Ngendlela efanayo nangenye imini ebesithetha ngayo kuthintela ukutsha ebantwaneni, omnye umba obalulekileyo wokhuseleko lwabantwana, kukukrwitshwa, ezinokubangela ukukrwitshwa ngenxa yokuthintelwa. Ukongeza ekuboniseni izikhokelo ezisisiseko zokuziphepha, siza kwazisa ngoNcedo lokuQala ukuba ziyenzeka.
Sijonga ukukrwitshwa xa 'umzimba wasemzini' ufikelela kwindlela yomoya kwaye uyayiphazamisa, ukuze umoya ube nayo ubunzima bokungena emiphungeni. Yimeko engxamisekileyo ebalulekileyo kuba ubomi bomntu, kule meko yomntwana, bunokuba semngciphekweni. Siyazi ukuba sijamelene nokukrwitshwa ukuba usana lujike lwabomvu / limfusa, kwaye ukukhala kwalo kwaphukile; Kwimeko yabantwana abadala, umqondiso ongaqondakaliyo kukuba babeke izandla zabo ezityiweyo emqaleni wabo.
Xa ndithetha 'imizimba engaqhelekanga', Ndithetha izinto ezincinci ezinjengeemabhile, iqhekeza lokusula, intwana yeplastiki,…; nakwindawo zokutya okanye zokudlala.
Lowo uphepha umsitho uya kuyiphepha ingozi
Kukho ingcebiso abazali abayifumanayo xa umntwana wabo eqala ukuhamba ngokukhasa okanye ukukhasa: 'fika kubude bakhe kwaye ujikeleze indlu ngamehlo omntwana' Ngale ndlela uya kuba nakho ukubona iingozi ezinokubakho kuzo. Kuyinyani, kuba uyakwazi ukubamba izinto ngezandla zakhe kukho umngcipheko, yiyo loo nto akufuneki ushiye imizimba yamanye amazwe ifikeleleka (Umzekelo xa umntwana ekwisitulo esiphakamileyo kwaye ecaleni kwaso kukho itafile apho uhlala ufaka imali).
Kubantwana abadala kuyacetyiswa zithintele ekufikeleleni kumaso, iitacks, iimabhile, iinxalenye ezincinci yolwakhiwo, amanqanaba emidlalo noomazibuthe, iithoyi ezincinci kakhulu, izinto zokubhala ezinjengeeklip, ... Khumbula ukujonga isindululo somenzi kwimeko yeethoyi, ukuqinisekisa ukuba zilungele abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu ubudala; khumbula ukuba kuba umntwana sele egqithile kwi-3 ayiqinisekisi ukuba uya kuziphatha kakuhle; kunokuba kuxhomekeke kubuntu bakhe.
Iibhaluni, ekubonakala ukuba ziyinto emnandi kwaye ingenabungozi, zinokuba yingozi (kakhulu), hayi kuphela zinokuthintela ukuhamba komoya, kodwa zinamathela kwiindonga zangaphakathi zomoya.
Nokuba ithini na imithetho yakho xa kusiziwa ekutyeni, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba abantwana abancinci bebengadlali ngelixa behlafuna, kuba umnqweno ongaqondanga unokwenzeka kwaye ukutya kuye kwindawo engalunganga. Ukuba abantwana bancinci kakhulu, sika okanye ukuchoboze ukutyaOku kubaluleke kakhulu kum kunenyani yokuba bafunda ukusebenzisa izixhobo zokusika. Nika ingqalelo iisoseji, inyama, itshizi enzima, iicharles eluhlaza, iidiliya, iilekese. Khumbula ukuba ukubanika amandongomane apheleleyo, kukho iingcali ezicebisa ukulinda de kube yiminyaka emithandathu, kubandakanya iipopcorn (Jonga inqaku lethu ku indlela yokungenisa ukondla okuncedisayo)
Yitya nabantwana bakho, uqaphele izinto ezingalindelekanga, kwaye ulumkise abazalwana abakhulu ukuba bakhathalele njengawe
Ndiyakhumbula ukuba amantongomane ngoyena nobangela wokuminxeka; zilandelwa ziibhaluni kunye nezinto zokudlala
Intshukumo kwimeko yokukrwitshwa
Ngaphambi kokuba ndichaze iimpawu, kwaye kufuneka ndidibanise ukuba kwiimeko ezimbi, ubuso nemilebe zijika zibe mfusa, kamva umntu ulahlekelwa zingqondo. Yinkqubo ethatha ixesha elifutshane kakhulu (imizuzu), yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza, kodwa uhlala ugcina i-CALM, kungenjalo kunokwenzeka ukuba isenzo sethu asizukusebenza.
Ngokucacileyo, nabani na okrwitshayo uthanda ukukhwehlela ukukhupha umzimba, ukuba kunjalo, ungathandabuzi ukukhuthaza umntwana okanye umntwana ukuba akhohlele, ngaphandle kokwenza enye into. Kwimeko apho ukukhohlela kungasebenzi kwaye into / isiqwenga sokutya khange siphume, qhubeka ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
Umntwana usezingqondweni
Kuqala fowunela inombolo yongxamiseko (njengoko usazi ukuba ingu-112), emva koko uqalise uncedo.
Jonga umphandle womlomo, ukuba sibona umzimba wasemzini, zama ukuwukhupha, Kodwa ngaphandle kokuyityhalela ngaphakathi!
Ukuba asikaboni nto kumlomo womlomo, shaya kahlanu ngesithende sesandla kwinxalenye ephezulu yomqolo.
Xa oku kungasebenzi siza kwenza isifuba okanye isisu esiswini (Heimlich maneuver) ngokuxhomekeke kubudala bomntwana, Ukuqala komjikelo: jonga emlonyeni - ukubuyela umva amaxesha ama-5 - 5 ucinezelo.
Isiphumo kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntwana uyayigxotha into aze aphefumle kwakhona okanye ungabikho zingqondweni; Khumbula ukuba kwangethuba siza kwazisa iinkonzo zikaxakeka ukuba kwimeko embi, baya kuthatha amanyathelo okusindisa ubomi bomntu owenzakeleyo.
Impazamo eqhelekileyo kuxa ngenxa yemithambo-luvo siqala ukubetha umqolo womntwana okrwitshiweyo, ngaphandle kokujonga enye into, ukuba asilandeli amanyathelo acetywayo ngokuchanekileyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba isenzo sethu singasincedi.
Imizobo endikubonisa yona ivela kwiwebhusayithi ye-En Familia (ye-AEP), kwaye unokujonga ngokweenkcukacha inkqubo echanekileyo. Ngoku ngoku uya kuzibuza, ndingenza njani ukuba umntwana / umntwana akakho zingqondweni kwaye i-ambulensi ayikafiki? Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo imeko enzima, kusafuneka 'uzixhase ngenkalipho' kwaye uqhubeke uzolile.
Umntwana uqulekile
- Ubeka kwindawo enobunzima kwaye ujonge ngaphakathi komlomo, ukuba kukho into, zama ukuyisusa ngononophelo.
- Ivula indlela yomoya: yenziwa ngokubamba ibunzi ngesandla esinye kwaye utyhale isilevu phezulu ngesinye.
Jonga ukuba uyaphefumla na, ukuba uyaphefumla, musa ukuyeka ukubukela de kufike umntu oza kukunceda. - Ukuba akaphefumli, lixesha lokuba uphefumlele umoya kancinane, ujonge ukuba isifuba sihamba na.
- Ndiyazi ukuba ukufika kule nto kuyothusa, ngesiqhelo kwimeko yokukrwitshwa akufuneki ufikelele kweli nqanaba, kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungayenza njani xa kunokwenzeka: Umlomo wakho kufuneka ujikeleze impumlo nomlomo womntwana (ukuba oku kuncinci), kwaye uvuthe umoya uphindaphinda kahlanu.
- Kwiimeko apho oku kungasebenzi (isifuba asinyuki), kuya kufuneka uqale ukudibanisa ne Ukuvuselela ukuhamba ngokwenza ukucofa kwesifuba ezingama-30 (embindini wesifuba, ngaphantsi kweengono) uze uzitshintshe ngokuphefumla 'ngomlomo nomlomo'. Ukuphefumla kuhlolwe yonke imizuzu emibini, kwaye kuyasetyenziselwa ukubona ukuba ngaba into iphumile na.
Nantsi ividiyo malunga nesihloko seSuavinex-Iklabhu Yomama Oonwabileyo, eya kuthi icime onke amathandabuzo akho, ikunike nokhuseleko lokuthatha inxaxheba kwimeko leyo (ndiyathemba ukuba awuziboni ukule meko) Kufuneka wenze.
Khumbula ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uyazi ukuhlala uzolile kwaye ungenelele ngokufanelekileyo. Kwaye ungalibali ukuba unokuziphepha ezi meko ngothintelo oluyimfuneko.