Akuqhelekanga kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba abantwana babonise uloyiko oluthile lwayo yonke into enxulumene nehlabathi lamahlaya. Lolunye uloyiko oluqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana kwaye ungayithatheli phantsi. Kukho iimeko apho olu loyiko kunokuba nzima ukusombulula i-phobia.
Ewe awunyanzelekanga ukuba ulinde olo loyiko ukuba lubi ngakumbi kwaye uzame ukusombulula ingxaki. Kwinqaku elilandelayo sikubonisa oonobangela okanye izizathu zokuba kutheni abantwana bethanda ukoyika ii-clown kwaye indlela efanelekileyo yokunyanga olo loyiko.
Uloyiko lwabantwana lwamahlaya
Ukutsho ukoyika kuqhelekile ebantwaneni kwaye baninzi abantwana abanexesha elibi kakhulu lokubabona. Ngokomgaqo, umhlekisi kufuneka abangele isiphumo esichaseneyo kwaye ahlekise abantwana, nangona kunjalo kwipesenti ephezulu yabantwana, Iiklowni zoyikisa kakhulu. Izizathu zokuba oku kwenzeke zahlukile:
- Inani lomhlekisi libonakaliswa yinyani yokufihla ubuso bayo bokwenyani kwaye unxibe izithambiso ezininzi kunye newigi. Oku kubangela ukungathembani okukhulu kwabancinci kwaye Ukungakwazi ukubona ubuso bokwenyani kubangela uloyiko.
- Ukwenza i-clown kuyamangalisa kakhulu kwaye kuyabaxwa kwaye ayihambelani kwaphela nomfanekiso onabantwana abanabantu abadala.
- Esinye isizathu solu loyiko yinyani yezandi ezizikhuphelayo kunye nohlobo lweentshukumo abaqhele ukuzenza rhoqo.
- Imekobume ejikeleze inani lomhlekisi alincedi nokuba. Kukho ingxolo eninzi kwaye iyabongamela abancinci.
- Kwelinye icala, umhlekisi uphathwa kumdlalo bhanyabhanya okanye kumabonwakude njengomntu okhohlakeleyo nowoyikisayo. Oku kunefuthe elibi kumfanekiso abanokuba nawo abantwana abaninzi kuwo.
Indlela yokujongana noloyiko lwabantwana lwee-clown
Njengokuba kuninzi lokoyika, bayahamba njengoko beza. Njengokuba abantwana bekhula bayaqonda ukuba ii-clown akufuneki zoyikwe. Ingxaki kukuba uloyiko luye lube mandundu kwaye luphele luba yinto yokwenyani yomntwana. Kungumsebenzi wabazali ukwenza ukuba abantwana babone ukuba ii-clown zimpawu ezenzelwe ukwenza abantu bahleke hayi enye into.
- Abazali akufuneki bayithathe kancinci into yokuba omncinci enoloyiko lokwenyani lwamahlaya. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungamvela njani kwaye umxhase ukuze azive eqondwa ngalo lonke ixesha.
- Ukuba omncinci unoloyiko lokwenyani lwamahlaya, awusoze umse kwisekisi okanye nakuphi na umboniso apho bakhoyo. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, uloyiko lunokunyuka kwaye lube yinto yokwenene.
- Ukuze umntwana aqhele ngakumbi ii-clown kwaye oyise uloyiko, kulungile ukuthenga i-makeup kunye neewigi zokudlala ukunxiba njengee-clown. Ngale ndlela nangomonde, umntwana angakulibala uloyiko lwee-clown kwaye ababone njengabantu abazifihlileyo abafuna ukuhlekisa abanye.
- Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntwana asuke kwelo nani libangela uloyiko kunye noloyiko kwiindawo ezilinganayo kwaye baqale ukubona ii-clown ngokwazo njengabantu abazifihlileyo ngaphandle kokuqhubeka.
Ngamafutshane, uloyiko lokuhlekwa ngabantu kunokuba yinto eqhelekileyo abanokuhlupheka ngayo abantwana abaninzi kwaye ngethamsanqa ihlala ixeshana. Enye into eyahluke ngokupheleleyo neyahlukileyo kukuziva usoyika nto leyo ebangela ukuba ube nexhala. Ukuba le yokugqibela yenzekile, kubalulekile ukuba uye kwingcali eyaziyo ukusombulula ingxaki enjalo, kuba kule meko kunokwenzeka ukuba yinto yokoyika.