Abantwana bahlala besothusa ngezakhono esingazi ukuba banazo. Ngequbuliso ngenye imini ucela unyana okanye intombi yakho ukuba ikuncede ekhitshini, ibakonwabise okanye ubavumele badlale okwethutyana, kwaye ufumanisa ukuba uyayithanda, kwaye ufuna ukufumanisa iindlela zokupheka nangaphaya kokubetha iqanda nge-omelette, umntwana ufumanisa ukuthanda.
Ukuthanda ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi, unokuba ngumsebenzi wexesha elizayo. Namhlanje, ngo-Okthobha u-20, kubhiyozelwa uSuku lwaBapheki lwaMazwe ngaMazwe, umsebenzi ogcwele imiceli mngeni, ihambo kunye namava angalibalekiyo. Ke ngoko, sikuzisela iingcebiso zokwazisa abantwana ngokupheka. Kuba ubafundise ukukhula, ukuzimela nokuzimela, ikwangumsebenzi ekufuneka bewufundile ekhaya besebancinci.
Amaqhinga okufundisa abantwana ukupheka
Akukaze kube kudala kakhulu ukuba abantwana baqale ukufumanisa ukupheka, kuba phakathi kokutya, Ihlabathi elingenasiphelo lezinto ezibonakalayo zifunyenwe. Kubantwana abancinci, ukusebenza ngomgubo, iimbotyi okanye naluphi na uhlobo lokutya ekulula ukuphatha unokuba ngamava. Ngapha koko, enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuchitha ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nemfundo kukupheka nabantwana. Okulandelayo, sikushiya neengcebiso ezithile okanye amaqhinga okufundisa abantwana ukupheka.
Ukuqala ekuqaleni
Ukuziva ngathi upheka kwaye ufumanisa yonke into enokwenziwa ngokutya, kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba injani imeko yayo yendalo. Y Yeyiphi enye indlela ebhetele kunokuya kwimarike kwaye ubone izitali ezahlukeneyo, iintlobo ezininzi zeziqhamo, imifuno, iintlanzi okanye ubukhulu beziqholo ezinokufumaneka xa kuphekwa. Ngokubanzi abantwana abanalo ithuba lokubona iintlobo zokutya ezahlukeneyo, kuba bahlala bebona oko kuhlala kuthengwa ekhaya. Ke ngoko, ukuya ezivenkileni kunokuba linyathelo lokuqala lokuba banomdla ekhitshini.
Funda ukupheka izinto ezilula
Abanye abantwana banokuba nakho ukuphatha izixhobo ezithile zasekhitshini, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ubashiye bodwa. Oko kukuthi, okoko nje kukho imililo, iimela kunye nayo nayiphi na into eyingozi, abantwana kufuneka bahlale belindile. Ukuthintela ukuba bangahendeki ukuba bathathe izinto xa ungekho, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukubafundisa ngokwakho ukusebenzisa yonke into.
Vumela abantwana basebenzise imela encinci basike izinto ezilula Njengemifuno okanye iziqhamo. Kancinci kancinci baya kufumana izakhono ngakumbi kwaye baya kuba nakho ukwenza izinto ezinzima ngakumbi. Ungaqala kunye neendlela zokupheka ezingadingi zinto zinzima, ezinje iresiphi yesonka okanye ikeyiki yesiponji, ekufuneka uyisebenzisile izandla zakho ukuxolela. Ungalibali ukwenza lula kubantwana ukuba bafikelele kwindawo yokusebenza okanye itafile yokusebenza, kuba oku ungasebenzisa isitulo okanye inqaba yokufunda.
Ukugcina kunye nokwenza iimpazamo ziyinxalenye yokufunda
Xa abantwana bengena ekhitshini, eyona nto iqhelekileyo kukuba banamabala kwaye yonke into iba mdaka yintoni ekujikelezileyo. Akufanele ube noxinzelelo okanye ube nomsindo ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kuba ngale ndlela, abantwana baya kuphulukana nomdla wabo ekuphekeni. Ukuba badyobhekile, bahleke kwaye bangakuhoyi, yonke into inokucocwa kamva. Kwangokunjalo, xa abantwana besenza into engeyiyo okanye iresiphi ayiveli intle okanye isityebi njengoko kulindelwe, mvuyisele umntwana umkhuthaze ukuba aphinde olunye usuku.
Ukufunda ukupheka kufanele kube kokonwaba, nangayiphi na imeko akufuneki kube sisizathu esitsha soxinzelelo kubantwana okanye kubazali. Ukuba abantwana bakho bayonwaba, ukuba bayabona ukuba bangazisebenzisa ezo zinto uzityela wena, ukuba bayayibona yonke into abanokuyiphumeza ngomzamo omncinci, Baya kufumanisa umdlalo omtsha oya kukuzisela ixesha elihle njengentsapho. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, emva kokupheka, ungonwabela izitya ezimnandi eziphekwe kunye.