Ukukhulelwa kuguquka ngokwahlukileyo kumfazi ngamnye, ke akukho mthetho xa uthatha isigqibo sokuba uza kuqala nini ukunxiba iimpahla zokubeleka. Ngokubanzi, kukujikeleza inyanga yesine yokukhulelwa xa isisu siqala ukuvela kwaye ngeli xesha apho uninzi lwabasetyhini lukhetha ukutshintsha iimpahla ukuze zinxibe kakuhle. Abanye, kwelinye icala, kufuneka batshintshe ezinye iimpahla kwangaphambi kwexesha.
Oku kuxhomekeke kwinto oyithandayo xa kufikwa kumba wokunxiba rhoqo. Ukuba uthanda iimpahla ezikulungeleyo, unokufuna ezinye iiveki ezimbalwa ekukhulelweni kwakho. Ayisiyo eyokunceda kuphela, kodwa kuba inako kuyingozi ukunxiba impahla exineneyo. Kwelinye icala, ukuba uhlala unxiba iibhulukhwe ezinengubo, iilokhwe ezinkulu okanye iimpahla ezilula, ungazisebenzisa ixesha elide.
Iimpahla zokubeleka, ukuqala nini ukuzinxiba
Inqaku lelokuba kufuneka uzive ukhululekile ngalo lonke ixesha, kuba ukukhulelwa ngokwako kuhlala kubangela ukungonwabi okuninzi. Kwelinye icala, ayisiyiyo nje ngobuhle, nge ukugcinwa kwamanzi kunye neenguqu ezininzi zehomoniUkunxiba iimpahla ezingalunganga kunokuba nzima kakhulu ekukhulelweni ngaloo ndlela. Kungcono ukuhlala ujonga iimpahla ezintle, nokuba zingumama okanye hayi.
Kuba inyani kukuba kule mihla ifashoni ibanzi kakhulu kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba uthenge iimpahla ngokungqongqo kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo. Unokukhetha iindawo ezibanzi, ezikhanyayo kunye nokusika okuthe tye ezikuvumela ukuba unxibe ngendlela othanda ngayo, ngaphandle kokukhetha iimpahla ezenzelwe ngokukodwa ukukhulelwa. Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kufuneka ufumane iblukhwe ukubeleka, kuba zikhululeke ngakumbi kwaye ziqhelana notshintsho ngokuthe ngcembe kwesisu ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Ngokuphathelele izihlangu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa uhlala ukhetha izihlangu ezizizo kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kunye nesithende esincinci. Okokuqala, kuba Ukujikeleza akuhambi ngokufanayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwaye izithende zinokubangela ukonakala kwemilenze. Kodwa nangenxa yokuba kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba banokuba yingozi, ukukhulelwa kwabasetyhini baphulukana nozinzo kunye neembadada ezingafanelekanga kunokubangela ukuwa.
Ngamafutshane, ukuqala ukunxiba iimpahla zokubeleka ikwalixesha elinomdla kubafazi abaninzi, nangona ingengabo bonke. Phila ukukhulelwa kwakho ngendlela yakho, wonwabele umzimba wakho kunye notshintsho olwenzeka ngeli xesha lokudala ubomi.