Ubuntu bomntu bohluke kakhulu, ngamnye wenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo xa ejongene neemeko ezifanayo. Uvelwano ukubanakho kwesidalwa esiphilayo ukubona utshintsho kunye nenkuthazo ngokusebenzisa izivamvo. Kodwa ayingabo bonke abantu abonwabela inqanaba elifanayo lobuntununtunu. Abanye abantu basabela ngendlela ecekeceke kakhulu yokukhuthaza.
Endaweni yokuba kukho into eyaziwa kancinci echaza abantu ababona ezo zinto zikwinqanaba eliphezulu. Olu phawu lubizo lwe Ukuziva okuphezulu kwabantu kwaye ichaphazela ama-20% abemi behlabathi.
Luluphi uphawu oluPhakamileyo lwaBantu (PAS)?
Abantu abanophawu lwe Uvakalelo oluphezulu, Banoluhlu lwe izinto ezithile kwinkqubo yakho yeemvakalelo. Olu hlobo lweempawu lucinga ukuba umntu onazo ufumana inkuthazo kunye nemibono ngendlela ephuhliswe ngakumbi.
Olu phawu luqinisekisiwe ngokwenzululwazi kwaye lunempawu ezithile ezinceda ukufumanisa umntu onobuntununtunu obuphezulu (PAS). Ezi mpawu zezi:
- Amandla anamandla okubona inkuthazo ifunyenwe ivela kwindalo esingqongileyo. Banokuthatha iinkcukacha kunye neequirks abantu abanobuntununtunu obuqhelekileyo abaqhelekanga ukuthwala kuzo.
- Yenza iingcinga Kunye neemeko ngendlela enzulu ngakumbi nangakumbi.
- Utyekelo lokuzahlula eveliswa kukuvuselelwa okungaphezulu, umbono onzulu onjalo unokubangela ukudinwa ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
- Omnye amandla amakhulu okuziva unovelwano. Bangabantu abaxhasayo kwaye banotyekelo lokusoloko bebeka endaweni yomnye umntu.
Ubuthathaka obuphezulu obuchaphazela njani oomama
Ukuba ngumama yinto eguqukayo kwiimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Utshintsho lwehormonal ludlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu, kodwa eyona ndima iphambili ithathwa ngokuba ngumzali. Inkathalo yosana kunye nothando oluphuphumayo olunokuthi ngamanye amaxesha lubangele uzinzo. Iimvakalelo zikamama zichaphazela ukukhula kunye nokukhula yabantwana. Ngeendlela ezininzi ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa kananjalo ngokungalunganga.
Iimpawu zoomama abanobuntununtunu obuphezulu zezi:
- Mkhulu ifuthe ekungabikho kwexesha ngokobuqu. Usana luhlala lonke ixesha kunye nayo yonke indawo, ngakumbi kunina, ubuncinci kwiinyanga zokuqala. Umama obuthathaka kakhulu utyhola ngokulahleka kwesithuba sakhe, ubuqu bakhe.
- Uzinzo lwe isibini siyagxadazela. Ngokubanzi, ootata noomama baneyantlukwano xa kufikwa kumba wokukhulisa abantwana. Oomama abanovelwano kakhulu banokuhlutha kwaye ngenxa yoko bazihlukanise, amandla abo amakhulu okubonisa anokubangela ukuba umama ashiye iqabane.
- Ukungakwazi ukumelanakuxinzelelo loluntu. Ubume bendalo buzele ngabantu abathi, ngeenjongo ezilungileyo okanye ezimbi, basoloko bebeka izimvo malunga nokuba ngumama. Olu xinzelelo lwasentlalweni lokuba ngowona mama ungoyena mama ungathathi ntweni.
Iimpawu ezintle zoomama abanobuntununtunu obuphezulu
Esinye sezibonelelo zokuba ngumama ophilayo kunye noluvo oluphezulu lokuziva uvelwano. Olu phawu luyakukunceda uqonde ngcono umntwana wakho kwiinkqubo ezithile zokuvuthwa aya kuphila ubomi bakhe bonke. Uvakalelo oluphezulu lubanika abantu ukukwazi ukubona ubugcisa kunye nomculo unemvakalelo okhethekileyo. Iimpawu ezibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwengqondo, ubuchule bokuyila, ubugcisa kunye neemvakalelo zabantwana.
Umama ugcwele iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, zombini ezintle nezingalunganga. Isimo sakho sendlela kunye nendlela owenza ngayo iimeko zobomi zidluliselwa ebantwaneni. Kodwa uvakalelo oluphezulu akufuneki luchaphazele kakubi ekukhuleni kwabantwana bakho ngendlela ethile.
Nangona kunjalo, njengoko besitshilo ekuqaleni, yi-20% kuphela yabemi behlabathi esele inePAS. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuphela ngabantu aba-2 kwabali-10 abanolu phawu. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ngenxa yeempawu zakho unokungena kolu hlobo lwempawu, kuya kufuneka usebenze uthotho lwe iimvavanyo zokukunceda ubone.