuculwe kancinci, kodwa njengoko bendisixelela UAlba Padró kolu dliwanondlebeAsazi nokuba imeko ingaguqulwa na, kuba kusekho ipesenti ephezulu kakhulu yeentsana eziyeka ukufumana okona kutya kuxabisekileyo ngaphambi kweenyanga ezi-6. Kodwa ubisi lwethu sesona sipho sibalaseleyo esinokupha usana, eyona ilungileyo. Kwaye inezibonelelo ezininzi kubantwana bethu nakuthi, kangangokuba akuyomfuneko ukuphikisana ngazo.

Kuyinyani ukuba kumaxesha amaninzi, ukuyekiswa kokuncancisa kungenxa yeemeko ezingenanto yakwenza nomnqweno kanina. Ubunzima, ukunqongophala kwenkxaso, ukungazithembi, ulwazi olungonelanga, ukudityaniswa emsebenzini...

Ukuba bayakubona uncancisa umntwana ngaphezu kweminyaka emi-2 ubudala, baya kukuxelela izinto ezininzi ...

Iingcebiso ezinobungozi kunye neembono ezigqwethekileyo zisenza ukuba sive izinto ezinje:

Ngaba umntwana wakho usancancisa? Kodwa ngale ndlela ayisoze ibe nokuzimela, iya kuhlala ixhomekeke kuwe!

Ukuba sihlalutya eli binzana kakuhle, kuyacaca ukuba lijolise kakhulu ekunyanzeleni ukulunyulwa, okwenza umama azive engakhuselekanga. Kodwa enyanisweni Ungandixelela ukuba yintoni enokuba 'yinto engalunganga' ekubeni umntwana oneminyaka emi-4 axhomekeke kakhulu kunina? (Okwahlukileyo kuya kuba yinto engaqhelekanga xa ucinga ngokuvela komntu). Ukongeza, ngokukaGqirha Ibone Olza, abantwana abatyiswe ubisi lukamama ixesha elide, banokuba nobukrelekrele obukhulu ngokwasemphefumlweni nakwintlalo, kunye nomdla omkhulu kubudlelwane boluntu (Inqaku le-AEPaP).

Ubisi lwakho alusasebenzi, alusondli.

Owu, iphosakele kangakanani loo ngxelo! Kwaye ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba ubisi lwebele aluphulukani nepropathi, egubungela isinye kwisithathu seentsuku zekhalori kunye neeprotheyini, kunye neevithamini kunye neeminerali inikezela ukhuseleko ngokuchasene nosulelo olwahlukileyo apho abantwana babhencwa khona kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi.

Kwaye kwinqanaba lempilo, kufuneka sibe nefuthe ngqo kwi Uthintelo lokutyeba kakhulu, Chwetheza 2 isifo seswekile kunye necholesterol.

Uhlala nomntwana obambelele kwisithi! Awunabo obakho ubomi?

Masibone, 'ubomi bakho' bobona bonyanzelwa ngumama ngamnye, kuba oomama abaziyo abathi okanye ngaphandle kobunzima babelncancisa iminyaka eliqela, impilo-ntle yabantwana kunye ne-bond esekwe nomntwana kubaluleke kakhulu othe wancanca oko weza kweli hlabathi. Ngokucacileyo, iminyaka emithathu enesiqingatha ubudala ayifuni ukuncancisa rhoqo njengakwimveku esandula kuzalwa, ayimdingi kakhulu umama, kwaye unendlela yakhe 'yokunqamula' xa efuna njalo, kwaye / okanye ukuzibandakanya kwizinto ezizityebisayo ngaphandle komsebenzi-wokuba ngumzali.

Masingakulibali ukuba impilo kamama ikwaxhamla xa encancisa: umngcipheko ophantsi womhlaza wamabele okanye we-ovari, njl.

Kutheni uncancisa xa kukho iibhotile? Anazi na ukuba sikule nkulungwane yama-XNUMX?

Ewe, sincancisile kuba sifuna (kwasekuqaleni), kwaye ewe, ibiyiminyaka embalwa ukusukela oko abantu behlala eMhlabeni, kodwa ubukrelekrele bethu kufuneka busivumele ukuba sahlule inkqubela phambili kwezobuchwephesha kwiinkqubo zomzimba ezinxulumene nendalo yethu, don ' Ucinga? Ukongeza, asiyeki ukuphinda oko yeyona ilungileyo kumama nosana, enye into yile uneengxaki kwaye awukwazi.

Uluhlu lwamabango amampunge alunakuphela, ungathini! Ukuba ungumama wosana olungaphezulu kweminyaka emi-2, ndiyavuyisana nawe: Usidlulisile isigaba sokungazithembi kunye noloyiko, kwaye ngoku wonwabile, kwaye kutheni usikhanyela, inqanaba elithile lokwaliwa ekuhlaleni. Masiqhubeke siqhelekile.

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