Enye yezona zinto zixhalabisayo koomama abatsha kukuba yazi ukuba umntwana wakho ulambile emva kokondliwa. Ingakumbi kwimeko yeentsana ezincancisayo, kuba kunzima kakhulu ukulawula ubisi lobisi oluthathwa ngumntwana. Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa luyakhala ngezizathu ezininzi, esinye sazo yindlala kodwa ayisiyiyo yodwa. Ngesi sizathu, uninzi lwabasetyhini lunexhala kuba abazi ukuba bangazi njani ukuba ngaba umntwana wabo wanelisekile emva kokondla okanye hayi.
kunjalo, Ukulila ayikuphela komqondiso okuxelela ukuba umntwana ushiywe elambile. Ngeminye imiqondiso emzimbeni wakhe, unokubona ukuba umncinci ufuna ukutya okutsha. Kufuneka ubenomdla wokuqonda iimpawu kwaye ke umntwana wakho aneliseke ngamaxesha onke.
Ukuncancisa ibango
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula oko ukuncancisa kufuneka kusoloko kufunwa. Oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kweeshedyuli okanye iivenkile rhoqo, le yingcebiso yoMbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi (i-WHO) kunye noluntu lwabantwana. Ukuncancisa ibele kuvumela umntwana ukuba ondle ngendlela afuna ngayo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ke ngoko, musa ukuvumela umntwana akhale ngokungalawulekiyo okanye ugcine umkhondo weeyure angazityiyo. Ngalo lonke ixesha umntwana evukile okanye eqala ukukhala, yibeke esifubeni sakho kwaye angazifezekisa iimfuno zakho ngokwakhe. Oku akuncedi kuphela umntwana wakho kuba utya ngesantya sakhe okanye uziva ekhuselekile ngalo lonke ixesha, kodwa kuluncedo nakumama ngokwakhe:
- Ukuncancisa ibango kunjalo Eyona ndlela yokuthintela isifo sokukrala kwebele
- Iseka i- ukuncancisa ngempumelelo kunye nokuhlala ixesha elide, Ngezibonelelo ezinkulu ekukhuleni komntwana nakubudlelwane bukamama nomntwana
- Amathuba okubandezeleka ancitshisiwe Ukudakumba emva kokubeleka
- Kulula ukuya uchache emzimbeni
Iimpawu zokuba umntwana wakho ulambile
Ukongeza kokukhala, unokuyibona loo nto usana lwakho lulambile ukuba uyayigcina le miqondiso ilandelayo:
- Emva kwesiselo esinye intwana ihlala ilila: Ukuba emva kokuthatha ukondla okuncinci kuyaqhubeka ukukhala, kunokwenzeka ukuba oku bekungonelanga. Zama ukuyishiya kwibele ngalinye ixesha elide, nokuba ukutya kuncinci kakhulu, usana alunakukhupha ibele ngokupheleleyo.
- Jonga ilweyile lakhe: Le yenye yeendlela ezicacileyo zokwazi ukuba ngaba umntwana wakho wondla ngokuchanekileyo. Ukuba umntwana wondla ngokufanelekileyo, uya kudyobha amanabukeni aliqela ngosuku ngepee kunye poop. Kwimeko apho uqaphele ukuba amanabukeni omntwana wakho akazaliswa rhoqo, kunokwenzeka ukuba akakufumani ukutya akufunayo.
- Ukukhula: Olunye uphawu olucacileyo kukubeka esweni ukukhula kwalo. Ngexesha leeveki zokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ulawule ubunzima bomntwana wakho. Ungayenza ekhemesti kwaye kuya kufuneka uyibhale phantsi ukujonga ukuba ingaba ukukhula kwayo kuqhelekile kwaye kulungile. Ngaphandle koko, kunokwenzeka ukuba oyena nobangela kukusilela ekutyeni kodwa ungayeki ukuya kugqirha wabantwana ukuze aliqwalasele kwakhona ityala.
Landela ithuku lakho
Kubalulekile ukuba mamela imiqondiso ezakukuphawula ebomini. Ukuba ngumama yindlela emangalisayo kwaye inzima, kwiimeko ezininzi, iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso zabanye abantu zinokukunceda ukusombulula iingxaki ezithile. Nangona kunjalo, isazela sakho soomama siya kuhlala sikukhapha kwaye kufuneka umamele ngamaxesha onke.
Iimeko ezininzi zahlukile kwaye nguwe kuphela, ukusuka kwilungelo lakho njengomama, oya kuba nakho ukuzibona phambi kwakhe nabani na ongomnye. Musa ukuthandabuza iimvakalelo zakho, awulawuli ukondla kosana lwakho ngokweeshedyuli ezimiselweyo ezingahambelani neemfuno zomntwana wakho. Yonwabele ukuncancisa kuba iyinto eyahlukileyo, engenakuphikiswa kunye nesipho sendalo sobabini kunye nosana lwakho.