Ukuncancisa Kukuqhelisela ukukhuthaza, kunikwe izibonelelo zayo kwinqanaba lomntu ngamnye (elusana nangenxa kanina) njengeqela; Kwaye kungaphaya kweenyanga ezintandathu zokuncancisa kuphela okucetyiswayo kwihlabathi liphela. Nangona kunjalo, kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo iSpanish Association of Pediatrics yapapasha idatha ngokokutsho kwayo, kuqhubeka kuphela ukuncancisa emva kweenyanga ezi-3 zobomi, iipesenti ezingama-68 zabasetyhini. Inye yezinto ezibonisa ukurhoxa (ukuba ayingoyena uphambili) yile ukudityaniswa emsebenzini; ke ngokuyinxenye ngumthetho welizwe lethu kukhuseleko lokubeleka (iiveki ezili-16 ngokucacileyo azonelanga) linoxanduva.
Oku akuthethi ukuba kufanelekile ukuba siziyeke, kuba ukongeza ekubangeleni ikhefu lokuya kubeleka iinyanga ezi-6 ubuncinci, sinokwenza ukuba ukuncancisa kwethu kuqhubeke, nangona sisebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya. Kwaye le yenye yemiba ephambili ye Iveki yokuncancisa, que ngesiqubulo esithi 'Ukuncancisa kunye nomsebenzi', yenza izindululo ezijolise kwizithuba, ixesha kunye nenkxaso.
Ngaba ukuncancisa kuyahambelana nokusebenza?
Ngamanye amaxesha akukho lula kwaye kufuna umbutho olungileyo; ngamanye amaxesha iphantsi koloyiko loomama abasebenza ngokusekwe kwiintsomi njengaye 'uza kuyeka ukuba nobisi', 'ngumthwalo omkhulu kuwe', njl. Ngaphandle kokuthathela ingqalelo ingcebiso eza xa ungayicelanga: 'umntwana angakhuliswa esempilweni ngobisi olungumgubo', 'unelungelo lokushiya indlu, ungakhathazeki ngosana'. Inyaniso kukuba kungekuphela kwinqanaba lentlalontle, kodwa nakwiimbono zobuqu, ngamanye amaxesha umntu akakuqondi kakuhle ukungabikho komdla kumalungelo abantwana.
Mhlawumbi eyona nto inzima kukufikelela kwiinyanga ezintandathu, kuba xa sele wazisiwe ukondla okuncedisayo, yonke into ilula; ngeli xesha, sele uyazi ukuba kukho imvume yokuncancisa, ukubonakalisa ubisi kwindawo yokusebenza...
Ikhefu lokuncancisa
Ekupheleni kweeveki ezili-16, ungasebenzisa imvume yokuncancisa. Unelungelo lokuthabatha iyure emsebenzini, kwaye eliqhezu lexesha lingahlulwa kubini; ekuzalweni kaninzi umama angangabikho amabini (amawele / amawele) okanye amathathu (kathathu) iiyure. Ubungakanani bexesha lepemithi ziinyanga ezili-9, kwaye lilungelo lomntu ngamnye, ke linokonwabelwa ngutata; Kwaye kukwayinto ezimeleyo nokuba ukondla kosana lwakho kungokwemvelo okanye kukwenziwa ngumntu Kodwa namhlanje sigxile ekuncanciseni.
Izivumelwano ezihlangeneyo zezo zilawula iikhrayitheriya ezingafakwanga kumgaqo jikelele. Umzekelo ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenzeka ukuqokelela zonke iiyure zekhefu (inye ngosuku ngeenyanga ezili-9) kwaye ubongeze kwikhefu lokuya kubeleka. Sisigqibo ekufuneka siboniswene kwaye senziwe kwangaphambili.
Amanyathelo afanelekileyo
- Yandisa iiveki ezili-16 zekhefu: ukongeza iintsuku zekhefu ezingqinelana nonyaka okhoyo, kunye nezo zingakhange zithathwe kunyaka ongaphambili.
- Ukucela ukuncitshiswa komhla wokusebenza (ukuba wonwabele kude kube yiminyaka eli-12 ubudala yomntwana), kunye nokwehliswa ngokulinganayo kumvuzo, kuya kulungiselela ukuncancisa.
- Ukubonelela ngenkxaso kunye nolwazi; kuba xa oomama besazi ukwenza 'ukuncancisa nokusebenza' kuyahambelana bambalwa abantwana abashiya isikolo.
Gcina ukuncancisa
Kubaluleke kakhulu zithathele ingqalelo zonke izinto ezinefuthe, ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sizokugcina njani ukuncancisa, kwaye ezi zinto zahlukile kwimeko nganye. Ngokwesiqhelo ubudala bomntwana buvavanywa (iinyanga ezi-3 ezinesiqingatha azifani ne-8); iiyure zomsebenzi kunye nomgama ukusuka kwindawo yomsebenzi ukuya ekhaya; into umama afuna ukuyenza; isisombululo esikhethwe ukuba sikhathalele umntwana (utata, utatomkhulu, umnakekeli, okanye indawo yokugcina abantwana).
Uya kuqhubeka njani ukuncancisa usana lwakho?
Ewe xa udibana kwakhona yonke imihla: KUFUNEKA, ngaphandle koxinzelelo okanye iishedyuli, kananjalo:
Ukuhambisa ngokuthe ngqo okanye ukulibaziseka
Eyokuqala yeyokuba umntu amse encinci apho usebenza khona ukuncancisa. Ukulibazisa ukuncancisa xa uveza ubisi lwakho ukuze umntu alunike umntwana endaweni yoko. Imiba ebalulekileyo:
- Sebenzisa impompo yebele efanelekileyo, kunye nombane ongcono omncinci.
- Lungisa ngobungakanani obaneleyo kwaye ugcine kwizikhongozeli ezingama-50 ukuya kwi-100 cc.
- Ubisi oluphuma kuzo zombini ukutya lungaxutywa, ukuba alukhange lunyibilike.
- Gcina ihlaziyekile kangangeentsuku ezimbini. Ixesha elide lifuna ukubanda.
- Nika imiyalelo kumntu okhathalayo: malunga nokufudumala, ukunikela kangangoko umntwana efuna, njl.
- Ayilunganga, kodwa ukondla okuncedisayo kunokuqhubela phambili kancinci: ukutya okuninzi okuqinileyo kunika iingxaki zokungabikho komzimba kunobisi olungelulo (luvela enkomeni, ungalibali); kwaye uvumele umntwana aneliseke.
- Rhoqo kufuneka upompe emsebenzini kuba imveliso yobisi ilawulwa ngokwemfuno yosana. Ukwenza oku, thatha ukupholisa ngezihlanganisi ezibandayo kunye nezikhongozeli. Buza kwakhona indawo ehlangabezana nemigangatho yezempilo kwaye iyimfihlo (kwaye inendawo yokupompa ibele)
Konke oku kuzimele kwimvume yokuncancisa, ngamanye amaxesha iifomula ezidityanisiweyo kufuneka zifunyenwe, kuba ukuncancisa kwimfuno ngaphambi kokufakwa kwezinto eziqinileyo kufuna ubukho obuninzi
Khumbula ukuba uya kuba nakho, nokuba imveliso iyancipha, usana aluyamkeli isibonelelo somkhathalelo wakhe, okanye ezinye izizathu. Kwimeko yokugqibela, uya kukufumana ngokukhangela kwi-tit kwaye ungayishiyi ude uhambe kwakhona., akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngayo, nangona konke kuya kuxhomekeka kwiminyaka yabo, kunokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeke kwiintsana ezincinci kakhulu.
Okokugqibela, ubusele uyayazi loo nto ungonwabela ikhefu elingahlawulelwayo, yinyaniso? Konke oku kungentla kuyancediswa yi ukuphepha umngcipheko wokuncancisa, ukuba ikhona (ethathwe emsebenzini)
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