Usapho olwabelanayo, luyakwazi ukugcina umqobo wolwaneliseko, ukhuseleko kunye nolonwabo.
Indawo emnandi yenza ukuhlalisana ngoxolo, ukuzola kunye nokunyamezeleka. Usapho olwabelanayo, luyakwazi ukugcina umqobo wolwaneliseko, ukhuseleko kunye nolonwabo. Emva koko, siza kuthetha ngomxholo wolonwabo losapho.
Intsapho ibophelelwe
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuba umntu azive ekhululekile kwaye abe ngokwakhe kukuba kunye nabantu ababaxabisayo.Bayamthanda ngenxa yento ayiyo nendlela ayiyo, bayamxhasa kwaye abamgwebi. Usapho ligazi, luyimbophelelo kunye nokuthembana. Amalungu osapho ayinxalenye yomnye nomnye, ayadibana, ahlala izinto ezifanayo, anokuthanda okufanayo okanye anika ingxelo ngexesha abalichitha kunye.
Abekho abanye abantu abanokwazi omnye umntu ngaphandle kosapho ngokwalo olwenzayo nelinye lamalungu alo. Okanye ubuncinci kunokuthiwa Usapho uhlala kuyo yonke into kwaye uchitha ixesha elininzi naye, de ube uyila eyakho intsapho. Kuthiwa umanyano ngamandla, ukuba la maxesha anzima yile nto yenza ukuba abantu baxhasane kwaye babonise uthando kunye nokunyaniseka abaziva ngako kwabanye.
Uxolo lokuziva uthandwa luyonwabisa
Ulonwabo kusapho lufumaneka kuzinzo lweemvakalelo kunye noxolo lwangaphakathi. Ukuzazi ukuba uyathandwa kwaye ukhuselekile kunika ukhuseleko.
Nabani na onokuthi baziva bonwabile kwiindawo ezithile zobomi babo, nangona kunjalo, kunjalo xa unento onokwabelana ngayo okanye into ekunzima ukujongana nayo, xa ujika uye kubantu bakowenu. I bazali, ba zalwana, Ootatomkhulu okanye oomalume ngabantu abaphayo bengalindelanga kwimbuyekezo, bayinxalenye yomntu. Ukwazi ukuba awuwedwa kuyanceda ukuba uqhubeke kwaye ujongane nemiceli mngeni eyahlukeneyo ngamandla.
Ukuzazi okanye ukujongana nomntu omthandayo, ilungu losapho, kubangela ukungazinzi, ukungabi nathemba, kunika ithemba nokungonwabi okwenza kubenzima ukuba ukuzithemba phezulu kunye nokuqina kwendalo. Ukutyhala kuvela kukhuseleko kunye nokwazi ukuba unomatrasi oza kuwa phantsi xa uphantsi. Ukungakwazi ukufowunela ilungu losapho okanye ufike ekhaya ulifumane lingenanto, kubangela usizi kwaye kuhlala kubanga ukuxinezeleka.
Ukonwaba kusapho
Imvakalelo yokuba neengcambu kunye nokuba lilungu leqela inika isiseko sobuqu esingenakho ezinye iinkalo.
Ulonwabo luvela kwimpilo-ntle yomntu ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ndiziva ndonwabile ngawe, nabantu obathandayo, ukuba nomsebenzi owuzalisekisayo ..., kubangela ukwaneliseka. Ukonwaba kusapho kukuphila ngokweemvakalelo. Ngaphakathi kosapho kukho iqhina lomanyano kunye nendawo eqhelekileyo yokuthuthuzela, kwaye ikhaya liyasungulwa kunye nemilinganiselo ekwabelwana ngayo kunye neminqweno yokuyenza kunye. Xa amalungu eqela ephikisana okanye enezikhundla ezahlukileyo kwinto ethile, ukuthetha kunye nokufikelela kwinqanaba elisondeleyo kwenza abantu bafumane intuthuzelo kunye nokuqonda.
Oku akuthethi ukuba makubekho ukuzithoba okanye ukuba ngumntu omnye osoloko ethatha isigqibo, kodwa ukuzisa izikhundla kunye kunye nokukhwela kwicala elinye kuchaza ukuba luyintoni na usapho olumanyeneyo. Inkululeko yokucinga inakho kwaye kufanele ukuba ikhona, kodwa ikwahloniphe enye. Ukuqhagamshelana namalungu osapho lwethu kuchaphazela ngokuthe ngqo amava exesha elizayo.
Eyona nto iphambili ebomini
Umntu ngamnye uveza ezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini, azinika ukubaluleka kwazo. Rhoqo kwenzeka ukuba umntu aphumelele kwezakhe u msebenzi okanye kubomi besibini, kodwa uziva uncothulwe okanye ulahlekile. Kukho abantu abathi nangona banobomi obugcweleyo kwinqanaba losapho, Kuya kufuneka uyazi iingcambu zakho kwaye uvela phi, bangabazali bakho bokwenyama, abantakwenu...
Imvakalelo yokugxila, ukuba lilungu losapho, yongeza inkxaso kunye nesiseko ezinye izinto ezisilelayo ukubonelela ngaso. Ikratshi lokuba ngowomnombo, lokufumana ilifa amaxabiso okanye iimpawu ezithileUkuba uzibona ubonakalisile kwenye, kuyanceda ukwazi ukuba awuwedwa ehlabathini, unokuthembela kwenye. Ukonwaba kusapho kukuzinza kunye nokuncamathisela kuwo onke amanqanaba yiyo loo nto kufuneka ikhathalelwe.