Nangona kubonakala ngathi ubushushu buyathandabuza ukushiya, inyani yile kungekudala ukubanda kuza kufika kwaye kwiiveki ezimbalwa ebusika. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuphuma nabantwana kuya kuba mfutshane, nangona kungamele kuyeke njengokuba abantwana, kubandakanya neentsana, kufuneka baphume phandle yonke imihla. Ebusika, kuya kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo okuthintela ukuphuma ngaphandle nosana lwakho.
Kuqala kufuneka wazi ukuba iintsana azidingi mpahla zingaphezulu kunalezo uzifunayo, oko kukuthi, azibandi ngenxa yokuba zincinci. Inye kuphela into ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni yile iintsana ezincinci kakhulu azikwazi ukulawula ubushushu bomzimba wazo ngokuchanekileyo. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka usongele umntwana wakho kancinci ngakumbi ukuba ulusana.
Kwelinye icala, xa usana luzuza ubunzima, luyayeka ukufuna olo ncedo ukulawula ubushushu balo. Ngaphezu, eyona ixhaphakileyo kukuba umntwana ushushu kwaye uyacaphuka xa enxibe kakhulu. Eyona nto intle ukuyenza kukumgcina efudumele ngokweemfuno zokwenyani, nokuba eze nengubo egciniweyo xa kunokwenzeka ibande, ngaphambi kokugubungela encinci.
Iingcebiso zokunxiba umntwana wakho
Kubalulekile ukuba konke iimpahla ozikhethele umntwana wakho ziyasebenza kwaye zikhululekile. Khumbula ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kufuneka ubatshintshe, ke kuyacetyiswa ukuba kulula ukhulula amaqhosha ezambatho akuvumela ukuba utshintshe umntwana ngaphandle kokukhulula kakhulu.
Kwakhona, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ulusu lomntwana lubuthathaka kakhulu kwaye akufuneki usebenzise imicu eyenziweyo, iisepha okanye iziqholo isenokukukhathaza. Khetha izambatho zendalo ezinxitywa ngumntwana, ezinje ngomqhaphu, uboya obuntombi okanye ilaphu le-polar, kuba zinobunzima obuncinci kwaye zishushu kakhulu.
Usana luphulukana nobushushu bomzimba entlokweni, ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyikhusele intloko yomntwana wakho ngomnqwazi womqhaphu. Kuya kufuneka ukhusele iinyawo nezandla zabo kwingqele, sebenzisa izihlangu ezifanelekileyo zabantwana ezingenazo iinyawo ukuthintela ukonakalisa iinyawo zabo ezikhulayo.