Ukuthandabuza rhoqo xa uthetha ngokuncancisa kunxulumene ne umgangatho wobisi lwebele. Ukuba kuya kuba kukutya okwaneleyo ukuqinisekisa ukukhula okuchanekileyo kosana okanye ngokuchaseneyo, kuya kufuna "uncedo".
Masikhumbule izindululo ze Umbutho WezeMpilo Wehlabathi kunye Umbutho waseSpain wezonyango lwabantwana: ukuncancisa kuphela iinyanga ezintandathu zokuqala kwaye kudityaniswe nokunye ukutya kangangeminyaka emibini okanye nangaphezulu. Iya kuba ngumama nosana abagqiba ukuba ukuncancisa kuthatha ixesha elingakanani.
La Ubisi lwebele luqulathe zonke izondlo umntwana azidingayo kwiinyanga ezintandathu zokuqala zobomi. Ukusukela ngelo xesha ukuya phambili, ukuqaliswa kokondla okuncedisayo kuqala, kodwa okona kutya kuphambili kuyaqhubeka lubisi lwebele.
Las amathandabuzo malunga nomgangatho wobisi lwebele Zinokwenzeka ngalo naliphi na ixesha ngexesha lokuncancisa.
Ekuqaleni, kwiintsuku zokuqala ezimbalwa, ukungabi namava kusithathela umthwalo. Ngesi sizathu, kufuneka Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wethu uncancisa ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba indlela yethu yokuncancisa ichanekile. Ngenxa yoku, umama unokujikela kubaqeqeshi bezempilo abaqeqeshwe ekuncanciseni okanye kubacebisi bokuncancisa kunye nabacebisi.
Ukulila kunegalelo kumathandabuzo. Abantu badla ngokucinga ukuba xa umntwana elila, kungenxa yokuba balambile. Ewe ngamanye amaxesha umntwana uyakhala kuba elambile, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uyakhala kuba efuna ukubanjwa, ngamanye amaxesha kuba engonwabanga, uyabanda, udiniwe ...
Kodwa, simnika isifuba kwaye uyehla. Mhlawumbi yayindlala, okanye wayefuna ukudibana nebele likamama ukuze azive ekhuselekile. Khumbula ukuba Isifuba sikanina asikokutya kuphela, kukwaqhakamshelana, ukuthanda kunye nolonwabo.
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba umntwana osanda kuzalwa akazalwanga elambile. Kude kube lixesha lokusikwa kwenkaba, zonke iimfuno zabo zokutya ziye zafezekiswa. Ukususela ngalo mzuzu ukuya phambili, ukuveliswa kobisi emabeleni kuyaqala. I-colostrum yeentsuku zokuqala yanele ukuzola ukutya komntwana.
Ukuba umntwana wethu uphulukana nobunzima ngeentsuku nje emva kokuzalwa kwaye ubuchule bokuncancisa buchanekile, ayikuko kuba akanako ngokwaneleyo ngecolostrum. Kodwa kuba yinto yomzimba. Phantse zonke iintsana zilahleka ubunzima be-10-12% ngokugxothwa kwe-meconium kunye nolwelo kunye nokungabi namava ngokutsala. Siza kuqala ukubona ukuba umntwana wethu uzuza njani ubunzima emva kweentsuku ezilishumi zobomi.
Emva kwezi ntsuku zokuqala, kunye nexesha elithile, kunokubakho ingxaki yobisi. Oko akuthethi ukuba ubisi lwethu alusonelanga, kodwa ukuba umntwana ufuna ubungakanani obuninzi, yiyo loo nto ihlala inyusa isantya sokutya. Kuya kufuneka ancancise amaxesha amaninzi ukuze isifuba sikamama sivelise ubisi oluninzi.
Kwaye ayithethi ukuba ulambile ukubeka izandla zakho ezincinci emlonyeni wakho. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba kubantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-3 ubudala, Esona sixhobo siphambili sokuhlola umhlaba ngumlomo. Ukuba umntwana ubeka izandla zakhe emlonyeni wakhe, ayikuko kuba elambile, kodwa kungenxa yokuba eya kwazi umzimba wakhe kwaye uyonwabele.
Njengokuba umntwana ekhula, ukubunjwa kobisi kuyahluka, ukulungelelanisa neemfuno. Kwaye soloko usondla, naxa umntwana sele eneminyaka emithathu ubudala.